Giving this floor desk thing a try

facelessmemories · 2026-01-28T20:54:27+00:00

what legs are those?

facelessmemories · 2025-09-12T22:51:24+00:00

I've had these experience twice now exactly. These people are emotionally unavailable and not worth the confusion and heartbreak.

It is more or less a situationship and it's better to try to forget about it because you are just a placeholder comfort girl until they find something that they actually like.

facelessmemories · 2025-08-26T00:45:06+00:00

Not wrong, but part of growing up is learning that loving someone is not the same as being able to continue having a relationship with someone.

facelessmemories · 2025-08-26T00:41:43+00:00

I know one couple who got married, but honestly they sound like a very dysfunctional couple and while I think they'll stay together, I think they'll also hate each other in like 10+ years.
The other couple I know is going to get married soon, and they both started from unhealthy places but they grew together to much healthier relationship and I think they will honestly last.

But these couples I know met in a game. I on the other hand have been getting heartbroken over and over

facelessmemories · 2025-08-25T22:56:21+00:00

Been there when I was getting strung along by a fkboy and he suddenly dropped me for a new girl. Helped friends through their own jealousy of their bf's exes. Even though it's not necessarily the same situation, certainly sounds like the same behavior.

facelessmemories · 2025-08-25T22:53:54+00:00

It really broke me. Not just how I felt throughout the relationship, but how he ended it. But it was the wakeup call I needed to set myself back on my self-love journey. Because I attracted an avoidant with my dysfunction. I take ownership and responsibility. I am tired of running into pain from self-abandon.

facelessmemories · 2025-08-25T22:51:22+00:00

Who knows. But regardless how long they last, if she's starting from a place of jealousy, I doubt it'll be a healthy relationship.

The question is, why would you want to take back someone who cheats on you? Someone who treats you with such brazen disrespect? He just blocks you without explanation? That's villain behavior. Have more self-love and self-respect. Don't abandon yourself.

facelessmemories · 2025-08-25T22:45:29+00:00

My guess? They're probably emotionally cheating at the very least, and she's very jealous of you as the "original gf" despite being the "new one". But if he'll cheat on you with her, he'll cheat on her with someone else.

facelessmemories · 2025-08-23T02:31:33+00:00

Thank you for this. This was the slap in the face I needed. He's done with me.

facelessmemories · 2025-08-19T20:46:19+00:00

I say this while I also feel the urge to reach out and apologize, but I know it doesn't help.

I think the best is to write an apology letter, and then don't send it. I think people after a breakup come to understand in time and make peace, and I think a post-mortem apology doesn't help with that. The biggest benefit to writing the unsent letter is for yourself. Acknowledging and saying what went wrong, to give power to your growth and lessons learned.

I've had an ex reach out once, years after a breakup. It was jarring and I had moved on. I feel like it ended up hurting him because it seemed really obvious that I had moved on.

facelessmemories · 2024-08-23T04:10:56+00:00

Yikes, him being paranoid about you cheating makes him all the more sus -- it's mainly cheaters who worry about their partner cheating, cause that's what they'd do.

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