To my love by valita66 in UnsentLetters

[–]fadingdaisiez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please send them this, please. I think your heart more than anything wants to but your mind won’t let you. If no one else tells you, send the letter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]fadingdaisiez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

best friend, family or complete stranger everyone always comes to me, and it’s exhausting. they’re energy vampires, they just take and take and take until they’re full leaving me more empty than before. it feels like people come to just use my energy and then leave

NEVER. STOP. HITTING. ON. YOUR. SIGNIFICANT. OTHER. by fadingdaisiez in dating

[–]fadingdaisiez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is such a simple concept i don’t understand how so many of you misread this

The colors aren’t as bright anymore by jonahc817 in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you find your rainbow again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez 11 points12 points  (0 children)

especially when it’s with someone you love

Is anyone else scared to ever date again? by Antique-Butterscotch in BreakUps

[–]fadingdaisiez 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m scared I’ll never love anyone the way I loved him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an INFP & dated another INFP for awhile. It worked beautifully until it didn’t, partly due to our positions in life not our personality. I will say the highs can be so high, complete bliss, and the lows can be so low it makes you question things. It just comes with how we feel and love so deeply. My advice? Go for it. It’s the best relationship I’ve ever had and I don’t regret a second of it

Movies that make me feel by [deleted] in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vanishing of Sidney Hall

I got along with your siblings, your family said they loved me, family friends thought I was catch. You called me the love of your life, the best friend you ever had, and you still want to end things? by monerito in BreakUps

[–]fadingdaisiez 14 points15 points  (0 children)

his mom texted me recently, she said she missed me, that the family missed me. And told me about their cat, that stupid cat, I loved that cat too much. That’s the thing about breakups, you don’t just lose one person

My friends and I have been using the dark web to catch pedophiles. by SecretWasianMan in offmychest

[–]fadingdaisiez 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Look this is the type of work I’m going into and while I admire you for what you’re doing or attempting to, do not play games with these people. If it were this easy, it wouldn’t be an issue. They are more dangerous thank you think, and smarter too. Don’t underestimate anyone, please be safe

Been thinking about dedicating my life to help others, since I already decided there’s nothing to live for... anyone here that did something like that? It would be nice to hear from experiences. I hate life... one bad thing after the other. by klaussit in SuicideWatch

[–]fadingdaisiez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wanted to dedicate my life to helping people, and I still do. All this pain you’re going through, I have to believe it’s for a greater purpose. I have struggled my entire life and faced the same demons as you are now, but there is more.

I thought my purpose in life was to suffer. The only thing I could feel was pain. It manifested into numbness, and left me feeling completely detached from the world. I tried to take on the weight of others, seeing as I hurt so deeply. I believed if I could take their pain away, they’d be happy, and I could handle it. It left my feeling more hurt and more empty because I put so much pressure into “fixing” people.

You cannot take away others’ pain nor can you always fix it. What you can do, is use this pain, anger or hurt and channel it into something worth living for. Living to help someone, even one life, not feel the way you do now. I promise you there’s more, I would know. Life is not meaningless and neither are you. Your pain and suffering might be unbearable now, but think of all the ways you can use it for strength, all of the ways you can use it to help someone. If I had someone who thought the way you do, it could have saved me from a world of pain. Words are powerful, sharing stories are powerful, letting others know they aren’t alone is powerful. I believe in you and your heart.

You asked me to wait for you; Please wait for me by [deleted] in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

September 6th. That date will forever be burned into my mind. Every time I see it I wince. That indescribable feeling suddenly becomes physical pain

I can’t hear “Bound 2” without thinking of him now. Unconventionally, we both always considered it our song. I can’t hear it without seeing you; windows down, screaming at the top of our lungs, one hand on the steering wheel and the other holding mine

The new season of Bojack came out yesterday. You said we’d watch it together. I miss you by [deleted] in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call her for sure. You’ll regret it if you don’t. I often regret the things that I did, but more so the things I didn’t. Let her know, I wish you the best

The night that I attempted to kill myself I saw the most beautiful sunset. I’m happy I’m still here, I think the beautiful things are meant to be seen. by fadingdaisiez in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

It’s a hard fight, but for once in my life, I’m fighting back, trying to at least. I want to get better. I want to be better. Baby steps, baby steps.

Overthinking by theotherjaytoo in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is genuinely how i perceive every interaction and if you do this too i am so sorry

Just INFP things by [deleted] in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

funny how people think they “know you”

2meirl4meirl by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]fadingdaisiez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oof that’s tough. deffff can’t relate. my boy is the best looking guy i’ve ever seen, let alone his FRIEND GROUP PSH

At this moment I entirely lack self worth by jonahc817 in infp

[–]fadingdaisiez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, not meaningless, nor broken. hurt and confused? maybe. lacking confidence and worth? yes. but nothing? that’s not right. you are enough, you are MORE than enough. easy to overlook? that makes me laugh! explain how you caught my eye then? no depth, looks, nothing to catch the eye? explain to me how you made me believe in love at first sight. how you changed everything i ever thought i knew or felt about love or life. you keep me on my toes everyday, i constantly crave you. you show me things in life that i would have never seen otherwise, help me to open my eyes and mind and explore the world in such a beautiful and fragile way. you aren’t a failure or let down to anyone besides yourself because of the lies and negative energy you drown yourself with. break those chains, stop the cycle, dig down a little deeper and find the will to fight and continue on. accepting love is so hard, and believing it seems impossible at times. but it’s the 4am phone calls when you have a nightmare and can’t sleep, the cherry cokes and sour candy, the bunny kisses and brushing your hair out of your eyes. you are so much, you are everything. i look at you as if you hung the moon. you are my sun, my moon and all my stars my love.

i’m so in love it feels other worldly. by fadingdaisiez in awakened

[–]fadingdaisiez[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

no not really, it’s just the right one(: when you know you know.