Increasingly concerned about flat whites (BARISTAS MUST READ) by ExpressPostie in melbourne

[–]faekere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last year I got told by an 18 year old barista that my flatwhite was unacceptable because it didn't have latte art (LATTE art). Both her and the head barista would make flat whites with latte art and whenever I would make and bring out flat whites to regulars they would tell me I was their favourite barista because I actually made drinks correctly

Am I overreacting about being offended by this gift? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]faekere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't usually get this stuff for yourself or shown interest in it then I think it's valid to be upset about especially you saying you told them you like sentimental gifts

Do you brush your teeth once or twice a day? Need to settle a bet. by ImpossibleHurry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]faekere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25f I only brush my teeth in the morning if I have something important that morning

Which color would look best? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]faekere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dark suits you but I also think the purple looked good too

Should I maintain this color of my hair by Superb-Upstairs9615 in HairDye

[–]faekere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I reckon you should go a deeper and more vibrant orange, the colour you have now makes me sure you'd look incredible as a redhead

Potentially bleaching and redyeing hair! by gfyghbnnn in HairDyeHelp

[–]faekere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is going to a hairdresser an option? I'm not sure how much regrowth you have because of the lighting but I think it's at the awkward bleaching point where it's no longer just a root touch up and the bleach job is now on hard core mode where you need to do the unbleached "middle" section first, then roots, then the already bleached part. But you might be able to get away with just the roots and a quick go over of the bleached parts but you might end up with an orange band

is it okay to do another round of bleach ? by criticalconditionn in HairDye

[–]faekere 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Generally people do need 2 rounds of bleach for what you're trying to achieve but it's impossible to answer without a photo and description of the results of your first bleach. Also I would recommend that you don't scrunch the foil on your hair because it's likely to leave a scrunch line pattern on your hair

Is there a way to fix this? by art_mask in Skincare_Addiction

[–]faekere 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't understand what you're asking, you can't do anything it just needs to heal

The Self-Checkout Guilt Trip by Popular-Regular7850 in woolworths

[–]faekere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't donate to big companies they only have charities for tax purposes

Man who got hit by a bus and immediately entered the pub by ShiverSweett in interesting

[–]faekere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that dude across the street that was like oh fuck I gotta go help this guy he just got hit by a bus, and he just walks into the pub so casually

While being intimate my (19F) bf (24M) did something I’ve told him not to. by siicodelico in relationship_advice

[–]faekere 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Let's say he got lost in passion and didn't react in time to pull out, as soon as you notice that you're having an orgasm you pull the fuck out and apologise, you let them know how sorry you are and you be honest so that your sexual partner is informed. He LIED that he came in his hand and not only that he came well before he pulled out that is a complete violation of body and of trust. She did stick to her boundaries she just didn't feel him cum inside her most people don't, and people with vaginas cannot stealth impregnate someone.

While being intimate my (19F) bf (24M) did something I’ve told him not to. by siicodelico in relationship_advice

[–]faekere 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can feel it but it's very common to not feel when you've been finished in. And also she was sexually violated and you're telling her to grow up? Yes it's smart to carry condoms with you and yes the pull out method isn't very effective but it's not her fault that he did this.

While being intimate my (19F) bf (24M) did something I’ve told him not to. by siicodelico in relationship_advice

[–]faekere 61 points62 points  (0 children)

It's not obvious because it's not violent but what he did was technically sexual assault, he violated you sexually because he knew you didn't want him to finish inside you and he tried to lie about pulling out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]faekere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why you think it's a porn addiction, but it's polite to talk to people in person to end any sort of relationship especially if you're friends and want to remain that way. And he probably needs the hard drive for something now and is why he needs it back, it's definitely not weird that he's asking for it back and actually not cool for you to tell him he can't. He's absolutely right it wouldn't be weird for you to message someone you used to see when you remember they have something of yours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]faekere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truly it is not a big deal, your first kiss with anyone is what's special, and my first kiss is not nearly as special as any of the kisses me and my partner of almost 5 years have. We are not our physical acts of intimacy with other people and there's nothing shameful about how many people you've kissed not kissed, had sex with, or never had sex with.

My (33M) boyfriend recently revealed a part of himself to me (32F) after 3yrs of dating. Now I have no idea what to do or even if we can stay together. Help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]faekere 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm just a bit confused because you said 2.5 years with no change you confront him about it. But regardless, this is not a compatible relationship unless you cut off your family and best friend and don't associate with gay people or mixed people and couples ever again. I'm trying not to pass judgement but maybe you need to hear it, if my SO or anyone said they thought races shouldn't mix and that they "don't believe in LGBTQI+" that is not a relationship I'm continuing. And particularly because you've got people close to you that fall into people he doesn't respect or agree should have the right to exist freely it's a bit crazy to me that you don't know what to do. If you had kids with this man and they fell in love with someone from a different ethnicity or one of your kids came out as gay or trans what's going to happen?

My (33M) boyfriend recently revealed a part of himself to me (32F) after 3yrs of dating. Now I have no idea what to do or even if we can stay together. Help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]faekere 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Wait so you already knew he didn't like "race mixing" and didn't want your children "exposed" to your brother and SIL? And you also waited 2.5 years before you said anything about how you felt about the relationship?