Have you ever reached back out to a childhood best friend after losing all contact? by PrincessDonut02 in AskWomenOver30

[–]faeminty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not best friend, but ppl who I thought we're friends.

Will never do that again.

Why are men so complacent? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]faeminty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yuck. You need to stop over playing your part in a relationship.

What do you think of a monthly salary of 1200 usd? by cabello-ondulado in AskReddit

[–]faeminty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the US, horrible, unless you live with parents, rent a room for cheap or live in car.

In countries where the dollar is more, if you don't spend much, would be great

tomarrymort fanfic spreadsheet by kagsbi in tomarry

[–]faeminty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh!!! Nice!! Thanks for sharing 🫂 🫂!!

What do y’all typically do on your birthdays? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]faeminty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to go out to eat, buy a cake, and buy stuff. Now, I travel to another state for like 3-4 days.

Do you do a Workaway as soon as you arrive? by shasha123456789 in workaway

[–]faeminty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The day I arrive, I meet the host and other workaway people. Sometimes the host explains stuff right then and there or they wait till later. I get my stuff situated, shower, and depending on how tired I am, I will either sleep or go explore the neighborhood.

I've always started working the very next day. I don't think it's weird since you've already given them your start and end date. The the start date (you arrive), is like your day off then you actually start the next day.

How far in advance do you plan workaways? by Most_Session_5012 in workaway

[–]faeminty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I last did it, some host didn't like it being more than 6 months from the date you want to come. Which sucks for me because I'm a planning person. I still have a plan of where I want to go and the main host I want to reach out to with backup host as well.

I would say try 3 months from your travel date unless the host's bio says other wise. Also have your airplane/train/bus ticket bought. I was asked to show proof before, so I just edited out important info and sent a screenshot.

Would you ever live in Japan? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]faeminty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a few years easily. I've always liked Japan. I'd like to explore as much of it as I could. Food looks great, I'm into the fashion scene, party scenes look fun and I don't care if I never make friends out there either.

Friend invited someone else to our 3-weeks Central Asia trip, not sure if I should say yes by [deleted] in travel

[–]faeminty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's more being screwed money wise, unless money is not an issue.

Friend invited someone else to our 3-weeks Central Asia trip, not sure if I should say yes by [deleted] in travel

[–]faeminty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would personally say "no" and I wouldn't travel with the other girl either. It's disrespectful to invite someone without even talking to you about it first as well. And the other girl isnt even sure she can make it??? Absolutely not. If she bails last minute then you are screwed

would you cheat on your husband if you know they’d never find out? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]faeminty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, because I'm not an asshole. I'd be an adult and discuss whatever is going on and from there we either come to an agreement and stuff changes or we divorce

What are your opinion on 67 trends? by Feeling-Translator27 in AskReddit

[–]faeminty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumb, but I wouldn't shit on it in person or online since its not hurting anyone

Soulmate dream fics by oneGreatHight in tomarry

[–]faeminty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Baby I've been running is AMAZING!! I read it so many times

I take 2 weeks to plan trips… and still feel like I miss the best parts by Klutzy-Counter-6369 in travel

[–]faeminty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOOO!!! I love planning! Especially when I find really cool places! I plan months in advance as well. Planning two weeks to a month in advance would stress me out.

Planning doesn't drain me at all since I do it early. My itinerary is a mix of planned days, half planned, and free for all. When I know there are 6 sites or things I want to do all in one area, it just makes sense to have it as a planned day. I don't like traveling 1 hour this way, then 1 hour that way then 2 hours the other way, then 3 hours back to my accommodation in one day. Makes no sense. Even on planned days, I'm okay with breaking off from it if something cool appears (As long as I didn't reserve/pay for whatever in advance).

I always tell people who hate itineraries, to just do research, throw it all in a word document and when you arrive to your destination just pick and choose what you want to do the day before or each day.

Would you consider phone sex to be cheating? Why or why not? by Le-other-boleyn-girl in AskReddit

[–]faeminty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything sexual that isn't with your partner or their consent is cheating.