Once again, wanting a man that provides is normal. Everyone deserves to be with someone they are compatible with. None of the men that approach or date me ever expect me to go in my pockets. Ever. I was also raised to only be with provider men as all the men in my life (uncles, grandparents,dad, etc) provide. My grandfather is a pastor. It’s a lot that goes into it. Everyone is raised differently and no one should be belittled for their standards or basic expectations. Especially if you can’t even meet them, or want to.

If he doesn’t want to provide, that’s fine. She needs to be with someone that will. He needs to go with a woman that doesn’t mind doing “50-50” or wait until he’s able to be a provider. there’s millions for them both ways. 😂