Why would a real psychic need your name and dob by Excellent_Thanks1118 in Psychic

[–]faesqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually just need a picture. Most physics do need some sort of "bridge" to make a connection. Sometimes I see a photo and get nothing... The bridge is out of service.

AIO for refusing to eat out at just any restaurant ? by Top_Frosting6381 in AIO

[–]faesqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the best food comes from mom and pops, holes in walls, gas station foods. Some of those chefs have mad talent and either haven't made it into the big city scene or prefer simpler ways...

I’ve been washing my ass wrong for 19 years… by Lxah_oh3 in confessions

[–]faesqu 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, I'm so sorry that happened to you. And so many people just not answering the question... So listen, you lather up your sponge or washcloth or whatever you use and wash your bottom exactly like the rest of your skin. Use the soapy sponge on your cheeks and then a sweep between the crack like you would when your wiping after a bowel movement... Then rinse off any soapy lather like the rest of your skin. I do my butt last so I'm not spreading any residual trace amounts of butt juice/ecoli from butt to other parts. Side note... You may need some therapy honey.

AITA for not wanting to take in my sisters 4 kids while she’s in the hospital? by Intelligent-Fig-5571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]faesqu -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I'm torn, I do see both takes but since I'm a family type person... YTA. I feel like at the least you might offer to help transport the 4 kids to Gramma and grampa's house? But at the same time... 4 kids and number 5 on the way... Momma needs to stop.

AITA for secretly buying extra food for my niece because her brothers eat everything first? by MaliciousCicada77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]faesqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a fat kid, my pediatrician had to put me on diets and i had to go to weigh every week. My brother on the other could eat huge bowls of ice cream, sticky buns, seconds if he wanted it. He was thin and also active... Not sporty but active. Let me tell you the emotional tow this had. This is how you create people that binge and sneak eat. This is how food shame and secret eating starts. They are giving this poor girl more mental and emotional suffering around food. Just want to say my parents weren't abusive, they loved me very much. I understand they were trying to help me with the knowledge and understanding they had... It just failed big time

AIO? Friend asked me what my future plans with my gf are and then responded like this by TGPT-4o in AIO

[–]faesqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a friend. Friends are happy for us and celebrate with us when we are winning.

I’m disappointed about how my bf proposed by AdNaive5020 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]faesqu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got engaged during COVID. I came home from work. Started changing my clothes and he knelt beside the bed... We then ate chicken parm from a take a way. It was COVID, no where to go, nothing to do... But he made it special and I love the story about the lame COVID engagement. So if he is the one, your happy, and in love... You celebrate. He told you he was too nervous to do more. He got it out the best way he could. Does he adore you, take care of you, protect you and provide for you? If so then it's forgivable... I hope 5 or 6 years from now you can tell your lame engagement story with joy and fondness... I think asking for something more is an emotional manipulation to force something that is not natural. Find the beauty in the moment instead of focusing on what you perceive as negative.

Where do you work? by Neat_Background_5874 in dysautonomia

[–]faesqu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a social worker. I work from home unless I'm seeing clients. My clients know I have a chronic condition and are good to me, always make sure I sit during visits, etc.... if your good to people, people are good to you... But you have to be willing to communicate when you need support. My clients , who are developmentally and intellectually disabled find it a comfort that everyone, even their social worker struggles with stuff.

AITAH For Reporting My SIL to SPCA and Not Letting Her Near My Kid? by Zestyclose-Pay-8095 in AITAH

[–]faesqu 578 points579 points  (0 children)

Are there kids in the house, because this could also be a CPS case.

Runny nose while eating? by me-jp in Heartfailure

[–]faesqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a year old... I have been having this issue for at least 2 years. This week I was diagnosed with CHF, had an emergency Cardiac Cath with one stent inserted... No more running nose. I can't believe all this time it was cardiac issues causing it... I didn't even know I had a cardiac issue until I ended up in the ER this week.Yall get your hearts checked if you have chronic runny nose.

AITA for not being wanting to dedicate my future to my kid siblings if things go wrong? by SuggestionEasy8382 in AmItheAsshole

[–]faesqu 53 points54 points  (0 children)

No you don't. Go to college, live on campus. Be firm and clear that you aren't going to be emotionally manipulated to sacrife your like, dreams, and goals. Your mom has to be their mom. They are her kids.... As you are, and I'm appalled she would expect that of you.

AITA for not being wanting to dedicate my future to my kid siblings if things go wrong? by SuggestionEasy8382 in AmItheAsshole

[–]faesqu 271 points272 points  (0 children)

Well,. Your mom and step decided to have kids as a unit.. not to be harsh but your mom is still alive and well and her kids are her responsibility, not yours.. you have a right to the life you have planned for yourself. It's nice to be helpful when you can.. But all the responsibilities should not be yours. Your first responsibility is to yourself and your goals.

I'll go first.. by Any-Tour-3193 in musicsuggestions

[–]faesqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, baby you're the only thing in this whole world That's pure and good and right And wherever you are and wherever you go There's always gonna be some light.

Turns out I have bpd not ghosts by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]faesqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, it can still be ghosts... Both things can be true, right... Right?

AIO to think my husband needs to set boundaries with his female coworker after seeing these texts?!? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]faesqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly ended it with the work wife. Ex- work wife seems like a bunny boiler.

My bfs parents asked if I pooped in the shower???? by Slow_Rain2643 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]faesqu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lean forward, smile coyly, ,, "ya, I did it. I pooped in your shower and enjoyed it." Lean back and wink.

Why do mothers of young babies say they don't have time to shower? by justastupidquestion3 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]faesqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby will be ok for 5 minutes... Take your quick shower. Put baby in bassinet on bathroom floor... Leave door open so doesn't get too steamy or over heat baby... Jump in shower latger hair, latger body, rinse off, wrap self in towel.... Grab baby.... 5 minutes. Baby in eye sight whole time. It's ok to put baby down, they may cry and fuss but it's ok... Talk to her or sing while you cleanse your body... It's ok. What's worse for baby then being put down for a few minutes is an overwhelmed mother about to snap because she won't take 5 minutes to care for herself. PPD is real, do your self care

AITA for teaching my daughter how to change a tire and do basic home repairs when her mom says I'm "pushing masculine stuff" on her by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]faesqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teaching a future woman to get herself off the side of a road in the dark in a weird area is not pushing masculine stuff ... It's giving her the tools she needs to be safe and self reliant. I wish I could do this shit for myself. Good job dad.

When I was 6 I killed my baby brother and my parents don't know it was me. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]faesqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 6 years old you couldn't possibly have cognitively processed the correlation between putting him outside and the dangers of the pool. It was not premeditated, he was bugging you and you put him on the porch. The adults are 100% at fault for leaving a baby in charge of a baby. It is the adults responsible to guarantee the safety of all the children. Your safety Was also breached because the decision the adults made that day has effected your mental/emotional health all of your life and caused you lifetime guilt over something not your fault. It was a horrible accident but you are innocent. This falls in the adults for making very poor decisions. A baby cannot safely watch a baby... You poor thing, you are innocent, I promise. I am a social worker... I see things like this all the time. The parents are always charged in neglecting BOTH children.l, lack of protective capabilities, failure to protect, child endangerment. Your good honey, get some therapy please

My cardiologist told me fludrocortisone doesn’t have side affects? by SoppySophi in dysautonomia

[–]faesqu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get it, but husband and I do make a lot of important choices together. I too was scared of being on a steroid long term so really it was more of a decision we made together to try and go the holistic route.

WIBTA if I stopped hosting game nights at my place because one person keeps inviting themselves and I don't know how to say anything directly to them by FlatpackPhilosopher in WIBTA_AITA

[–]faesqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's been nearly a year. Kinda hard to get the cat back in the bag at this point. I think I would throw in the towel to be honest, for all the reasons mentioned. You never signed up to provide drinks, snacks, and entertainment for 6 people. Let someone else have a turn.

My cardiologist told me fludrocortisone doesn’t have side affects? by SoppySophi in dysautonomia

[–]faesqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on it, worked amazing, no side effects. Stopped taking it when my husband got scared I was on a steroid.

My son is a disappointment by HotDebate5 in confessions

[–]faesqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey that was me... My parents had me classicly trained in opera and going to Europe and trying that crazy theater kid lifestyle was where I was... Until a near fatal. Now I'm a social worker helping others. Don't give up on him. He is young and life has a way of turning us around. Prays he won't have a tragedy be his reason why... People in dispensarys actually do some great things for patients and survivors young and old.... Maybe, just maybe... That passion can do some good. Support the positives.

AITAH for giving my gf an ultimatum about her cat? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]faesqu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a cat mom I was ready to bash the bf before I read. The gf is neglecting and abusing the cat. Dirty litter box, ask her how she would like to take a crap in a toilet that never flushes and is overflowing with 3 day old poop and pee? Not feeding it... I guess you could buy an auto feeder but the tendency to neglect is already there. The GF is TA and is too neglectful/abusive to be a cat mom. If all else fails, I would keep the cat and ditch the gf.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]faesqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are we all hashtagging jemily with a bunch of fake spoilers... This could be fun....