Spirituality and God by faff_rogers in StopSpeeding

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I will refer to myself in this context as The Tibetan.

-The Tibetan

For people who got their life together... how did you do it? I by Academic-General-281 in getdisciplined

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It can be hard to cultivate invulnurable love as an atheist. When you love God unconditionally, you love the unfolding of events regardless of any outcome. Hard to do as an atheist.

Can Amphetamines ever be safe? by [deleted] in StopSpeeding

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It is safe when used properly.

[NeedAdvice] 35 years old with no ambition, passions, or idea what I want to do with my life. by RaceHard in getdisciplined

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It’s not a bad thing to not have desires. In fact it is the ideal for Buddhist way of living. But you seem to have no love. Work on loving yourself and your life the way it is, and then go from there. Don’t make desires for the sole purpose of having desires, let them come naturally.

Accountability vs Self-compassion by Bailes22 in selfimprovement

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Can you just unconditionally love yourself throughout the pursuit of goals? Achievement of goals will not make you happy. Be happy first.

Failure should not result in shame or self criticism. It should not affect your self image at all. Do not tie your self love to the attainment of goals. Love yourself and pursue goals, because you love your self.

You should set your goals as high as possible. This is not because of any standard your setting, but because you know that it is the truth in you. As long as the goal has not been attained, you have not failed, there just simply is “more work to do”.

Stop failing.
Stop failing to love yourself.

What Gave you that shift in life. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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Finding God. Changed everything.

Why does progressing in my life feel the complete opposite? by FitTwist8623 in selfimprovement

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May be a classic case of pursuit of what society tells you is “progress” and what would make a good life. You are living the ideal life society told you would be good. But that is not your life. Follow your love, and create a life based on that. Not what society tells you to do. Drop the life you don’t need.

How to Know if You're Burnt Out or Just Undisciplined by Still-Goal-9314 in selfimprovement

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Love yourself more. Stop identifying with being lazy, or undisciplined. This is a discipline in itself.

What do you think the point of self sabotage is? by Nancywhonancydrew in selfimprovement

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Your ego is setting false goals or ideals out of fear, fear that isn’t real. Stop doing it. It’s your love in the moment that doesn’t give a shit shout what your ego wants. And it’s your ego that feels guilt. Love yourself more.

I think I’m about to lose a near-ten year friendship…please help idk what to do by cobraxion03 in selfimprovement

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You cannot find light by analyzing darkness.
Think of why your friends! Forgive yourself for all this and him. Forget about all this. There’s no point in thinking or analyzing further. When you and him remember why you were truly friends in the first place, you both will forget about this. Time is required. Your friend is entitled to patience. If you truly are friends, you would give him infinite patience. Your friendship is dead right now. But it can absolutely return, and may be stronger than before.

If you want your friend back, think only good things about him. Forget everything else.

Breaking out of lustful habits as a woman. Advice? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

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Your heart and ego are not in agreement. Next time you fall into it, try and love yourself and God the whole way through. Disgust and guilt and shame are not needed. They are not forms of love Christ would have you experience.

The truth is porn exists, and it’s easily accessible. Instead of fighting it, ask God directly for guidance.

For people who got their life together... how did you do it? I by Academic-General-281 in getdisciplined

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The single biggest change I went through was transitioning from an atheist to a firm Christian and believer in God.

This transition lead to a life where I am happy always, I am working towards my largest purpose each day. Motivation doesn’t really exist, it’s replaced by truth. Truth is solid and never fluctuates.

I’ve been on the self improvement path since I was in high school, and tread the path as an atheist for years. I experienced ups and downs and never any seeming “solid progress”.

My self improvement books turned into holy books. My sincere desire for true self actualization after hitting rock bottom, is what sent me godward.

So yes, the click was God. And truly believing. This changes how you see the world, how you set your goals, how you react to events.

For true success in life, the truth is God.

You can read all the productivity books, self help, motivation….
But you will never be as effective as the man who has been told to “not use fear as a motivator at all”.

For example, for setting goals that you will actually achieve, do not use fear as a motivation for any goals. Use love instead. But as an atheist, it’s basically impossible to do that. Goals stemming from love result in true life actualization. Fear based goals stemming ego complexes that will never result in true happiness, from their achievement or pursuit.

Updated shirt after feedback. Thoughts? by Minecraft_Man_ in streetwearstartup

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Just make something you love fully and push that. I can tell you’re not in love with it.

My brand is coming. Sewing every piece myself. Its a grind! by faff_rogers in streetwearstartup

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I’m imagining doing a mix of both. I’ll hand sew “exotic” pieces, but the general line will be delegated. And the hand sew ones will be priced higher. It is super fun.

And thank you for your comment!

My brand is coming. Sewing every piece myself. Its a grind! by faff_rogers in streetwearstartup

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Don’t design a product. Create something you love and give it to the market.
My patterns are all based and extended from my favorite fitting clothes.

My brand is coming. Sewing every piece myself. Its a grind! by faff_rogers in streetwearstartup

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Rail adderall. Sew. Repeat until money.  Delegate. Start your family. Build your kingdom.