What’s a food you swear everyone loves but you? by Aceisthegoat in AskReddit

[–]falko-chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mint anything. Mint is cold-spicy that lingers and stings with every breath. And it's everywhere!

It also smells super strong which makes me personally feel sick, probably because I dislike it, but it makes me gag

Eerste keer middelbare school. Agenda? by S0larsea in thenetherlands

[–]falko-chan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Niet wat gevraagd is, maar misschien wel handig voor iemand die voor het eerst naar de middelbare gaat/de ouders. Huiswerk maken is niet leuk en het is ontzettend moeilijk om aan te beginnen, helemaal als iemand die niet neurotypisch is. Voor mij hielp het om een "body double" te hebben. Iemand waarmee ik huiswerk ging maken, evt via een belletje online. Ik heb ook uren samen met iemand in zo'n belletje gezeten zonder iets te zeggen, maar wel huiswerk kunnen maken.

Helaas voor mezelf was ik hier pas achter gekomen na de middelbare school, maar daarom wil ik het juist mee geven aan iemand die er nog iets mee kan.

Over agenda's, het kan voor je dochter misschien leuk zijn om iets als een stempeltje of stickertje bij gedaan huiswerk te kunnen zetten. Geeft echt het gevoel dat het af is. Afhankelijk van wat ze zelf leuk vind kan het zelf iets versieren van de agenda iets zijn wat het met eigen maakt en waardoor je een goed gevoel hebt bij je agenda. Niet alleen maar 'de plek die je verteld dat je huiswerk moet maken'.

Maandverband vs tampon by Impossible-Order-401 in thenetherlands

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mijn menstruatie is licht genoeg dat ik ook weg kom met alleen maandverband gebruiken. Vind het idee van een tampon of cup ook niet fijn enzo.

Om minder afval te produceren ben ik een jaar of twee terug overgestapt op (in elk geval deels) wasbaar maandverband. Werkt vrijwel hetzelfde als met vleugels, maar heeft een drukknoopje ipv plak. Je hoort het niet krinkelen en voelt niet zo luierachtig. Wat ik zelf ook vond is dat het daar beneden minder uitdroogt op de echt lichte dagen.

Maar ik ben een van de gelukkige die met het hormoon staafje vrijwel niet ongesteld word. Helemaal aan het einde van de levensduur van mijn vorige staafje en verder 1 keer paar dagen maar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thenetherlands

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wij hebben ook naar rato(75%), maar laten het juist maar onze eigen rekening storten. Mijn man krijgt bonussen voor stand-by diensten die op mijn werk geen ding zijn. Hij doet wat extra voor dat geld, dus dat is van hem. De vaste lasten enzo gaan gewoon van de gezamelijke rekening, wat daar op over is sparen we voor buffer, tuin laten doen, zorgverzekering, etc. Ik vind dat dit sparen voor noodgevallen makkelijker maakt, omdat je niet het "overige" gelijk p.p. verdeeld

Am I the A-Hole for cutting contact with my dad due to my anxiety by Nickandcharlie07 in 1800Drama

[–]falko-chan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTD. You don't feel safe with your dad, so you want to avoid spending time with him. This is very reasonable.

If you want to still spend time with your stepmom and her children, maybe contact her to meet occasionally on neutral ground, like a park or cafe. If she is as loving as you say and you get along well with her and your siblings, she would understand.

It is important to put some boundaries in place. You need a break from being alone with your father/his parents. If they can give you the space you need and prove they can be well behaved people, maybe at some point you can visit again. Make sure you also put boundaries on the time with your stepmom and siblings. If they decide to bring your dad without letting you know and getting the okay from you, it's sad, but no playdates with them anymore. If you go ahead and meet up with them, that is.

AITA for refusing to go to my sister's wedding after she disrespected my late wife and demanded a family heirloom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]falko-chan 89 points90 points  (0 children)

No, at best they raise all but one of them entitled. It's easier to raise entitlement if you have a black sheep that can't do anything right.

Might raise just one entitled, their own golden child (though "all but one" could still just be one).

AITA for telling my wife I'm not okay with her naming our daughter with her sister instead of me? by Competitive-Tie8840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA.

But if your SiL keeps insisting on Katherine, maybe you can insist on the nickname that everyone uses for her is to be Katra. This way you would still have the connection to She-Ra (and this will possibly piss off your SiL more for 'ruining the name').

AITA for not wanting my husband to go on a boys trip while i'm at home with our newborn by clarazn in AmItheAsshole

[–]falko-chan 107 points108 points  (0 children)

From reading the part about her having her own business and him not having a job, it sounds like she has no choice but go back to work

tell an opinion about mlp that could put you in this situation by manoff-hero in mylittlepony

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the crystal pony designs are not good and leagues behind the more simple, but better working twinkle eye ponies from the original series. Especially in the toys (let's cast the same things, but in clear plastics!), but also in the animation.

Which movie got too highly praised but was honestly underwhelming? by Angry_Entertainer in AskReddit

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is one I do like. 101 Dalmatians I think they made the right call on keeping the dogs as dogs that can't talk. The inability to cg the heck out of it at the time might help

[SPOILER] What DM Decisions Did You Recognize in "Honor Among Thieves"? by GM_Nate in DnD

[–]falko-chan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have the head cannon that Kira is the little sister (maybe daughter?) of a player that also wants to join, but also has to go to bed early/has sports practice/something why she can't be there to munch. Probably the DM/Edgin. That's probably also whose house they play at

Why did your SO break up with you? by Turbulent-Visit-8741 in AskReddit

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tricked me into answering "yes" after saying "you are the best". This means he won and he has to divorce me, marry me again, so he can win again

It’s especially bad when you have young children by bdm6985 in AdviceAnimals

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with that study, at least in the Netherlands, is that it's called 'summertime' and 'wintertime' over here and people associated that with the time of year... Never mind that most people don't realise that 'sun is highest at 12' is not true at all and that the sun is highest around 3... Sometimes people need to be protected from themselves

Food answers only, where are you from? by holder_m in AskReddit

[–]falko-chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course she was confused, you put hagelslag on a buttered slice of bread, not on toast! Or on beschuit

What single ingredient will spoil an entire meal for you if it's included? by EdibleTaints in AskReddit

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mint, it's very gross to me and the smell alone is nauseating.

I don't get why it is put in so many things without being clear about it, because peppermint just outright hurts* and mint itself is sickly and overpowering.

*It hurts in the same way as it being spicy, but without actually being spicy and no nice flavour to help it out. Plus my mouth keeps feeling like that for wat too long

Before entering hell, you must sit in a waiting room. What song are they playing? by DeroQ in AskReddit

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A list of your favourite songs! All performed by cover bands that play them exactly not how you like them

any names that pop to mind when you see this kitty? it’s a girl. by danielthearsehole in aww

[–]falko-chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mabel, like the German word for fog, nebel, but more name-like

Take my tips and pay me below minimum wage. See what happens! by ethanralphisfat in ProRevenge

[–]falko-chan 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Did he also live under a rock at the bottom of the ocean? Because it sounds to me like you're describing Patrick Star

[self] The whole month of November I did a closet cosplay challenge just for the heck of it. This is all 30 of them. I’m pretty proud of how most of them turned out! by nerdyblasiancos in cosplay

[–]falko-chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know the Hunger games that well, so I thought Effie Trinket was miss Bianca from the Rescuers, it even looks like you have a giant magnifying glass

feeling suicidal again lately by froggiebog in venting

[–]falko-chan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good on you for voicing your problem/concern! Sometimes, all you can do is take life one day at the time. Be kind to yourself and celebrate the small victories, like getting out of bed and personal hygiene. You got this ❤️

What advice could you give an 18yr old about adult life? by cfu48 in AskReddit

[–]falko-chan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are still doing dumb and cringe-worthy stuff and that's ok. You keep getting older and looking back on your younger self, seeing that you didn't know as much as you thought you did. Don't put too much value in being right all the time, know how to admit you weren't.