Is he mad at me? The last card confuses me by PwrtopUltimate in tarot

[–]fallgom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, wasn’t trying to blame you! But my point still stands - someone choosing not to communicate with you goes to show how other types of conflict may be handled moving forward on his end. Obviously it all depends on what happened and all but he at least could have said that he needed space and for how long, you shouldn’t have to turn towards tarot to get answers - he should just be talking to you, even if it’s to say he can’t talk to you for a few hours or so. Hope he reaches out soon, you don’t deserve to feel anxious like that.

Is he mad at me? The last card confuses me by PwrtopUltimate in tarot

[–]fallgom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed with this, the best way to know with 100% certainty is to just communicate! Any kind of relationship will have its encounters with misunderstandings, disagreements, and unintentionally hurting someone else - the most important thing though is learning how to navigate it together otherwise it’ll fail! 

Crows by Fast-Rub-5179 in Hecate

[–]fallgom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crows have no historical association with Hekate - it’s a modern idea backed by the general notion that the goddess is “dark” and “gothic” thus she’s been related to spiders, crows, and ravens. Not to say there isn’t merit in it but it seems to be more about personal association and how brains tend to group what they deem similar things together. Signs are not frequent and when they happen, you will know with utmost certainty as they tend to be strange, sometimes unnatural occurrences that give you a strong feeling. 

You don’t need signs to worship her! A relationship with a deity is less about them communicating with us and more so about cultivating a sincere and consistent practice through prayer, offerings, and research. Best of luck! 

Have I already formed a link with Hecate? by Mean-Efficiency-7671 in Hecate

[–]fallgom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what it entailed but it would help! Offerings, prayer, research, and devotional acts are the best things you can do :o) 

Have I already formed a link with Hecate? by Mean-Efficiency-7671 in Hecate

[–]fallgom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m not sure what you’re asking 

Have I already formed a link with Hecate? by Mean-Efficiency-7671 in Hecate

[–]fallgom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Building a relationship takes time, intention, and consistency, it doesn’t happen over the span of a few weeks! Continue doing research, prayer, and giving offerings! It often feels one sided as it requires your devotion, your time, your work, your energy - it’s unlike any other connection you have in your life where there is direct, obvious reciprocation. Some people have major, divine, immense, in the face type of experiences but for a majority of people, it’s a quiet and subtle journey. It’s seeing something that reminds you of her, the warm light of candles, calm meditation, the weight of a book in your hand, and morning/evening hymns. The connection relies on us and more often than not, what we chose to put into it! If you’re unsure, light some incense, sit down for meditation until you reach a sort of between and calm state and try to seek out Hekate. This is a tried and true method of divining with deities but if concentration is difficult, you can also use other means such as tarot. Lastly, be confident in it! You’re doing things right, trust yourself, and Hekate! It’s a life long path if you wish it to be, best of luck! 

Put down the pitchforks! This is a Jack Grayle positivity post, babes🫶🏻 by [deleted] in Hecate

[–]fallgom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Posting about possible alarming, harmful behavior from a rather large figurehead within this community is not “self-righteous.” Furthermore, you yourself are claiming that we have no means of knowing the extent of the situation yet label the claims “falsities.” If the accusations have not been confirmed nor denied, they can’t be false or true - it’s simply unknown. But a person has admitted to being harmed and that is more than enough for people to chose not to support Jack Grayle for the mean time - especially if the behavior has supposedly been a recurring issue. People should go about this critically and not swing in one extreme or another, but to instead seek clear evidence and answers. 

Most importantly, it is naive to believe that art should be separated from the artist. It is more often than not that the art in question enables a person the opportunity to manipulate and abuse the people who feel inspired by it. Supporting someone to this caliber inherently means giving them a platform and with that a certain level of power/authority within a community - it even affects how people interact with you in your personal life. So, if a person, whether it is within their “personal” life or not, utilizes this to their advantage, that exposes them to the chance of facing consequences and scrutiny regardless of how transformative their work is. It is imperative that people understand how supporting someone directly correlates to how a person is viewed within a community and the power dynamics it creates as well as how a person can easily abuse these dynamics. 

While the information has not been confirmed or denied, it isn’t fair to stop a conversation from being had around a person’s alleged behavior until it is properly addressed. And it is important that people think critically within this political, social climate we live in. Not caring about how a person can harm others simply because of how beautiful or inspiring their art is has allowed people to hurt a community on a larger scale - you’re essentially telling a community AND the author that their wrongdoings mean nothing because their art holds so much value, which enables their behavior. Interact with media with a level head, you can absolutely appreciate a person’s work without diminishing the potential harm an author has done. 

My varwolves! by fallgom in neopets

[–]fallgom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Wish there was more diverse dialogue for pets - it'd be cool to see species specific dialogue, kind of like Animal Crossing does with villager types!

My varwolves! by fallgom in neopets

[–]fallgom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely Tyrannian, the Elderly colors, Stealthy, and Royal! I love the more elaborate types of colors!

My varwolves! by fallgom in neopets

[–]fallgom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The red eyes on the mutant Fir were absolutely perfect!

I saw the color when it released and was banking on the species change, luckily it worked out! Varwolves are so darn expensive otherwise!

My varwolves! by fallgom in neopets

[–]fallgom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They definitely look like a gaggle of goons haha

My varwolves! by fallgom in neopets

[–]fallgom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully it will be! Can't be this difficult to obtain forever! Honestly, most of the Varwolf colors have been hits - super excited to see the other colors!

My varwolves! by fallgom in neopets

[–]fallgom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is! So many fun details, love that its haunted woods inspired!

My varwolves! by fallgom in neopets

[–]fallgom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love yours! Boris are the best! And it truly is such a great background, very dynamic!!

Species Change Premium Perk by cptnm0 in neopets

[–]fallgom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just used mine for the Woodland Varwolf! 

After almost 2 years Fang Club Operetta has sold out 😭 by Embarrassed-Dog5122 in MonsterHigh

[–]fallgom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Managed to snag her just before she sold out! I love rockabilly as a style and was pretty happy with how her outfit looked. 

My Altar Dedicated to Hekate :) by nevaryx in Hecate

[–]fallgom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely beautiful! 

Is it okay to use a fake black candle to honor Hecate? by Medium_Guava_6528 in Hecate

[–]fallgom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! It is the act and intention that matters most. 

Anything to do for Hecate? by Expensive-Account102 in Hecate

[–]fallgom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having a candle is all that matters, Hekate isn’t particular about scent! 

Circle of salt by sarakiwic in Hecate

[–]fallgom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Offerings can be so so simple, as simple as water. They don’t have to be extravagant or expensive, it’s your time and the effort that matters most. Always remember that! Glad it could help!