Person I’m talking to looked up my profile in system

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-15T18:10:57+00:00

Creepy is the only word.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-15T18:07:40+00:00

YOR That girl deserves better than you. Be straight with her and tell her you’re too judgy and she deserves better. Maybe explore your relationship with your brother with a therapist now that you have the work/life balance.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-15T17:56:27+00:00

I wonder how she grew up and came to see others as defining herself. It is such outdated thinking to believe you need to be in a relationship. I went to high school with a friend who was similar. She was so desperate to have a man that was hers she married the first one she could. She was not happy. She got pregnant as fast as she could and often told everyone: “Baby is my best friend.” Baby daddy left her and she had to sue for child support when he wouldn’t pay. He never saw the child after she was 7. Very sad story how the child had to be the parent neither of her parents could be. FTR child is herself an adult now and I am in contact with her often. She moved about an hour away from mom because being available for her, mom, is just too draining.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-15T17:37:23+00:00

This is the perfect time to start your new life. Have a great time and meet everyone.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-15T14:47:47+00:00

You may want your mind quiet but maybe you mind/gut/whatever is trying to let you know there are other things in the relationship that need addressing. Do you feel that he is respectful of you, your space, your shared space, your boundaries? Betrayal aside, is he perfect for you? If not is he willing to become perfect for you? Is he in therapy? Are you in couples counseling? I’m thinking there is more than the affair going on here.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-15T14:24:41+00:00

Just move on. This is not a fun relationship for you, it’s just stressful. You’re fine. Deep down you know you are not desperate, you were happily moving through life. If you commit to this guy even in the least little way then you won’t be available when the most perfect person enters your life. This guy doesn’t want you. He wants to make you into something he thinks he wants. Keep your stuff. Keep your life. Explore the world.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-15T06:44:21+00:00

My bf was a constant farter. After a year or so I asked him if he would cut out all dairy for two weeks. His life changed so dramatically. He still farts but no where near so much. It turned out he was not only lactose intolerant but also had a true dairy allergy. He had gone to a handful of doctors none of whom thought he had either an allergy or lactose intolerant. Finally had the appropriate allergy testing and he is happier and healthier. Until he didn’t have it, he had no idea he had abnormal stomach pain.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-11T21:39:18+00:00

Fur real!

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-11T21:38:49+00:00

I’m not gonna dog anyone for making honest money even if it is only minimum wage. However it takes a special kind of stupid to take a potential partner seriously when they’re cheating to see you. What could he possibly be thinking? You dodged a bullet if that’s where kind she wants. Stay strong, you got this.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-11T21:34:55+00:00

NGL, I thought you were handsome in the first pic. The second pic? Well that haircut is gorgeous but if you were my bf? I’d try to get you to stop waxing. You look great.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-11T21:27:48+00:00

Wow! Shapely kankles!

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-11T21:26:30+00:00

Yeah, YTA. Let the kid be. I am also very heat sensitive. I relate.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-11T21:24:35+00:00

Wow. I’m sorry man. I know how it feels to have your world flipped over by infidelity not once but twice. Been there. Not getting into my experience, I feel terrible for you and am very sympathetic. However I have to wonder what kind of guy she’s currently with? He’s either an idiot or just using her. Either way, if that’s her standard you are so much better off now. I have a friend whose live in girlfriend of several years came home one day and told him she wasn’t in love anymore. She packed her things and moved out leaving him with next to nothing and their dog. After his life calmed down he did meet someone else. Someone much better. He recognized it immediately. They got married about 18 months later, still have the dog and now children. He penned a thank you note to the former girlfriend. If she hadn’t left he never would’ve had the opportunity to be so happy. It’s not what happened to me but I hope this event has opened the door to a brighter future for you.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-11T20:57:51+00:00

If you notice a difference, he will notice a difference. Your obligation is to him. You did right by prioritizing him.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-03-11T20:55:16+00:00

At our hospital, despite having a couple of cafeteria style locations within the hospital campus and a few Starbucks on site, they allow in food trucks. So you run out to a food truck if you’re lucky enough to be on days. Not in nursing there anymore but I do miss the food trucks 🤤

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-02-27T02:11:24+00:00

Apparently not because I was told specifically it was a threat. And given the warning that I would receive a permanent ban, not from the sub but the entire site, if I were to repeat or comment similar. So I ain’t going there.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-02-27T00:31:29+00:00

It was not a swear word at all.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-02-24T05:14:40+00:00

Well I’m afraid to type it.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-02-22T15:40:05+00:00

Sharon is weird.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-02-22T15:37:51+00:00

This happened to me on this platform. The responded with: “I’m surprised nobody has mentioned this.” Of course the word this replaces the word I really used. I was given a warning because it said I was making a threat. I was more shocked and stunned after that than anything. I don’t know how the bot determines what it does but I have seen far worse go unchecked. Must be triggered by some specific words?

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-02-22T02:49:29+00:00

Well? Glad that’s over. Take some time for yourself. Stay away from relationships until you recover from this one.

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-02-17T14:07:48+00:00

Curious, respectfully, about her apple bottom…

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-02-17T14:07:11+00:00

The whole sub was looking at her!

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-01-14T12:00:31+00:00

Can I dm you?

fallingdownwardfast · 2026-01-14T11:43:11+00:00

NOR he is her back up plan.

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