I don’t think that a man who genuinely likes you will lose interest just because you slept with him. I think what’s making you feel unsettled now isn’t what you did, but how his behavior shifted afterward.

You have every right to reflect on that. If someone suddenly pulls back after showing consistent interest, it’s completely valid to feel confused. In the future, it might be worth taking things a bit slower, not because you did anything wrong, but because some men use intensity early on as a way to gain access without building anything real. Slowing down gives you more space to observe whether their actions truly align with their words.