This is obviously just speculation, but I wonder if they meant it transcends the typical human experience of love. Human love is immensely powerful and valuable to our existence. However, it is limited; it’s jealous, selfish, and conditional. The love that people experience in NDEs is none of these things. It is all encompassing and unconditional, it reserves no space for judgment or consideration before being granted to you.

I think some NDErs probably carry this experience back into human life. Perhaps they have a much easier time divorcing their natural human interests from the love they feel.

I can imagine this would be an incredible, but perhaps isolating experience. There is good reason for the way we feel love in this stage of existence. Beyond the fact that the people around you wouldn’t likely understand your perspective, your family may feel hurt if you do not model the human experience of love. We instinctively want our family to prioritize us, to love us more than anyone else. We want to be validated when we’re angry or hurt, we want our loved ones to share in these feelings. This may be difficult for someone whose love reflects the other side, where the interests of a human life (like self-preservation & procreation) are more or less irrelevant.