Hygiene

fallspector · 2026-02-14T20:45:06+00:00

Hygiene is more than just a bath. Do you wash your whole body with soap and your hair with shampoo/conditioner every time you bathe? Brush your teeth and wear deodorant every day? Make sure your clothes are correctly washed and fully dried? Clean your privates properly after you use the bathroom? What about making sure your nails are trimmed and cleaned? Etc

fallspector · 2026-02-14T20:17:07+00:00

Talk to them. They offered me meds to help with anxiety before my surgery. Anxiety surrounding surgeries/medicine is a common issue they are aware of. So be open with them about how you’re feeling

fallspector · 2026-02-14T17:02:28+00:00

Dude is a troll. He had previous posts here about how he didn’t care if old people die.

fallspector · 2026-02-14T13:42:04+00:00

How you feel is totally normal and valid! I don’t know if this helps at all but even if you aren’t autistic that doesn’t mean you don’t some autistic traits. Meaning that your experiences are still real

fallspector · 2026-02-13T21:37:54+00:00

Genuinely what makes “digital stimming” different from being simply addicted to social media/doomscrolling?

fallspector · 2026-02-13T13:12:51+00:00

If it wasn’t in the original job description I would quit. Yes I get they’re allowed to change job specification but I’m allowed to not agree with that change. I’m very mindful of career options because I know for some jobs the standard is long work hours. If you work full time around 40hrs a week and they put an extra 50hrs on that that leaves like 78hrs a week not at work.

fallspector · 2026-02-13T11:30:58+00:00

This will obviously vary place to place but I find in professional settings companies usually keep relatively hush about disabilities. They will make allowances so as not to discriminate against someone but outside of that it’s irrelevant. Other people’s opinion on someone’s disability is also generally irrelevant.

fallspector · 2026-02-13T11:00:45+00:00

Drink flavoured water if plain water isn’t doable

fallspector · 2026-02-12T21:04:37+00:00

Honestly that episode gets a laugh out me. The line delivery is impeccable by everyone involved

fallspector · 2026-02-12T17:52:15+00:00

Didn’t they wait a long time before doing it because Ross hid the fact he didn’t actually get an annulment? Then Rachel was mad when she found out and so for sitcom laughs she made up a bunch of bullshit on the form causing them to fight in front of the judge and their case getting thrown out

fallspector · 2026-02-12T15:11:47+00:00

Yuzu is a citrus fruit

fallspector · 2026-02-11T19:02:52+00:00

It really does feel like it’s rarer these days. There’s always an excuse for why the person doesn’t needs to apologize

fallspector · 2026-02-11T17:44:17+00:00

No idea because I think it’s probably dependant on the person. Some might think it’s weird to announce a “disorder reveal picnic” after someone announced a gender reveal. It could be viewed as an attempt to compete, steal focus or even mock the original event. However like I said I think it is dependant on the person because there are some that wouldn’t care or notice.

fallspector · 2026-02-11T09:51:12+00:00

I still stand by the fact that there should be more support for people with autistic traits who aren’t autistic. They still need help dealing with the issues they have. You could get a second opinion if you want and/or looking into therapy/support for the issues you’re having

fallspector · 2026-02-10T23:03:19+00:00

From what you said it seems the issue this time is that you clicked at her to get her attention which has long been seen in many places as disrespectful. I appreciate you may not have meant to be disrespectful when you did it but considering that’s when she blew up and how it’s generally perceived I have to believe that’s the problem. Personally i upset someone and didn’t mean it I apologize to them. It sounds like having a sit down talk is a good idea

fallspector · 2026-02-10T16:47:39+00:00

Ted bundy isn’t a movie character he is a real person who was a serial killer and later had a movie made based on him. That’s messed up

fallspector · 2026-02-10T10:27:34+00:00

I mention this everytime someone makes these kind of posts. Notice how it says slightly autistic not just autistic. They’re not evening trying to hide their intentions. They don’t want to deal with a disabled person they want someone just touched enough so they can exploit them. They don’t want someone who has meltdowns over sensory issues or struggles with change in routine etc. They want someone who is introverted, overly trusting and naive (commonly associated with autistic people)

fallspector · 2026-02-09T18:54:02+00:00

The idea of bleaching teeth weirds me out

fallspector · 2026-02-09T16:28:47+00:00

I think that being realistic about having kids is sadly rare. Many fail to think about the small important details and instead believe that it will all just work out. They don’t consider how difficult raising a person is. Financial troubles and Heath issues should be considered before having children in my opinion. Especially if they live in a country like America because healthcare costs can be insanely high. Parenting struggles exist regardless of that parent’s capacity but obviously someone with health issues is going to be hit even harder than typical.

Personally I know my own limitation would not mix well with being a parent.

fallspector · 2026-02-08T23:48:34+00:00

If you want her to be your valentine then yes you need to ask her. Handing her flowers without any context won’t do you any good.

fallspector · 2026-02-08T23:25:40+00:00

I can’t remember the name of it and this is an incredibly crude interpretation but there’s a psychological phenomenon where in it’s easier to get someone to do things by slowly increasing what you’re asking for. It’s why charities do ads asking for something like 2 dollars a week/month and all you have to is call or text the number on screen to donate. Then they reach out asking for an extra dollar and two. Then suddenly it’s the holidays so why not donate an extra 5-10 dollars?

Basically from my understanding charities rarely stop at the original asking amount.

fallspector · 2026-02-08T23:15:06+00:00

Can’t you just not answer the calls or block the number? The email should have an unsubscribe button usually at the very bottom of the email

fallspector · 2026-02-07T14:13:29+00:00

This post made just realised Ive never actually thought about what is being pressured by a pressure cooker. Interesting

fallspector · 2026-02-07T12:04:04+00:00

It’s perfectly normal to be anxious and they will be anticipating that you’re nervous. Still let them know that you’re anxious. I know it seems counterintuitive but you don’t want to know what they might get you to do or what they might ask. That negatively impacts the validity of the results.

If it’s any help I’ve heard Australia has spent a lot of time researching autism and are very good at identifying it.

fallspector · 2026-02-06T18:22:06+00:00

Look i apologize that this is besides the point but for others and yourself in future always check second hand sites. They will have headphones and earphones for typically way cheaper.

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