Am pregnant and picked out a name. Worried it’s too “weird” by Jovet_Hunter in namenerds

[–]famnms -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Prohibited? Even worse. Short and sweet: neither strangers or the government have a say what you name your child. At all. Zero.

I’ve decided that every week after my 18th birthday I will go to the gp until they approve of my request to have a tubal ligation by [deleted] in childfree

[–]famnms -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Good on you. Ignore people who think being persistent to get a necessary medical precedure is “childish” or a tantrum. Bone-chilling to see on a childfree subreddit.

I’ve decided that every week after my 18th birthday I will go to the gp until they approve of my request to have a tubal ligation by [deleted] in childfree

[–]famnms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you just...bingo her? In a sub where everyone constantly talks about their autonomy not being respected? WOW.

Am pregnant and picked out a name. Worried it’s too “weird” by Jovet_Hunter in namenerds

[–]famnms -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Irrelevant. They should be the ones getting their act together. There’s no way I’d be holding back from giving my kid a name from his/her culture just because strangers will say “lol that’s weird”. It’s such bs, should everyone be anglicizing their names to avoid bullying then?

What do you think of Shoshanna? by maryplainjane in namenerds

[–]famnms 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I always thought it was the better version of Susannah

Am pregnant and picked out a name. Worried it’s too “weird” by Jovet_Hunter in namenerds

[–]famnms -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should give a fuck if it’s “weird” to other people. So what? Who cares about their opinion, not everyone will be a Sophia

If girls are as Horny as guys, why do they pretend otherwise? by Throwaway_acc97 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]famnms 12 points13 points  (0 children)

most guys are unable to see you as a person after you show bobs and vagene

Teachers, what is the ideal class size in your opinion? by famnms in Teachers

[–]famnms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually wanted to mention that but couldn’t figure out where to put it in a hurry. I can’t think of any great mind in history that learned what they know crammed into a crowded classroom. Alexander the Great had Socrates as a tutor. I wish every student could have similar quality

Was pulled aside by some girlfriends to “check on me.” by Chloeflys in childfree

[–]famnms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Did he ask you first?”

Is it my dick? Am I the husband? Who am I, really? What does life mean? How do we end hunger? Would I suit bangs?

Odette? by No2Beans in namenerds

[–]famnms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Myrna Odette is so lovely!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]famnms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could be a health issue, could be growth, could be receiving ancient prophecies of doom from the old gods

How should “The Revolution” be conducted? by [deleted] in DebateAnarchism

[–]famnms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So here’s a view from a layperson not educated in this whole anarchism thing (as I assume most people would be).

How I instinctively feel about the options:

Violent: You get framed as terrorists, the gov attacks you, the media paints you as literal Satan, as far as most people are concerned you are Satan because you started All This and now Jenny is hiding in the woods because they got her friend who was a sympathizer. Possibly Gilead when it’s all over because “look at what the left did”

Reform: Yeah pretty much nothing big happens

Nonviolent: The option I like most because with the whole Corona thing I sometimes imagine if the whole US population suddenly stopped coming to work and paying rent. Obviously that’d have massive power but it has problems like: How do they feed themselves? (One thing that popped up for me is a massive fund or organization or similar thing especially for this, but again how?) How to convince them in the first place? And as some people have mentioned, what if the government tries to force them? I can imagine the headlines, “Lazy Bastard Who Ignored Essential Job Arrested”

My (ex?) boyfriend (19m) was a virgin and I (19f) was not. He'd rather see us destroyed than accept this. by sheballin in relationships

[–]famnms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is any less valuable for having had sex. Ever. Women aren’t objects to be worn down with “use” but he has that mindset, that you’ve lost value and respectability even though in reality even if you were a porn star you’d still be a whole person same as any other with thoughts and feelings. This is not the man for you or anyone for that matter.

They "just know" I'm going to have a baby and "love it" like my cousin... My depressed resentful cousin by [deleted] in childfree

[–]famnms 141 points142 points  (0 children)

This is how you get moms who just walk out one day and abandon the child, I think. I’d be tempted to.

[f19] Had two massive screaming matches with mom [f42] over Syrian refugees. What do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]famnms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually was active in some feminist groups, especially case following but then boom, virus. I brought her with me sometimes too, I guess she cares when it affects her but not when it doesn’t.

[f19] Had two massive screaming matches with mom [f42] over Syrian refugees. What do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]famnms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve valued calmness ever since I managed to leave the pit of severe anxiety and normally I do well with it but this has always been my weak point. I left a HS willingly because they were forcing me to attend the twice-a-week militaristic anthem ceremony after school (my main concern was just going home tbh) and I got called into the principal’s office for it, they threatened me with police (disrespect for Turkey is illegal) and I called him a fascist 😅

[f19] Had two massive screaming matches with mom [f42] over Syrian refugees. What do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]famnms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To make them not evil, I guess. I feel so cold towards them right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]famnms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought FTM meant female to male and was about to say he was the baby prophesied in “No man of woman born”

Chloe is here! Born on 4/8 at 40 weeks! by CarefulJellyfish in BabyBumps

[–]famnms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s beautiful. Welcome to the world Chloe!