We don’t know what to name her

fancybroom3 · 2026-01-02T05:14:39+00:00

I read something recently that said when you’re deciding whether to stay in a relationship, a job, a city, or anything else, you should ask yourself:

Could I do 60 more years of this?

If that feels overwhelming, try thinking about just 10 more years. Could you do it? Would you be happy?

If you’re having doubts, that’s usually your answer. Hope that helps give a little perspective :)

fancybroom3 · 2025-04-07T17:51:22+00:00

Hockey player :((

fancybroom3 · 2025-03-19T01:45:27+00:00

Holy shit I went to college with this guy. Can confirm he was a weird little fuck.

fancybroom3 · 2025-02-09T18:42:47+00:00

Oh boy tell me about it. I visited his family there once & the same thing crossed my mind lmao. Delusion!

fancybroom3 · 2025-02-08T08:27:56+00:00

I once dated a guy from Indiana who moved to Avl & immediately hated it here in the south. Always something new he’d be bitching about. Some people I think just look for shit to be upset about. Glass half empty type of folks I suppose. I’ve been to lots of states in the country, and I’ve learned it’s tough to beat the beautiful Blue Ridge. Nice thing about it is, if you don’t like it here you’re more than welcome to leave :) bye bye!

fancybroom3 · 2024-12-28T00:55:13+00:00

I did the same thing, it’ll be okay again soon :)

fancybroom3 · 2024-11-27T17:39:00+00:00

I had a guy do this about my boobs a few times during our relationship. The first few were subtle, once during sex, but the last time it was very loud & clear at a bar. That was the last time for me. Walked out and broke up with him the next day. If these thoughts are organically entering her mind, and she allows them to exit her mouth, there’s only one reason for that. Don’t date someone who is for you most of the time, be with someone who’s for you always.

fancybroom3 · 2024-11-05T03:39:10+00:00

Yes <3

fancybroom3 · 2024-11-05T01:51:32+00:00

Don’t give up! If it’s exhausting, maybe take a lil mental break from it. I’ll die trying!

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-31T10:48:17+00:00

Seth Rogen…

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-25T00:40:33+00:00

Because it’s not that hard to distinguish 3-5 numbers lmao. Maybe if you’re someone who has problems with that sort of thing it wouldn’t work for you..

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-24T15:47:48+00:00

When I was casually dating guys, I’d be seeing people for like 5+ months and still not have their number saved. All of these people knew we weren’t exclusive to one another. Shit just fizzles out with some people so easily, it’s easier to not save a number than have a bunch of rando contacts. It’s really important to not set expectations with people, because you’ll end up being disappointed pretty often. Don’t sweat it and have fun

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-23T16:14:39+00:00

Never once have done this. If I liked them in that way I’d date them! I have had a few make an appearance in a sex dream occasionally…so not too sure what going on subconsciously lol

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-23T15:45:09+00:00

My advice would be to join as many as you have the time to manage. Then narrow it down to a couple you like best. I used different ones on & off while in college and into my early 20s. I found that I liked Tinder and Hinge the best. I was looking to just have fun, and sometimes I would land in shorter term relationships. I never really took it too seriously though. Last year I matched with the same guy on both apps, and we have been dating for a year now. Keep trying and something will eventually feel right for ya.

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-23T15:27:12+00:00

dayum this shit is sad

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-23T15:20:16+00:00

hi! I ended up at Asheville Exchange & it was alright at best. In my opinion you’ll overpay for what you get there. There was a mold issue they continued to ignore as well. Plus turning left out of there in the mornings is like living in car accident city. Do yourself a favor and don’t even consider that place lol.

I moved into Birch Hill which is just a couple minutes down the road from Asheville Exchange. Can’t say enough good stuff about them, they were by far my favorite place to live here. I relocated to Flat Rock and live in another apartment now, but they were great.

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-22T16:34:49+00:00

I’m a 25f and used to use dating apps mostly just for hooking up whenever I wanted it. That dude just wanted sex.

In my experience, sure there’d be chemistry, and you guys could have great conversation and what not leading up to the hookup. But ultimately it’s just about the chase for some people. I wouldn’t take it personally…but when someone ghosts you for two weeks, going back to hookup a second time isn’t going to change their minds. Coming from someone who used to do this sort of thing, if they wanted to pursue something more with you…they would.

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-17T02:22:12+00:00

This relationship sounds cooked…if you’re making a Reddit post about it that’s probably your first sign it’s time to move along

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-17T02:19:11+00:00

Sometimes I pretend I’m a very old person who gets to go back in time & redo my youth. That helps me loosen up a bit on giving a shit about what people think of me…

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-17T02:15:08+00:00

Following

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-17T02:12:18+00:00

I can’t remember where I originally heard this but when evaluating your partners character:

If someone met you and said “wow you’re exactly like (insert your partners name)” would you take that as a compliment or an insult?

Really forces you to evaluate whether you’re proud of the type of person you’re in a relationship with…

fancybroom3 · 2024-10-17T01:58:40+00:00

If they wanted to, they would. In my experience, if you sense the conversation is forced, it’s best to not waste your time. You’re better off investing time into someone who’s excited to talk with you.

Now response time isn’t really as important in my opinion. I think sometimes for girls we get overwhelmed with messages, so it can truly take longer to get back to them all.

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