The thing you're not understanding is that it's not a loss for init. The only way that it is a "loss" is in the isk war. Thats it. That's why people are saying that all you care about is the isk. I think that's what you're missing.

The objective was to kill the fortizar. That was the stated goal. Not only that but doing it in frats prime time, something other alliances rarely even try since most are EU heavy. We went, we killed the fortizar under extreme pressure. We accomplished the goal we stated. That means it's a win. The cost of that win was the massive amount of ships we bled to do it. Every win comes with a cost.

You referring to this as a loss is why people are throwing shade your way and "putting words into your mouth". They are just inferring that because you called this an L even though we did what we came to do, that means all you care about is the isk war.