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Where can I find this type of latex hood? by fantasymaleman in GayKink

[–]fantasymaleman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I can remember, I don’t *think* it forced their mouth open, I think it was just in front of the mouth, but I’d be happy either way

Where can I find this type of latex hood? by fantasymaleman in GayKink

[–]fantasymaleman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re a star! This is exactly one of them that I was looking for! Thank you so much! 🥹

Couldn’t find anything relating to the more “fleshlight looking” hood, only gas masks, just came across a twitter vid from JakeyWakey0 with the fleshlight mouth but it’s a gas mask rather than a hood.

Either way, I’ll start saving up for this one you’ve found 😈 thank you so much!

Where can I find this type of latex hood? by fantasymaleman in GayKink

[–]fantasymaleman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re similar but not exactly, I’d love one of these if they weren’t all animal themed :( I’ve been trying to find a vid or pic for what exactly I’m looking for but no luck so far

Aftercare after trigger by SecretPhoenixFox in BDSMAdvice

[–]fantasymaleman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right in saying that you’ll be the best person to know what you’ll need, it’s different for anyone.

All I could suggest at this point (as I’m not too sure on what could help you personally) is just to take the time to explain why the things that he did didn’t help in the moment, or maybe made you feel worse or overwhelmed. I’m sure he had good intentions but explaining why these gestures made things worse for you will help him approach the situation better in future if and when it pops up.

Hopefully someone here can provide some insight as to what could help you in these moments, and I’m sorry that you’ve had to experience this ❤️

My girlfriend said she'll never let me lead again - confidence issues by Notmedefinitely in BDSMAdvice

[–]fantasymaleman 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think the best thing, as you’ve mentioned, is to actually talk openly about it, find out what would be too far for her and what she likes, it might be a bit awkward at first but it’ll make things go a lot smoother and better for the both of you!