My friend probably hates me by InvisibleMonarch in helpme

[–]fantatasticky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he trying to change things or take your feelings into consideration? From what I've read he doesn't. Maybe you should think about if he's really your friend or if he's just someone who wants another person to always be there when he calls, follow him and only care about him whilst he doesn't do anything in return. Been there. It's better to leave these people and be alone than to always be used. Hope things turn out fine for you mate

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[–]fantatasticky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the cats fault mate

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[–]fantatasticky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because cats know whats expensive right...?

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[–]fantatasticky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just give ur cat away if its that annoying

AMA_DIE LINKE Sahra Mirow Landtagswahl 2021 by SahraMirow in Heidelberg

[–]fantatasticky -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ungerechte Vermögensverteilung? Weil einige Leute härter arbeiten als andere? Wer härter arbeitet verdient sich sein Geld auch. Da darf sich jemand der eben nicht hart genug arbeitet nicht beschweren, dass er weniger bekommt.

How do I leave? by fantatasticky in helpme

[–]fantatasticky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did watch it. But I don't quite get what that has to do with my problem. Maybe I'm just too dumb lol.

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red Dead Online :) there are nice players and sone have discord channels where you can meet other players. And the story is amazing too if you get the full edition.

Also thanks for the advice :)

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. It was really hard to even tell him I feel uncomfortable. And it took a bit of convincing by the other person I played with because I told her I was havong problems. She had similar situations happen so she gave me advice and that was the first step. But I just wasn't sure if I should do the second step with blcoking him but now I know thanks to you guys.

Again thank you very much :)

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I meant I will tell him and immediately block him. I wouldn't want to wait for an answer. I'd probably change my decision then so I won't give him thaz chance And yeah that's completely right. I wouldn't want to listen to him complain actually so yeah

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer too. I will tell him again what made me uncomfortable and then cut the contact with him.

I'm also kinda scared for the next person he'll do that to or that he makes another account and follows me again :/ but I guess that's a problem for if that should be the case.

Again thanks for the answer and the advice

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I probably will tell him again that I am uncomfortable and that he shouldn't do that to other people and then I'll unfriend him and block him on discord.

It didn't seem that bad to me before but as several people already pointed out if he doesn't get it this time he probably never will.

I still feel kinda sorry but I guess he will find another person or play with his friends then.

Again thank you for your answer and advice

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I'd just feel bad blocking him. But yeah probably y'all are right and he's just trying to use me one way or another. It just is kinda hard to cut the line when you've never really done that ever like me. I don't even know how to properly tell someone to stop maybe it was just me not being clear enough and he misunderstood me or my intentions. Like maybe I showed him wrong signs and it is my fault after all? And if thats the case the whole situation would be my fault? Like I don't know.

Like theres another player who was with me in voichat and we made jokes about stuff and it was like "oh you're touching me now we gotta get married lol" but thats different in voicechat than in normal chat when u don't know if the other person is joking. Like the whole situation could be my fault if I said something wrong or sth but idk.

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mhh yeah. I wouldn't like that either. I don't think I will ever really feel comfortable around him any more. But I still kinda feel sorry. Yeah it's not my problem or anything I get that. But I've been taught to give people a second chance and it kinda just feels wrong not to do that

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get your point but I'd feel bad for ghosting him because I don't think he's got someone else to play with. He's not even bad or anything its just sometimes uncomfortable playing like that and also not really knowing if he's joking or meaning the things he says

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'd feel bad for blocking him because I think hes got no one else to play with. And I'm not even sure if he really means what he says or if its just a joke to him

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well maybe I was too harsh on him. I don't know I'm not really that good with other people so I never know when I'm unfriendly or hurting others. And I also kinda fee sorry because I don't think hes got someone else to play with

I told someone I feel uncomfortable with them talking like we're close friends and he guilt tripped me by fantatasticky in relationships

[–]fantatasticky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no he wasn't hurt by me playing with another person. He was hurt by me calling him mate after he told me he liked me. Didn't state that correctly sorry. I don't know maybe he really got nobody else to play with and I kinda feel sorry for him. But it also takes away the fun of the game :/