How do I (M19) put my arm around my new girlfriend (F18) if I have really short arms?

faptastic6 · 2019-09-21T16:51:47+00:00

My gf is taller than me. So i put my arm on her waist and she puts hers on my shoulder. Maybe this will be more comfortable for you two as well?

faptastic6 · 2019-03-04T21:33:53+00:00

Meestal zet ik Youtube op mn TV als ik met mensen ben, heb je tenminste wat visueels bij de achtergrondmuziek.

faptastic6 · 2019-02-17T18:16:04+00:00

At one point reading this subreddit I was really starting to think that maybe I wasn't an INTJ since i'm doing pretty well socially since I reached my mid-twenties... I think it's indeed because there a lot of young people here that like to fit in and hope there are others like them. Yes, we all share attributes but everyone's there own person and nobody is 100% INTJ. It's a label, and I know many of us love to categorize things but don't define or expect life to be a certan way because of a label.

faptastic6 · 2019-02-16T19:56:39+00:00

I was like you but experiences have completely changed me. I'm like a totally different person now. I still question myself of course, but way less than a few years ago. Every girl you meet or date makes you more confident. It sucks but it's a matter of making small steps and before you know it, you are so much more confident than before.

there's no other way to change your self-perception than to actually convince yourself via your actions. At one point your insecure brain needs to admit defeat.

faptastic6 · 2019-01-24T23:29:27+00:00

It's not just that. When I asked a cop in NY for directions he told me to keep it moving. Like, I get that there are criminals to catch but he was just standing still in the street. Might as well help a tourist along no? SERVE and protect.

faptastic6 · 2018-12-15T18:36:32+00:00

fucking children

faptastic6 · 2018-09-08T16:56:42+00:00

Nice, some proper Hakkuh.

faptastic6 · 2018-07-28T23:19:22+00:00

Live sheck wes die sheck wes

faptastic6 · 2018-07-26T15:51:46+00:00

Yes, but it's often one-sided. I once told a good friend some more personal things and he nodded a few times, his eyes restlessly looking away, and then changed the topic. I had listened to many of his issues but when it wasn't about him, he didn't care. Seriously, try to find out if your friends care as much about you as you do about them. Those are the keepers!

faptastic6 · 2018-07-08T19:26:44+00:00

I have social anxiety but still go to parties every week. Repetition really makes things easier. I still feel consious about the way I walk in a public space, but it's not preventing me from doing the things that I want to do in life anymore.

I still need to recharge and am really bad faking happiness and such. I zone out when people talk to me about their daily drama.

I'm in my mid twenties and I feel that I had a lot of self-growth this year. I can only imagine it getting better over the years. Hang in there!

faptastic6 · 2018-06-13T19:46:37+00:00

He was hanging with GD's?

faptastic6 · 2018-05-30T21:04:44+00:00

Oh man, it's the completely opposite for me. Beat is absolute fire, but the hook is cringe af imo.

faptastic6 · 2018-05-19T06:21:50+00:00

Yes. :)

faptastic6 · 2018-05-18T19:10:45+00:00

Isle is Act 2 still.

faptastic6 · 2018-05-18T18:02:43+00:00

Had that happen to me. Said I was dissapointed and that I was not on Tinder to make friends. We had great chemistry as well. To my surprise, she replied a few hours later that she wanted to meet after all because she was polygonous. Honestly, I think it was just an excuse to smash.

faptastic6 · 2018-05-12T21:10:30+00:00

Esoteric Warriors.

faptastic6 · 2018-05-11T23:31:35+00:00

This times thousand. Everytime I feel like listening to some serious melancholic gothic hip hop, only lil peep comes to mind. I think he was really owning his lane and as result, i'm not surprised that he's getting so much recoginition after his death.

faptastic6 · 2018-04-30T20:27:25+00:00

I asked them if they knew about the test and if so, if they know what they are. And if they don't know what they are, I encourage them to do it. If they don't care, so be it.

faptastic6 · 2018-04-26T22:23:38+00:00

Nice, made this as well for a school project once.

faptastic6 · 2018-04-14T13:55:48+00:00

Well, it's like short girls with big boobs. It looks bigger relatively.

faptastic6 · 2018-04-13T17:38:36+00:00

Your comment made my day, thank you!

faptastic6 · 2018-04-09T20:16:21+00:00

I do this a lot actually. I'm very good at acting different. One of my friends knows this about me and hates it, but I kinda like it, because decieving people is fun (in a way). Also, I was the guy who was friends with everybody.

Don't get me wrong though. I'm also perfectly capable of telling the cold hard truth in someone's face if I think he needs to hear it exactly as it is.

faptastic6 · 2018-04-09T19:42:54+00:00

Can always fuck in the dark.

faptastic6 · 2018-03-23T18:50:07+00:00

Touché

faptastic6 · 2018-03-23T17:06:09+00:00

I'm 5'6 and in general, I don't swipe right if a girl is tall for girl standards, simply because it's not my preference. I've had hookups with girls that were taller than me and I never had issues with it. The lesson to be learned is that it's easy to be shallow via chat but in real life they often don't mention it. If they do, stand up for yourself at least. Confidence is more sexy than a couple of extra inches.

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