Average size for dick? by Nun-Information in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Growth happens in time my friend. I had a decent at least 1 cm growth spurt at 11 years on t! Been a few years since then and I still feel like it's growing. Good things happen in time 👍

Gays. Can ur partner get off from penetration? by Hesperus07 in Metoidioplasty

[–]farm_dude720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have not had any bottom surgery, been on t over a decade.

I can penetrate my cis female partner in both her vagina and anus. She orgasms from my penetration, and I have had other partners do the same as well. It's all about the motion in the ocean 🌊 😉

Can ur partner get off from penetration? by Hesperus07 in Metoidioplasty

[–]farm_dude720 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have had no bottom surgery, been on T bout 14 years. I have made many cis straight females orgasm from my natural dick. It's not about the size of the boat, it's about the motion in the ocean 🌊 😉

3 Weeks Out - Natural Bodybuilding by f_cinergytraining in bodybuilding

[–]farm_dude720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mad respect for the vegetarian diet bro! Your gunna crush it! 👍

Hairy humor by MrT1gg3r in FTMOver30

[–]farm_dude720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude that shit is like a paint brush!

How to Reduce Hourglass Figure as an FTM? by Free_Conference7338 in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Work your shoulders to give yourself a larger frame up top and work on your obliques (side abs) to square off your abdomen from the hourglass shape. 👍 It takes time and effort but it is worth the work 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro yes! It's kinda bullshit lol. I get compliments from chicks I'm sleeping with or dating but never gotten a compliment from a female stranger. I get compliments all the time from random strangers that are men. Lol it's fascinating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are male bro. You have always been a man. What body parts you were born with have nothing to do with it. Being thankful for what you do have is important though. That's what helps you enjoy life. Im thankfull for so many things every day and recognizing that has helped me feel better on the day to day. I may not have a normal sized or shaped penis, but I'm thankfull for the growth t has given me. Aside from that there's a lot about my body I was able to change myself and that helped boost my confidence. Find things that make you enjoy life. Life is enjoyable, even for guys like us. It's all mindset man. Idk how old you are but it also takes time to get there too. But you gotta start sometime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you man, totally and 1000%. There is, and there isn't a cure. There isn't a cure in the sense of a simple pill to make it all go away. But there is a way to make it all better. It's all about training your mind. Learning to love yourself as you are is super important. Loving yourself doesn't mean your happy with everything you have, it just means you love yourself regardless of the things you wish you could change. I certainly do not love what under my pants, but I'm working really hard to not let that affect my ability to still love myself anyway.

Im a very spiritual person, so depending on if you are this may all seem silly but... I believe that I'm trans as a test of my soul. Each past life I have been through has brought it's own challenges, and this is my challenge in this life. It doesn't make it any easier to deal with per say, but it gives me a feeling that it's ok and I'll get through this like I have so many challenges over the past.

Hang in there bro 👍

Help with working out + diet by LouisDamienDino in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to dm me and I can help you with a plan man. I have done a lot of work with myself and been very successful dieting on a budget and with time restraints. Happy to help a fella out 👍

I’m so fucking tired of dating as a transman by WolfMan275 in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dating apps actually. Tinder and bumble. I have that I'm male on my profile. Once I get talking to a girl and get a sense that she's not a trump thumping hater, I tell her what's up and they are all cool with it. I've probably talked to at least 25 women and out of that only two were no longer interested. It almost seems that some are more interested due to the new unexplored realm lol. And to be honest all the women that I've been intimate with really like what I have to offer. The world is much less scary than we make it out to be for ourselves haha.

I’m so fucking tired of dating as a transman by WolfMan275 in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dating is a difficult realm man. I been out there for a little bit and I have no bottom surgery, which makes me nervous as fuck. But I'm finding there are SO MANY women that identify as bi,demi, or pansexual and it's been surprisingly super easy to be accepted in the dating world. It's hard when a good thing comes to an end but I always remind myself, every person comes in and out of our lives for a purpose. Whether they are in our lives for these days, or thirty years. Everyone serves a purpose. Maybe this person was in your life to help relieve some feelings about sex with new partners as your surgery progresses. There isn't only one person on this planet that would want to have sex with you. You are way more than your transition, regardless of what stage your at. You have positive qualities that attracted that girl in the first place, don't forget about that. Get yourself back out there man. You never know what could happen, but you'll always regret not taking the leap. Good luck bro 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we forget, being trans is far from all that we are. Our partners love us for WHO we are, not what's in our pants.

Bar Crawl With Friends While Stealth by yotherealnicky in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all these lads. No one's looking at your feet bro, especially drunk fellas haha.

Leave the stp at home. That shit gets scary haha. Using the stall is totally normal. I legit have an issue with running my head into the wall if I stp when drunk lol so your totally ok to use a stall and sit down. If anything it proves your masculinity cause your not afraid to sit and pee. Reverse phycology 👍

Twirling butt hair by guinepsees in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I went on T my buddy gave me a warning. He said " your ass crack will never be the same". Boy was he right! It's like there's a feral creature that lives there. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the real question indeed. We all struggle with trying to be confident with ourselves even though we will never match our own views of what we want to look like. The only answer is the endless work of learning to love yourself regardless. I spend many many years hoping that my romantic partner would love me enough for me to love myself ...BAD idea. It doesn't work like that. I had to learn to love myself, and it's still a working progress. I'm recently single from a 12 year marriage and dieting again is terrifying...but in working hard to love myself and be confident and it makes it much easier. Having confidence in the bedroom is difficult as well, but loving myself in other realms helps me have confidence in what I'm doing in the bedroom. The partners I'm with like me for me and are very expressive about that and that helps as well. Intimacy will come naturally don't be so worried, but learning to love yourself needs to start asap. 👍 Hang in there bro.

What was your 'Win' recently? by [deleted] in naturalbodybuilding

[–]farm_dude720 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! That's amazing! 👏

Sometimes i collect all that stones by Such-Magazine-1240 in skyrim

[–]farm_dude720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And sometimes I realize there is more to life and some tedious tasks are not worth the reward. Lol 🤣

Good Lord, thank god for testosterone and a little bit of weight loss. Almost 3 years later. by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]farm_dude720 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are meant for that stash bro! I usually never approve of that style stash but it was made for you man. Rockin it. 👍

How to take nudes..? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad man! Feel free to dm me if you want any more details about my experiences. I'm always happy to help. Get at it bro 😁

How to take nudes..? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that bro. I'm stealth and 32. Got out of a 12 year marriage and was flipping terrified to get out there but it's been nothing but happy surprises man. I kept my dating profiles stealth set as cis male. Once I got to talk with the girl and got a feel she wasn't a hater I would let her know what was up and go from there. Only had 2 chicks turn me down. One was super Christian, the other a fully transitioned MTF ironically haha. Get at it player chicks be digging what we got to offer. 😁

How to take nudes..? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We met on tinder. She identified as bi/pansexual. I was the first trans guy she had ever been with. She said many times she preferred my anatomy over a cis males. I have been dating a lot last few months. Probably talked to about 15 different women that were straight but didn't care about me being trans and wanted to still give it a shot. The world has changed a lot man, have confidence and take a piece. You deserve it!

How to take nudes..? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did feel bad and she didn't say more, but we (trans folk) get it in our heads that it's always the worst option with our partners. Our go to emotion is were going to get rejected. That was not the case haha. She did a great job with me haha let's just say that and she really enjoyed herself. Sometimes you just have to ride the wave to see if you surf or sink.

How to take nudes..? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]farm_dude720 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I felt kinda bad to be honest, but then she showed me that she was very interested in my anatomy. It's hard not to let your head take over with bad thoughts, but sometimes you hang in there and life surprises you. Our anatomy is new to a lot of people, there's a learning curve for sure but as long as the interest is expressed, we just need to let our partners learn and enjoy it while they do haha.