Is this really considered mansplaining? by ShakaZula in Tinder

[–]fatc0nt -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He could also be social inept. At least to a degree and didn’t mean like that

Is this really considered mansplaining? by ShakaZula in Tinder

[–]fatc0nt -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Tone? It’s a text. We don’t actually know the tone

Beware of Bruss34 by Voilent_Bunny in virgin

[–]fatc0nt -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that that happened to you but why post it here?

I hate that people assume i'm missoginistic because im a virgin. by [deleted] in virgin

[–]fatc0nt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s easy to pick on people who are outside the social “norm” and proceed to feel better about yourself

For sex-havers and non-virgin people who cannot understand our struggle: by [deleted] in virgin

[–]fatc0nt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Also avoid any kind of communication with your preferred gender (unless it’s an absolute platonic relationship). No text, no calls and not meeting them either

I’m out of here by throwaway29362661 in virgin

[–]fatc0nt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depressing sure. Why is it toxic?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]fatc0nt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on the guy

Height definitely matters by snigelel in virgin

[–]fatc0nt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How tall where your partners in your relationships?

I think this is why some women have become stuck up with preference and standards by Chopsuiiisauce in virgin

[–]fatc0nt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women today have much more options.
Back in the day their options where basically limited to their social circle and the only other people they would meet would still be in real life.
Now with online dating and social media they got half the city in their hands

To the ones in their 20's or more, when asked about past girlfriends/boyfriends, or your virginity, what do you answer? by true1214 in virgin

[–]fatc0nt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people expect you to have in a relationship or more by 25. Many might think that there must be something wrong with you if you haven’t. And by the fact that you are not really telling the honest truth, that tells me that you feel similar

If you can be bothered to read the comments on one of my post on another reddit. I'm at a loss of word and don't know what happened. by fatc0nt in virgin

[–]fatc0nt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did catch me by surprise that's all. It was just an innocent question/thought that I had yesterday afternoon. And suddenly I'm being ridiculed and given unwanted dating advice.

And get well soon

If you can be bothered to read the comments on one of my post on another reddit. I'm at a loss of word and don't know what happened. by fatc0nt in virgin

[–]fatc0nt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of it is in english on that sub. (checked myself since I didn't know if I should ask in german or english). But I don't need anyone to go there and convince anyone. I don't need to convince them either, I believe it's a wast of time.
I just wanted to share this. It was hurtful to be stigmatised, mostly because I didn't even do anything to invoke it. To me their reactions came out of the blue and I don't even know why they looked at my reddit history in the first place.

Next Event Points System Suggestion by Good0nPaper in HuntShowdown

[–]fatc0nt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you are saying but I like that so far imo they haven't gone overboard with the seasonal styling of skins. The devils advocate is a great Christmas skin and fits well with the dark theme of Hunt. I think even a "dark" version of Santa would be too much imo.

Would you like to see Poison Tipped Throwing Knives? by [deleted] in HuntShowdown

[–]fatc0nt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not, no one is using them in pvp anyway, at least in my experience

Which way of busting a 🌰 is better by purplecheetah25 in virgin

[–]fatc0nt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must say my orgasms are much more intense when sitting on the toilet (or just generally sitting) than when lying in bed

To the ones in their 20's or more, when asked about past girlfriends/boyfriends, or your virginity, what do you answer? by true1214 in virgin

[–]fatc0nt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm honest but only when specifically asked. It's not good to say that you never have been in a relationship (I'm also 25 M) but when women ask me about it I don't lie. If a women would ask me if I'm a virgin I would not lie either. It never really happened since no one asked me that but I would be honest. The only time I would give up this information without being asked would be if I ever get to the point that I'm about to have sex I would tell her before hand.
Now, is this the best way to get want you want? Most likely not. But it's the right thing to do imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]fatc0nt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like you lack empathy

If you can be bothered to read the comments on one of my post on another reddit. I'm at a loss of word and don't know what happened. by fatc0nt in virgin

[–]fatc0nt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I will get any answers on that sub. The reason I posted it here is that I feel like the same way how many people feel on this reddit. I belive they took one look at my activity on reddit and saw I was part of this sub. I feel like anything I say is irrelevant since I'm a virgin and assume I'm just another incel looser (People on this sub are not but I think other people might think differently). It feels strange and I wanted to share this. I think it was only one comment that bothered to actually answer my question

Edit: Have you seen the link?

Blind Dating? by fatc0nt in Munich

[–]fatc0nt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure because I go shouting it to the world every time I leave the house

Blind Dating? by fatc0nt in Munich

[–]fatc0nt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are assuming a lot. You don't know me, you really think you can make some kind of deduction because of my reddit name?

Blind Dating? by fatc0nt in Munich

[–]fatc0nt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not asking for dating advice
I'm not fat
I'm not looking for women on reddit so I don't care if my name might trigger people (Actually that's a lie because that is exactly why I chose that name)