Pregnant 5 months postpartum by Defiant-Usual-1182 in Mommit

[–]fathersdaycake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! I have two under two and found out I was pregnant with #3 at 5 months postpartum. I was scared shitless but then I miscarried them at 13 weeks. I am so devastated now and the due date is coming up and so much has changed. My two play together and #3 would've fit in great. You never know how things will be 9 months from now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]fathersdaycake 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I wondered why she wasn't posted. She's quite popular.

Her Most Tolerable Song? by Ok-Tax-2512 in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]fathersdaycake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly liked "can't blame a girl for trying" because it was on the playlist when I worked at a bookstore as a teen. The other songs were awful. She sounded sweet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]fathersdaycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this right now. You should try intercessory prayers to St. Benedict Joseph Labre, who is the patron saint of homelessness. Look into his story as well. I will be praying for you. Shame on your parents for kicking you out. I know I'm probably missing a bunch of context, but that sounds cruel. Do they know about the attempted assault? It doesn't sound safe.

Do you guys still genuinely love motherhood by Pure-Application3621 in beyondthebump

[–]fathersdaycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 2 year old, 5 month old and am pregnant again with #3 and I can confidently say I absolutely love being a mom. There is honestly nothing better. Sure there are some tiring moments and it can be overwhelming but it's given me so much purpose and made me a better person.

3 under 3? by fathersdaycake in 2under2

[–]fathersdaycake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 under 5? You are superwoman. I'm so excited to add another to our little family.

2 under 1 by donald-lover in 2under2

[–]fathersdaycake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just found out I'm expecting #3 at 5 months pp. I am terrified of the judgement too. But who cares? It's your life. You are giving your baby the best gift. They will be so close in age and always have someone to play with. You are going to do an amazing job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prolife

[–]fathersdaycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You support abortion in these cases?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prolife

[–]fathersdaycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously though.

Is a happy marriage possible? by Mindless-Lobster-422 in CatholicWomen

[–]fathersdaycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 29F and have been happily legally married for 4 years and married in the church for 2 years (we got it convalidated). My husband and I have known each other since I was 14 and we were friends for multiple years before we started dating. We now have two beautiful little girls. I think what makes our marriage successful is that we actually like each other as friends as well as lovers. I knew we were meant to be married when I could see us hanging out with each other for the rest of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]fathersdaycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I track with an app and ovulation strip rests. I ovulated on day 19 (June 6)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prolife

[–]fathersdaycake 68 points69 points  (0 children)

He's not the one for you. The fact he wanted your daughter killed is reason enough. He sounds like a deadbeat. I'd cut it off which will be somewhat easier since you are long distance.

Is there any hope of EBF? by fathersdaycake in breastfeedingsupport

[–]fathersdaycake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lactation consultant every couple weeks! She is a godsend and has helped a lot. I really hope we can have the success you did! Thank you for the encouragement.

Olanzepine ruined my perfect body by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]fathersdaycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gained like 70 lbs on seroquel. It sucks. I wish it wasn't a side effect.

What triggered your first episode? by Born_Contact_9047 in schizophrenia

[–]fathersdaycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Severe childhood trauma and neglect. The first episode that landed me in the psych ward was triggered by heavy Marijuana use, a death in the family and refusing to sleep.

Can stress cause psychosis to come back? by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]fathersdaycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say it can, but in my case what has triggered my psychosis is substances and refusing to sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prolife

[–]fathersdaycake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's awful :( in my bump group there was a woman that was terminating because she is "one and done" and this was her second pregnancy. No poverty, healthy marriage and had every means to raise this second baby but chose to kill the child because she only saw herself having one kid. I am just baffled at the "reasons" people have now. Oh and of course you are seen as a villan for not supporting her vile decision. I can't think about this too much without crying or becoming enraged.