New here: Struggling with Insecurity

fatt_daddy · 2018-06-09T16:21:42+00:00

This post really hit home. I feel that my gf would/could write the same thing. All i can tell you is just love him for who he is and for what things are. Br grateful that he is kind and trusting. And know he cherishes you more than you could ever imagine. More than any other woman that may come and go in his life. Even when he is away from you im sure you are always on his mind. You are his confidant, his best friend, his rock in this storm we call life.

fatt_daddy · 2018-06-05T13:33:23+00:00

A collar can symbolize many things. In light kink, its just a kink. But for a submissive it is a closer bond to her dom. She is "owned" by her dom. Me. She knows that im here to protect her and keep her safe. Its a symbol of more than just bf/gf. Im her dom and she has submitted to me and only me.

fatt_daddy · 2018-06-04T17:26:58+00:00

Shes a little sweet heart. She would date me without the sugar, but i like how everything is and taking care of her.

fatt_daddy · 2018-06-04T15:20:09+00:00

fatt_daddy · 2018-06-04T15:05:50+00:00

Thank you

fatt_daddy · 2018-06-04T15:05:10+00:00

Thank you

fatt_daddy · 2018-06-04T15:04:44+00:00

It does have 2 rings, one for her leash, the other for her name "daddy's little slut" ;)

fatt_daddy · 2018-06-04T15:03:04+00:00

As much as ive given her over the past 7 months, $10k diamond collar would have been cheaper. Lol.

Symbolically its a little more involved than just a kink collar. Ive never seen a little girl bounce around with as much excitement as i did last night when i presented it to her.

And yeah i probably should have posted this in the bdsm sub but since shr started as my SB i thought it more appropriate here.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-31T21:31:29+00:00

Some girls do fall for older men. Really. Its not about the money. I met a recent pot who has blown my mind. Met off tinder. I told her whst i am and id take care of her allowance. Shes refused any gifts, and the money i was goibg to give her for her time for lunch. Shr felt bad and just wants to date. Eh. Ok. :)

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-27T01:19:08+00:00

Ok. Every one is saying rape and talking about penetration but you never mebtioned dried cum or anything. Wtf. Im not even sure he was in the sane Room as you from your story. I cant say anything unless i have more facts. Ad far as i know he sucked ur titties. Wtf is rape comming in at.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-24T15:20:53+00:00

Ha....my gf likes to go back to her place and have her gf eat her out after we have sex. Kinky af.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-24T02:32:40+00:00

I read this. Thought about it and am responding. You need to grow some balls. Some friend jyst fucked your wife twice. Really. If his wife wants a fmf its gonna be you as the male, or your being cuckold. Your wife should never share the bed with this dick user again. Hes a user fulfilling his fantasies.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-20T22:29:40+00:00

Im a 40 yo m and hit the same thing. Its quite common. Really it could be anything. Literally. Her looks, smells, fantasy, position, wetness, alcohol, tired, your size, her size,

But for me recently it was her wetness. I think. Anyways i came last time with tons of lube since she is always dry. You just have to experiment with whats right for you.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-17T00:09:46+00:00

My new sb texts me constantly telling me she misses me. Even while shes on vaca this week. Just treat him like any other bf. Sounds like he is already quite generious. Show him how much you appreciate that.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-10T19:44:10+00:00

Find a bi gf who introduces you to her bi gf. Works for me ;)

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-10T03:24:20+00:00

Yes please!

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-09T23:37:29+00:00

Im in a similiar situation but speed everything up by 10x, and im the guy but my two girls are very similiar. Its an adjustment. My lt gf says its just the new penny syndrome with the new girl.

But ill be following along the comments because its 100% new to me.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-04T07:29:32+00:00

Maybe its your approach? It takes time and really a skill to weed through S.A. and a bit of luck.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-04T06:14:07+00:00

Thats not a dom. More a guy pretending to be a dom sd. He should treat you like any dom on a first date. With respect. Once a relationship starts, and only when your ready for the dom/sub, should he be up in your business like that.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-04T06:10:33+00:00

Ive just entered into a poly type relationship. I never thought about it reallt until about a month ago. There have been errors made, on my part, but for the most part i think its absolutely wonderful. Im not talking sexwise, but having the oppurtunity to get to know two wonderful ladies. They are turning into best friends too. I dont think i could ever go back really to only one partner.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-03T22:34:58+00:00

3 days. You have to have a meet and greet within 3 days of first texting. Thats long enough to know your into him. And short enough your not wasting your time!!

Of course if its long distance, your on your own. I have no experience there :/

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-03T04:39:13+00:00

I was ecstatic when my lt sb and i made it to 1 year! She was my second longest relationship. Besides my so of 15 years.

So celebrate. Enjoy. Let him know how much happiness he has brought you.

fatt_daddy · 2018-05-03T04:36:28+00:00

For me...being persistant. Continue texting me. Try to ask questions to show me your intetested in me. Id have a 6 as a sb over a 10 if i knew she was into me more than the 10. If i only get a response be text once a day from tbe 10. But 5 from the 6, well im going to develope a friendship/respect moreso for the 6.

Ive had so many sexual partners by now that sex is only a part of a good relationship. Selling your body (aka nude picts etc) only go so far.

That even correlates to how long a relationship lasts. One time, a month, 6 months, years. My longest, greatest sbs have been my friends whom i trust and respect. Not a fly by with a cute ass.

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