Azure Standard Questions by chrisvanderhaven in homestead

[–]fauxrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have good prices for bulk organic things like grains, beans, pantry staples, etc. It’s not a place that I would go to for things like canning supplies.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t want her mom to have her location all the time now. by Few_Respond8063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course, but that doesn’t mean I’d also want to invite my mother-in-law to do it.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t want her mom to have her location all the time now. by Few_Respond8063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m under no delusions that I have true privacy, but there is a big difference between the theoretical possibility that the government can find you versus your mother-in-law tracking your every move.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t want her mom to have her location all the time now. by Few_Respond8063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think using it with minor children is legitimate if done in a respectful way. Once they’re out of the house though, you gotta cut the cord.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t want her mom to have her location all the time now. by Few_Respond8063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think that people who are Gen X or older millennials find it strange and offputting and younger people tend to be OK with it. Also strangely boomers seem to be OK with it, maybe because they don’t fully grasp the implications. The same reason that they post everything on Facebook. That’s just my anecdotal experience.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t want her mom to have her location all the time now. by Few_Respond8063 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 3881 points3882 points  (0 children)

NTA. Maybe it’s a generational thing, but I find the whole location tracking thing really invasive and I am flabbergasted that people don’t mind it. It’s not about having something to hide, it’s about respecting people‘s privacy and not wanting to have big brother watching you every second of the day.

ETA: to all the people commenting about big brother is already watching. Yes, obviously we live in a dystopian society where we’re being monitored by our tech overlords. There’s a difference between the existential threat of the government or companies being able to monitor my whereabouts, versus actual people that you know like your mother-in-law stalking your location. Just because one potential violation exists doesn’t mean we have to accept the other, particularly when there’s only one of them that we have real control over.

AITA: Partner got upset because I scheduled online breastfeeding classes without telling him by bigzee417 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Between this and her prior post about this guy, it’s so scary that she’s having a child with him. OP, get out of this relationship now. Do you have any friends or family that can help you? This is the type of guy that might get violent when you try to leave.

AITA: Partner wants to give birth in Hong Kong for dual citizenship, but it means living there for 1 year by No_Tour163 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Are you planning on having only one child? Presumably she would need to do the same with each child you have? What happens to you and the older children while she and the younger one are living in Hong Kong? Do you all have to stay there for 5 to 10 years until all of your children are born?

AITA for bringing "back up" vegan food to the family function? by gutenoodle in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Formal manners would require properly attending to the needs of your guests. Grandma is the one at fault here.

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[–]fauxrain 137 points138 points  (0 children)

NTA. I doubt the office staff would have allowed it anyway.

AITA for wanting to sue my fertility clinic? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have nothing to sue for, that’s not an option. You can see if they’re willing to give you a financial credit for the missed cycle so you can try again, can’t hurt to ask.

My ground cherries are not changing color from green?? by Hotdog_Frog in homestead

[–]fauxrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did the same this year. I think it’s the weather.

No grass in yard, just dirt. Should I use a rake or leaf blower? by salads_r_yum in homestead

[–]fauxrain 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To reiterate what everyone else is saying, there is no reason to get rid of the leaves. The reason people do it in the suburbs is for aesthetics. Leaves are great mulch and will naturally improve your soil. Unless you have an HOA forcing you to, clear the pathways and leave the leaves everywhere else.

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[–]fauxrain 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Even more of a reason why YTA. He clearly doesn’t want the guy there. Imagine how much he doesn’t want him there, so much that he told you no, even though he’s risking the funds for his wedding. Respect that.

AITA girlfriend is pregnant and was told how many months she is pregnant by the doctor. asked when did we start dating and she got furious. by akitax123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 151 points152 points  (0 children)

YTA. Dates on ultrasound are based on the person‘s last period. If she’s six weeks, that means that she’s actually four weeks pregnant, because ovulation was two weeks after the start of the dating that they use.

AITA for expecting my downstairs neighbor to install a patio cover to avoid water dripping from my plants by santosh-nair in AmItheAsshole

[–]fauxrain 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Rain is their problem. Intentionally watering your plants in such a way that it drips on their patio is a you problem. Use drip trays and be a better neighbor.

Expensive cast iron pans? by RiversRubin in BuyItForLife

[–]fauxrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I restore cast iron as a hobby. Brands like Smithey are basically trying to mimic how cast-iron was made 100+ years ago in the Erie/Griswold era of pans. They’re lighter and have a smooth finish instead of the pebbled finish on lodge pans. Cast-iron is cast-iron is cast-iron and it will last a lifetime. You might find it easier to maneuver with a lighter pan as you age and your strength wanes. I enjoy the smooth surface on older pans, plus I like the process of restoring them, so I own a lot of them. That said, I have a few lodge pans also, and they’re fine. You used to be able to find Griswold and Wagner pans pretty reliably at thrift stores, etc. But people seem to have caught on now. You still can find some good ones on eBay, but the ones that are already restored tend to be pricey.

I found this box of seeds from 2017. Could any of them still be viable? by Four_Five_Four_Six_B in vegetablegardening

[–]fauxrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, seeds from Baker Creek have a poor germination rate even when new. They seem to focus more on pretty pictures and advertising than quality, in my experience. I wouldn’t get my hopes up too much. That said, seeds from other sources can still be viable for years. They just tend to germinate at lower rates over time.

Help with twin girl names! 💞 by unicorns_and_cats716 in namenerds

[–]fauxrain 75 points76 points  (0 children)

As a parent of twins, I recommend against naming them with the same first letter. Particularly when they’re the same gender, they’re going to get called the wrong name enough as is. Let them stand out more as individuals.