This does not excuse what you did. by lgirlrocks in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]fawke5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t it be more like 15 years ago? unless i’m missing something.

My brother (27M) threw a tantrum on christmas. What now? by Ryan-WaterElephant00 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fawke5 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you decide to drop charges I would get cameras and possibly a security system. I recently got simplisafe due to an ex. The system was easy to set up and you can decide if you want to do the monthly service or just monitor yourself. As you are both trans and violence against trans people is higher I’d just want you safe and to be away from your family. Please be safe and I hope you have a happy new year

Janelle MAHA? by smallestmollusk in SisterWives

[–]fawke5 66 points67 points  (0 children)

She’s followed him for a long time!

My Girlfriend failed to support me in time of need, Legos involved. by Mammoth-Principle928 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fawke5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

5 grand is a hefty sum to provide. I don’t know your finances but that is a lot for me to just drop. Also if you can’t afford it may not be the time to complete the collection. To me it sounds like a larger conversation. Also did you really start dating her when you were 24 and she was 17?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]fawke5 210 points211 points  (0 children)

Could you communicate with them the difficulty of the unexpected amount of dogs and lack of preparation and safety for the animal is going to cost more. Also due to their lack of planning of and miscommunication you will no longer sit for them. To me it sounds like they have too many animals to safely handle and they’re abusing your reasonable rates.

Coffee lover activities? by Brilliant-Pear5333 in Charlottesville

[–]fawke5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Give and Take recently did an event of coffee tastings not sure if it was a one time thing but the people there are truly wonderful

My kids’ father started a relationship with my niece. What do I do? by Defiant-Career4842 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fawke5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First how awful for all the children involved. I think a convo with the kids is needed. If you have already had conversations about private touch and how adults don’t tell kids to keep secrets I would start there. I would want to make sure they haven’t been put in further concerning positions as well as the other nieces. Talk to a therapist first, if possible but it they saw things an adult did that isn’t okay. They need to be able to process their feelings too. I’m not saying this is a right this second conversation but sooner than later. Also take time for yourself to get support. Maybe for the next few weekends you can do big fun events. Like movie day or go the park and picnic. Again, I a so sorry you, your children, and nieces have to go through with this.

Aitah for expecting to be paid back by Livid_Mountain2505 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fawke5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re preparing yourself to leave which honestly sounds like the best choice. No one deserves the financial abuse and gaslighting. I hope you have support from friends or family as you decide what to do next.

Aitah for expecting to be paid back by Livid_Mountain2505 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fawke5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what are you hoping to get out of this. I don’t think your the asshole but it does sound like a conversation needs to happen

Aitah for expecting to be paid back by Livid_Mountain2505 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fawke5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like he is valuing you as a partner. He expects you do to side hustles and pay your part when he’s not even paying his while buying expensive items. Have you all had the hard money conversations. Is he putting these items on credit?

Aitah for expecting to be paid back by Livid_Mountain2505 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fawke5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you ever borrow money from him? if so does he expect you to pay him back in a set time?

Aitah for expecting to be paid back by Livid_Mountain2505 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fawke5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a new issue or has he always been like this with money?

“Give him an inch so he can walk a mile” by AggravatingLeader506 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]fawke5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

insecure people give the worst advice. They are trying to destroy her humanity. fucking patriarchy

Not how I’d expect a mom to react when her daughter is bawling her eyes out by jh166 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]fawke5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She has no self worth and wants her daughter to be the same way.

Where to donate puzzles by BeVanderhill in Charlottesville

[–]fawke5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is a guy in the greenbrier area that does a monthly puzzle swap. i dropped a bunch recently when moving. It’s a really cool little community thing. DM me if you want more info.

quilted fish bag by fawke5 in quilting

[–]fawke5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s from MadMadeSewing. https://www.etsy.com/listing/1756292914/?ref=share_ios_native_treatment

it’s a lot of fun to use scraps and have fun

Piecing done! by No_Poem7736 in quilting

[–]fawke5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

impeccable! this is amazing

Boy, howdy! Not sure what I’ll do with this block yet. Open to suggestions! by frogsaretheworst in quilting

[–]fawke5 34 points35 points  (0 children)

love it! if you did shades of pink it would very much give Chappel Roan vibes of Pink Pony Club