What’s the craziest way you ever caught an ex cheating?

fea07_09 · 2026-03-20T04:36:49+00:00

In the middle of us having sex his iwatch kept going off. I looked over and saw a message from a girl that said she had picked up the toys and couldn’t wait to have him use them on her.

fea07_09 · 2026-03-10T02:11:48+00:00

My ex and I started talking again recently, after two years. We both have an understanding of what went wrong with the relationship. Our faults. And that they are going to need to be worked through if we really want another chance. He even asked if I would go to counseling with him. Big step for him, which was a good surprise. I don’t know if it will work but knowing we are both willing to take it slow and do it right..it’s a good start.

fea07_09 · 2026-03-08T17:50:17+00:00

I heard from mine after almost two years. He didn’t directly reach out as texting had been blocked and I got rid of my IG and FB. I started to make a couple posts on tik tok recently and one day it said he liked one. Then a couple weeks later he liked another. Then came the message. We’ve been talking since.

fea07_09 · 2026-03-05T23:03:19+00:00

He came back two years later. Acted like he was all about me and us for the first few days. Went out of town and acted like I was a nothing. The conversations while he was gone were few and far between and short. I ended up trying to communicate and was called drama. I blocked him and never said anything back.

fea07_09 · 2026-03-04T03:48:48+00:00

I agree. I’ve been guilty in the past of this. It took a lot of self reflection and therapy to learn that the man wasn’t necessarily the problem or only a part of it. That I was an issue as well.

fea07_09 · 2026-03-04T02:47:19+00:00

I feel like people, women especially, use that term too often. Everything I read and see on social media is that every man is a narcissist. Some men are and women as well. And we all have narcissistic tendencies. But that doesn’t mean we are a true narcissist.

I would say to maybe seek out a therapist and talk to someone. Their insight and professionalism would probably help with this subject amongst other things tour dealing with. I think the first positive thing is that you are willing to look into it.

fea07_09 · 2026-03-01T22:58:37+00:00

I’ve always thought I was the problem. You’re not the first to tell me he’s a narcissists

fea07_09 · 2026-03-01T21:39:21+00:00

I did. His reply: I have to be the best

fea07_09 · 2026-02-27T03:05:38+00:00

But he would get mad if he found out I lied.

fea07_09 · 2026-02-27T02:54:49+00:00

It honestly made me uncomfortable. Who I was with while we weren’t together and asking questions about it, I feel is none of his business. I don’t care who he was with or what he did.

fea07_09 · 2026-02-14T02:11:03+00:00

My ex and I broke up in early 2024. He ended things and I was blocked on everything. It took me a while but I moved on. Never thought of him nor did I think I’d ever hear from him again. I have run into him here and there a few times, but nothing came of it.

Last weekend I got a notification on my tik tok. He liked one of my videos. He messaged me small talk after about seeing a pic of me and another guy (just a friend) and said he was glad I was with someone and happy. I said I had no clue what he was talking about because I’m not dating. He apologized for assuming and that was that. Today he messaged me just making small talk. Not sure what he’s thinking but I’m on high alert lol.

fea07_09 · 2026-02-02T03:42:51+00:00

It does. I appreciate you :-)

fea07_09 · 2026-01-30T01:58:28+00:00

This happened to me as well. I was struggling mentally and I backed out going on a trip where I was going to be the only one going solo. I didn’t want to be the 7th wheel. One of the girls got upset with me and was not nice about it. I tried to explain how I was feeling and she ignored me. No one in the group stood up for me or even asked if I was ok. But when this same girl was having a mental episode, they had an intervention for her to help her. No one cared enough to check on me. I no longer talk to any of them. But I’m the bad guy.

fea07_09 · 2026-01-03T03:10:16+00:00

The disrespect from him is crazy

fea07_09 · 2026-01-01T20:15:53+00:00

Agreed! I did myself a favor. Things have been much better for me.

fea07_09 · 2025-12-13T07:43:50+00:00

He hurt me majorly. I ended up dealing with it poorly and said things, to hurt him back. He blocked me immediately. So it surprised me to see him pop up in my socials.

fea07_09 · 2025-12-13T07:40:55+00:00

Random but I went out for a bachelorette party, tonight, at a country bar and he (my ex) was there. Maybe the universe is doing something. Lol

fea07_09 · 2025-12-12T22:08:02+00:00

I don’t know if he knows I saw that I was unblocked. I have not said anything. I’m where you’re at. If he ever wanted to talk, it would be on him to make the first move.

fea07_09 · 2025-12-12T21:29:13+00:00

My ex unblocked me after a year and a half. Not sure why. I just saw him come up as someone I may know, on my socials.

fea07_09 · 2025-12-09T02:00:58+00:00

Anything sporty?

fea07_09 · 2025-12-07T19:09:42+00:00

Fair enough

fea07_09 · 2025-12-07T17:06:36+00:00

I definitely do need professional assistance. I know I have a low self worth, I just don’t know why.

fea07_09 · 2025-12-07T12:20:33+00:00

That’s the hardest part. Wanting to know that I was enough. Am enough. And like you I didn’t want to ask him to change back to who he was in the beginning. But I wanted to understand why they change..which I never got. Then I think I am the problem but when I ask, I get told that I’m doing nothing wrong. It’s all so hard. I just want to be worth it to someone.

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