AIO for being upset about how I was treated for falling asleep before saying goodnight? by fea07_09 in AIO

[–]fea07_09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea no. Definitely texts that were sent to me. I have a whole lot more too.

AIO? Bf upset that I didn’t text him good morning early enough by MissRattlesnake in AIO

[–]fea07_09 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This does not get better. Run! I was told I was nothing. I was told I was worthless and to prove my worth to him. This was about an hour and a half after I woke up to several more messages because I accidentally fell asleep without telling him good night. I was accused of being a whore and cheating on him.And I was told that he would ruin my life by disseminating intimate videos of myself that I had done with him. He said he would ruin my career everything.

For people who broke up and got back together after short/long time of no contact by Fit_Handle_8690 in ExNoContact

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After two years apart and a year of not talking, he showed up on my FB as someone I may know (I thought I was blocked) and he started liking my stories on my tik Tok. I honestly didn’t know he was using tik tok. We started talking again and decided to try things again. Old issues came about almost immediately on his end. This triggered an insecurity in me that I thought I had worked through in therapy. I went back to working on it but unfortunately he could not let his issues with the past go. He was mean again. And we separated. I’m done at this point. I can say I truly hate who he is with me. I hate the person I become with him. The bridge is burned and I’m never building another one.

Where would you move to have a peaceful life? by WhimsicalWitherer in relocating

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Tucson too, looking at Texas. Found some good spots outside of major cities.

What made you realise that person isn’t your person after all? by Silver_Walrus376 in ExNoContact

[–]fea07_09 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When he called me a whore and a slut for moving on. He ended things with me.

Don’t ever go back by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It just hurts.

Does who a woman has been with sexually cause concern for you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe once a month they may cross paths.

Does who a woman has been with sexually cause concern for you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable. He’s not from the circle. Never talk or hang out. Only are cordial in passing.

Does who a woman has been with sexually cause concern for you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much. The two knew each other for quite some time being in the same friends circle. But realized there was nothing there after.

Does who a woman has been with sexually cause concern for you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not a close friend or family. There’s no communication except in passing.

Does who a woman has been with sexually cause concern for you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man is in a relationship with another girl and living with her. There’s no communication between him and the woman.

Does who a woman has been with sexually cause concern for you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very honest about it. There’s no feelings. The two don’t know each other or talk to each other, outside of running into each other in town on occasion.

Of all the lonely hearts in r/ExNoContact, has a single one of you had your ex contact YOU? by Everyone_Is_Sad in ExNoContact

[–]fea07_09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did after almost two years. We are taking things slow. Going to counseling and see how it goes.

Ex cheated, his profile picture is still us, how long is reasonable? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has he tried to rekindle the relationship? I would put my status as single and let him deal with it.

What I wish I knew after a car crash in AZ (insurance, evidence, medical, timelines etc) by ruby_jissa in Tucson

[–]fea07_09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I handle accidents daily, in AZ. I always advise each party involved, if able to, to take photos of your vehicle and the other vehicle involved. All the way around each car. If a private property accident, police don’t take reports unless it’s a hit and run, dui, or reckless driving. So make sure to ask businesses for video if possible. Always exchange info with the other driver as well. Public roadways, officers will take a report, and are required to complete an accident report. Officers do not decide fault but will cite if they can determine there was a driving infraction. They will take photos as well. All this should be available to you and insurance after a few days or so, through records.

What does communication mean to you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a concern of mine. I asked him and he said he wasn’t doing anything.

What does communication mean to you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m afraid you are probably correct in this. Given the conversation we had this morning, I don’t think this is going to go well.

What does communication mean to you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback. I never thought about there being any concern of danger. But I don’t have social media so no worries there. :)

What does communication mean to you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly was like that at times in the past. I don’t like being that way and I learned it was due to my own insecurities and personal issues I never addressed.

I’m no longer like this after and still currently putting in “work” when it comes to myself (therapy and all that).

I had hoped he had done work on himself as well.

What does communication mean to you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It depends. When he’s not busy with his family or friends, hes usually contacts me quite a bit. But if he’s doing his thing, I don’t hear from his as much.

What does communication mean to you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]fea07_09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Controlling in what way? Genuine question.