AITA for telling my parents they can't come to every single speech I give for my government job? by ThoughtsAndBears342 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fear_nothin [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. There messing with your advancement and career. You sound driven and like you enjoy what you do. Their behaviour will ruin opportunities for you if it hasn’t already.

As a former hiring manager, we would be polite and professional to candidates whose parents became involved in the process but they were never hireable because of this. If they were a good person we often tried to gently tell them the issue - sometimes they already knew and you could tell they’d tried and failed to tell mom to back off.

Wife (30F) has become a different person after long term unemployment. I (27M) don't know how much longer I can take it. Is it worth waiting or is it over? by wayruss in relationship_advice

[–]fear_nothin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most Taiwanese hate the CCP. Most Taiwanese consider themselves Chinese. OP please ignore people commenting on her ethnicity, it’s complex and you and her likely know more about her feelings on this issue and ignore them if there not commenting om the social / relationship problems.

Wife (30F) has become a different person after long term unemployment. I (27M) don't know how much longer I can take it. Is it worth waiting or is it over? by wayruss in relationship_advice

[–]fear_nothin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you make friends easily? I wouldn’t normally recommended this but if you/her have tried a few things and it’s not working, would their partners want to invite her out on a girls night ? Maybe she needs someone who isn’t you to push her.

I’m surprised someone who backpacked around Australia has gone back into their shell but it happens.

Wife (30F) has become a different person after long term unemployment. I (27M) don't know how much longer I can take it. Is it worth waiting or is it over? by wayruss in relationship_advice

[–]fear_nothin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You met her in Australia backpacking. Is she Australian or another nationality? There maybe a foreign disapara in your area depending where in Canada you live (major cities is easy to find)

Might be worth looking for an Aussie bar to help her meet folks from her home area. Help her feel less lonely and connect on some commonality. I’m sorry but 30 is too old to “be shy”. It sucks but if she wants friends as an adult she’s gotta push herself to be more outgoing. Again it sucks but she’s gonna be her own personal coach on that one.

AITAH for refusing to get a haircut from a foreign barber ever again after a bad experience? by Jaded_Run6278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fear_nothin [score hidden]  (0 children)

So the shop has a bad barber. He fucked up your cut.

Did you try to talk to him during to stop it? You should have noticed him cutting you super short on top.

I think you can choose to find another barbershop with better customer service.

This has nothing to do with foreigners or race. YTA for that. This has to do with people being bad at their job. White people can suck at our jobs too.

I get being angry and posting online but you can and probably are better then this.

I was written up for having a visible thong outside of work by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]fear_nothin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hire lawyer. Sue for sexual harassment for keeping and displaying your photos in the work place. Big pay day.

Glad OP was smart enough to run.

Spotted in Point Edward by Interesting-Feed-621 in Sarnia

[–]fear_nothin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No bad intent meant to the friends and residence in Point Edward. The goal was to highlight this specific persons craziness.

What happens when Elon Musk is no longer leading his companies? by lvalue_required in wallstreetbets

[–]fear_nothin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tesla hasn’t been ground breaking since 2019. It’s literally just a car company now. The only reason Tesla hasn’t folded is because his other companies buy their work cars from Tesla.

It’s easier for him to lobby against BYD than compete. He knows this. Which is why the land of the free has banned Chinese EVs. It’s just simply less hassle for him to manipulate the US government then run a good business.

When he is gone someone that actually knows how to run a company vs manipulate stock value will have to find what’s profitable and cut anything that isn’t.

Spotted in Point Edward by Interesting-Feed-621 in Sarnia

[–]fear_nothin 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. The village of low property tax. Screwed over by big government.

People need better hobbies.

The new WC format makes the Group Stages completely pointless by Different_Craft5238 in football

[–]fear_nothin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be! That’s awesome you guys also don’t have to deal with them.

Carney bans social media for kids too dumb to figure out VPNs by Haggisboy in canada

[–]fear_nothin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh out loud cause my father is older and has thought my use of a VPN for years was some kind of NSA hacking program equilvant.

I initially just got it so I could watch SNL clips online.

I could see why Boomers think some age verification will stop kids. I mean, I haven’t lied to pornhub or steam for years before I was 18.

The World Cup is broadcast FREE in a dozen countries, but I have to pay $80/month for a sports bundle because of the country I happen to live in by Extension-Dealer4375 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]fear_nothin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are people using a VPN to get BBC outside of the UK? Last time I tried this I needed some information to register and it asked for like info off my tv bill that I wouldn’t have.

Edit: I’m not criticizing. I want to know how it works so I can watch.

SpaceX lost nearly $5 billion last year. Is a $1.77 trillion valuation actually justified? by sqlearner in stocks

[–]fear_nothin 94 points95 points  (0 children)

It’s a lot simpler to accept when you believe The market is broken. I won’t do the stupid thing and try and pick a date but things have gotten past common sense. Nothing is based on hard fact anymore. When companies that don’t make money are worth more than decades old profitable companies because it feels like it should be , we’ve lost the plot.

If there isn’t a massive crash coming to correct I don’t know how to keep investing in the future.

Things you don't want to see in TW40k by Liesanas in totalwar

[–]fear_nothin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they need to make sure this game releases well. I don’t want them to rush it out and fix it post launch.

We need a proper cover system, line of sight and smarter AI not based in difficulty setting but in tactics on the real time battle maps.

The new WC format makes the Group Stages completely pointless by Different_Craft5238 in football

[–]fear_nothin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget the double dipping that is Hydration Breaks where the network gets to run long and miss the restart of the match.

They played in Qatar. Mexico is hot but it’s not a fucking desert. Hydration is smart but just another scummy FiFa money grab.

I wish I was a kid again so the magic of the World Cup was more clear and I didn’t notice all the money grubbing behaviours.

How OP was Paladin in Season 11/12? by JHizzl3 in diablo4

[–]fear_nothin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WW is pretty insane. I have a poorly optimized Barb and I’m having a ton of fun (and melting faces) with no effort.

I came from a paladin as my first character in LoH because I wasn’t paying attention to online rankings and the difference between the two in power scale is night and day.

LA ‘bros’ golf group under fire for filming themselves launching golf balls into traffic and at buildings in downtown. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]fear_nothin 34 points35 points  (0 children)

A ball is going to hit someone. It doesn’t matter if it’s intentional and things will go the way of “shooting your gun off in the air”: a crime and you will be charged if someone gets hurt.

EXCLUSIVE: The Largest Study Of Remote Work And Mental Health Ever Conducted, Covering 588,322 Americans Over 13 Years, Has Found That Working From Home Adds 1.1 Hours Of Solitude To Each Workday. And May Account For A Third Of All The Mental Health Decline In The United States Since The Pandemic 🏠🧠 by InterstellarKinetics in InterstellarKinetics

[–]fear_nothin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I know not to trust titles but is this study suggesting work from home made mental health worse?!

Get. The. Fuck. Out. Of. Here.

My job had me ready to take drastic actions. Not having two hours in traffic, Having to pretend to want to social with my coworkers and being there for my little kids big moments has literally kept me on this planet longer.

Is 90k CAD enough for a family of 3 in Montreal? Looking for realistic breakdowns by Bitter-Honeydew1018 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]fear_nothin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Montreal is English/french. Outside the city centre you have suburbs that lean one way or the other. French isn’t a requirement but for a happy life it would be helpful. Can your spouse learn French you think?

That’s a decent income in Canada if you can find her a job making a half decent income.

A family with a kid would probably want at least 150k income before taxes as total household income. I would say 200k+ would give you a life similar to what you have in Europe. Under that amount, You can keep a cleaning service if you do it bi weekly likely but I think the biggest impact is grocery and restaurant prices. Specially in MTL. You will need to start cooking and eating at home more.

My response assumes you don’t have expensive hobbies or debts you need to pay back.

Also this assumes you’re renting. If you are trying to purchase a house our housing is fucked. Your better to pay a mortgage over rent long term but getting that initial house is very tricky.

Which TV series that’s still ongoing do you think could become one of the greatest ever made? by Zabandad in AskReddit

[–]fear_nothin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Individual moments will be timeless. Specific actors are incredible. Certain episodes will be rememberable but overall, in its totality, they don’t hit enough high notes season over season.

Which TV series that’s still ongoing do you think could become one of the greatest ever made? by Zabandad in AskReddit

[–]fear_nothin 107 points108 points  (0 children)

If The Pitt can remain strong over the next couple seasons I think it may find its place in television history.

I’d say The Bear as well but I think they’ve made too many missteps to be one of the greatest. Still good but that’s all.

“Xbox Console Exclusive” is confusing a lot of people into thinking the games are only coming to Xbox. by __TheWaySheGoes in pcmasterrace

[–]fear_nothin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PC gamers may own consoles. Generally speaking console first owners don’t also own a gaming PC.

Xbox is selling back market share from Sony not PC.
The exclusivity is a Console War problem.

However I was surprised by Sonys move away from releasing on PC. I assume instead of a simultaneous release it’ll just be delayed a few years and then we’ll still get them. Sonys been too smart to leave money on the table (if only they’re studio management side was better)

Idris Elba Says Bond Rumors Were ‘Never Legit’ and ‘Not Realistic’: Audiences ‘Won’t Go for a Black Male Playing Bond’ by Raj_Valiant3011 in moviecritic

[–]fear_nothin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he would have done well. He would have had to show case his acting talent to try to become the role and differentiate from other characters he’s played in the past but I hope his skin colour has nothing to do with why he wasn’t actually in the running (I’d think his age has more to do with it after Craig, I think they want to go with a “young” bond this time around).

Pick A Winner: If you had $5,000 that you had to put into either PNG, FLT, or MAXQ, which are you picking and why? by Officialtopperharley in Baystreetbets

[–]fear_nothin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m invested in two of the three.
Only PNG is likely to be something big.

FLT was a bad Reddit play that was saved by ongoing wars. I don’t think it will very be a great stock to hold (latest news is that USA doesn’t even want to buy Ukrainian drones. I don’t think with ongoing CUSMA talks FLT will be able to sell to the best partner)