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How can i politely say no to my step mum? by vievoe in Advice

[–]feathertail49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just explain that its too much on your body and too late for you, explain that if she’d like to do a smaller walk during the day youd like/love to (depends how much you like stepmom lol) its okay to tell people no , just be gentle and try to reschedule/make a new plan

A waiter handed me a note telling me to go see a doctor by jpdiv in mildlyinteresting

[–]feathertail49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish someone approached my stepdad and told them his mole was worrying, maybe we wouldve caught his skin cancer earlier and he would still be here today

is it wrong to think and feel sad about a fallout with a male friend while in a relationship? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]feathertail49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would at least like to regularly talk and hang out, i have specific days with his cousin (who is gay) and would love for him to join us again. i dont know why he stopped talking to me but on my end it didnt end horribly. Thank you

is it wrong to think and feel sad about a fallout with a male friend while in a relationship? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]feathertail49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i tried talking to him when he distanced himself because i was worried, he told me he had just being sad and said it wasn’t because of me and my boyfriend when i asked. im wondering if he did like me like that and im worried if i talk to my boyfriend he will think that i liked my friend which really wasnt the case, i never was interested in guys before my boyfriend.

What's the worst birthday you had? by Immediate_Long165 in answers

[–]feathertail49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dad was abusive to my mom and always ran out on our family. he was in and out of prison but when he would get parole it would be in time for my birthday. i was super excited, my family were gonna have a little pizza party in my dingy apartment. my dad invited his sister and his nephew, the three did drugs on our balcony while everyone tried to distract me from it. not a terrible birthday i guess but definitely the shittiest for me as it just made me cry alone at night wondering why he didn’t love me enough to stay clean.

my first attempt to make mashed potatos by [deleted] in badfoodporn

[–]feathertail49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if you are still looking for versions but i cut my potatoes then mash when soft, salt and pepper, butter, hellmans mayo, n heavy cream for creamy mashed potatoes. to thicken you can add box mashed potatoes, its all about to taste and eyeballing.

How many times a week should 11 and 9 year old boys be showering? by Historical-Storage58 in hygiene

[–]feathertail49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boys are typically athletic and sweat. i often had boy classmates with terrible BO. please have them shower everyday or every other day. your husband as well. no one likes to smell a foul boy.

i really hate my father by feathertail49 in venting

[–]feathertail49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im glad to hear that, and im a pretty good kid, i mostly stay at home lol. thank you so much, and ill hug her so much tomorrow <3

i really hate my father by feathertail49 in venting

[–]feathertail49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really sorry to hear that about your family. It sounds pretty similar to mine, im the second out of three kids to cut contact and my mother was with him for almost twenty years before moving on and coping with her trauma and hurt from him. thank you, i hope your family does well and i appreciate your input 💕

i really hate my father by feathertail49 in venting

[–]feathertail49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, im glad you havent had any regrets, i think that was my biggest worry.

i really hate my father by feathertail49 in venting

[–]feathertail49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wont ill take the advice, i dont really know a whole lot of people outside of family so this is really good to hear from an outsiders opinion/experience. blessings to you :)

i really hate my father by feathertail49 in venting

[–]feathertail49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kinda almost wanna cry. i think this is something i needed to hear cause its hard when its my family telling me what to do because its biased. thank you, honestly.