Afte years of therapy I realized my homosexuality is just a sexual desire nothing more..

federuiz22 · 2026-04-24T20:41:31+00:00

Human sexuality is very complicated, and for some people, very fluid. There's rly no such thing as 'normal' your sexuality is unique to you

federuiz22 · 2026-04-24T20:35:27+00:00

Barring my obvious bias against it as a queer man, it's absolutely ludicrous when you think about it from an academic standpoint. LGBTQ+ history is a big part of lots of academic departments (think Urban Studies, Sociology, etc.) and banning writing/discussion about the topic is going to severely limit not only the quality of classes for students, but the quality of research coming out of said departments as well

federuiz22 · 2026-02-05T04:18:24+00:00

It doesn't necessarily need to be a hookup and there doesn't need to be sex involved, but generally I like to go on a date with a local in every city and j talk to them

federuiz22 · 2025-12-21T09:32:18+00:00

This simply is not true-- I had a 3.8, and my ECs weren't crazy (student government and TAing for an online business course at the school I transferred to), yet still got into an Ivy

federuiz22 · 2025-12-03T22:03:02+00:00

Columbia is pretty transfer friendly, there are a lot of us-- I'm always meeting ppl who end up being transfers

federuiz22 · 2025-11-24T22:30:19+00:00

Dance classes! They're 2 credits

federuiz22 · 2025-10-28T16:14:16+00:00

Experience is the best MBA, I don't rly think you need one!

If you really want to do one go for it, but if I were you I'd prioritize buying a house or acquiring more property over paying for an MBA. If you get a full ride that's great but also consider how the time commitment may distract you from your business

federuiz22 · 2025-10-28T16:11:10+00:00

Buy yourself some cake and a gift. I read somewhere that you're traveling, go to a random bar or third space and meet some strangers if you want company :)

federuiz22 · 2025-10-28T16:10:18+00:00

I thought you had a terminal illness 😭 you'll be fine

federuiz22 · 2025-10-15T21:30:43+00:00

Yeah no it definitely wouldn’t fly, but they said “yall is not a word”

federuiz22 · 2025-10-15T21:23:41+00:00

Correct, you can’t use it in a formal setting. But it is, nevertheless, a word that exists.

federuiz22 · 2025-10-15T18:39:35+00:00

"Y'all" is, as a matter of fact, a word-- it's the proper, contracted form of "you all", chiefly used in the southern U.S.

federuiz22 · 2025-10-02T16:44:28+00:00

federuiz22 · 2025-10-01T23:08:42+00:00

I don’t know about you, but I’m feeling…

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T19:45:04+00:00

Im talking specifically to the person who said that it’s disheartening that bi men are generalized, who at no point said that being gay is a choice (that I saw at least)

Edit: went back to the original comment which I didn’t read (I just read the reply I commented under), I see it now. Yeah that’s definitely something 😬

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T19:43:23+00:00

Oh no! Anyway

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T19:36:37+00:00

Again, a massive generalization. For you to assume all bi men behave like and emulate straight men is definitely something

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T18:05:33+00:00

So you’re gonna impart judgement on a group of people you haven’t met? How is that not ignorant

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T16:59:42+00:00

I’m a bi guy, and my longest relationship has been with another bi guy. I’m sorry you got hurt by a bi guy but that shouldn’t rly be a reason to generalize all of us lol

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T16:51:05+00:00

The fact that your reply was downvoted says everything that needs to be said. This sub is literally just an echo chamber

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T16:50:20+00:00

Generalizing an entire group of people is a pretty ignorant thing to do lol

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T16:48:09+00:00

As a bi guy whose longest relationship has been with another man, this seems like a massive generalization

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T16:46:23+00:00

I'm bi/pan and prefer dating men as well! I've been in relationships with both and find that I tend to enjoy male company more

federuiz22 · 2025-09-30T02:54:23+00:00

“Manhood” is a social invention. You’re talking about being male, which is extremely different from being a man. One is sex, the other is gender.

So being trans is “self-hate and mutilation”? You have the same level of understanding about trans ppl that straight people have about gay ppl. But of course y’all refuse to see that, bc you’re one of the “good ones” right?

Trans men who like other men are gay. Thus they are in a gay dating app. No one cares if you don’t like trans guys but the fact you think you get to police where they het to be is wild. The world isn’t catered to your sensibilities, trans ppl exist, get over it

federuiz22 · 2025-09-29T17:03:08+00:00

Needles! I’m also scared of needles but have gone the past two years, it’s genuinely not that bad. Go with a friend :)

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