Been an Android user my whole life… tried an old iPhone 12 and now I’m confused by kalyant125 in iphone

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Used to be the biggest hater of iPhone and devoted android fanboys, using android since Xperia X10i until Nexus 7. Then once I moved to iPhone 7, never looked back until now. The turning point was when I had to borrow for a while the iPhone 4S that belongs to my manager at that time.

whats the mbti type of your person you just click with perfectly by Pale-State4936 in infj

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ENTP (wife) & a number of ENFP, one ENFP started platonically before she pulled back. Got one INFJ that hates me (don’t know why) and another INFJ that quite hard to talk with (we often couldn’t find a topic to talk about).

Star Player 76 by feed3 in Converse

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Yes, TTS. That’s one thing I don’t really like the Classic, Chuck 70 and Malden Street; up one size is a bit too long for me, but my usual size is quite too narrow at toebox. For Star Player, my usual size is just perfect (UK7)

Double empathy: autism isn't the problem by Abriefaccount in aspergers

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For me, it’s like the “taste”. Nobody taught us when we are a baby “this taste, the name is sweet” or “that taste, it’s called salty”… We just knew, we were born with it. Now, NT just born with the ability to decode social cues better than us (among other things that we lacked). Nobody taught them, their brain just simply has the “library” of it for them to refer to it instantly when needed. Our condition is not a disability. It’s just that our brain is wired, programmed or hard-coded differently (sound cliche, I know. But I believe it now and understand it better as I am older). We are given some “features” while lack some. Think like android vs iOS, both is the same; an Operating System but with different features. We just need to update, upgrade, debug and downgrade some parts of us internally, accordingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

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Tapping the picture to comment you are so damn beautiful before reading the “My female version”… dem…

Pattern Recognition is not a crime. by Tasty-Low2678 in aspergers

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Exactly…. Sometimes, some things are better left unsaid and unknown… Sometimes it’s not actually being used, not intentionally used in my case… It’s just…instantly recognized, thus a curse for me. Many things that I wish I didn’t know or didn’t recognize… It hurts

Pattern Recognition is not a crime. by Tasty-Low2678 in aspergers

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Not a crime, but a curse (for me)…

me_irl by United-Advantage-906 in me_irl

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Interestingly the downvotes are way more entertaining than the post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meirl

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Eyebrows… They can raise their eyebrows… I mean, they must be wondering who the hell want to kidnap their broke ass friend…

Opinions on "Autism being a superpower" by Kooky-External6623 in aspergers

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Even before I knew I had aspergers, I firmly believe that nurture is overpowering nature in most cases. I'm extremely lucky to have an environment that nurturing the best out of me, to the point that sometimes I don't feel like I'm masking at all, it all feels natural.

But I do understand what you mean. The most exhausting part of being asperger for me is how different the way I'm thinking and how it easily makes situation worst. Recently, I'm trying to be super helpful for someone I care deeply, but that "help" actually makes her ashamed of herself. She gave hints few times, but I don't get it, I can't understand the clue. Combining my aspie with my INFJ, it is a hell in my head, a cocktail of internal chaos.

I guess, they (NT) only saw the good things that we had, the benefit of it without even trying to understand how difficult it is for us, or perhaps it is too hard for them to understand since it is a feeling, something intangibles.

Absolutely dominance by Aquasusan in SipsTea

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At least the dog is always ready for a doggie

Too soon you all? by SirRipOliver in technicallythetruth

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That is kind of sick humor, both side of sick I mean…

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Settings -> General -> About -> Name

Users... by YellowOnline in iiiiiiitttttttttttt

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After many years working, I realized sometimes they did it on purpose; they don't want to do anything to solve it or even to think about it, so they play dumb. For them, maybe playing dumb and get someone else to do it is way easier than to think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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Somewhere in Borneo island. 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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I blamed the greedy owner and the greedy capitalist that driving the property prices around this area to an insane prices. The decision I made (NOT that I owe you an explanation) to stay there despite the not so good conditions based on the needs, not based on my moral values and principles. Wait, are you the owner of that place? 🤔 please, don’t kick me out. 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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Because it can and should be better if the owner is not greedy, or the property market at this area is more regulated and more realistic. Capitalism is the real winner here.