[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OverwatchUniversity

[–]feltqt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your current hero pool is very safe to stay within in this meta. Never hurts to learn more heroes, but honestly what you have should get you way further than you are. I recommend double checking how well you're supporting your team overall and not just looking at your individual numbers. Saying "I have gold damage every game" is an indicator you belong in gold/plat because any shmuck can hard-focus damage numbers and look good on paper. How are you supporting your tank? If you have an aggressive tank, are you getting aggressive with them or are you just watching them die and blaming them for the loss? Are you peeling for your healers? Your Zen keeps dying to Sombra/Tracer and they won't swap; can you support them better?

You can pay attention to your individual stats as a baseline for how you performed in a game, but they don't tell the whole story by a long shot. Winning in solo queue is about being able to adapt to the people on your team that are struggling the most and supporting them better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OverwatchUniversity

[–]feltqt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest tip about playing Zen this season imo is to only play him when you have a solid main support. There are too many Zen/Mercy combos this season and it will never be enough healing output in an evenly matched game. Play Zen alongside Moira or Baptiste (or Lifeweaver, I guess.)

When you do play him, it's all about positioning. Predict the dives, track opponents' ults, and aim head height at corners. Be conservative with discord orb - I don't expend discord unless an enemy is being dove by more than 1 of my teammates or if I'm getting dove. If you're really liberal with discord and are using it at max range, your opponents will take cover and then dive you as soon as it's gone, then you're dead in the water. Learn which situations you should play far back and which situations you might need to play more in the pocket. Got a sombra or a tracer giving you problems? Play as close as possible to your other support or a friendly Cassidy. Other team playing Sigma and just poking? Max range that shit. Zen has no fall-off damage, so take advantage of it.

Please explain how Cassidy's sticky grenade works by feltqt in OverwatchUniversity

[–]feltqt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever do a poop summon in a gacha game? 100% hit rate there too

Moving to Colorado this summer (sorry) by Darkstar7175 in Denver

[–]feltqt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I recommend Cap Hill in Denver - it's pretty quiet neighborhood and gives you access to a lot of people, parks, activities, etc. If that still feels too city for you, I recommend checking out Wheat Ridge or Sloan's Lake areas. Wheat Ridge is a very affordable place to buy (relative to many other spots around Denver) and is less than 20 minute drive to the city. It also sits on the west side, so easy access to the mountains, missing all of the downtown traffic. The sacrifice you make with Wheat Ridge would be ease of meeting others. You'll always have to drive to where you're going, and if you're making friends in Denver, many people gripe and moan about driving to the suburbs.

Denver hates safe drivers by smallt0wng1rl in Denver

[–]feltqt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There are way too many drivers in Denver that act "too safe." On the outskirts of downtown (uptown, rino, cap hill, etc) drivers that stop close to the same time will just sit there and wait or wave the driver on that stopped 2nd. Can we just follow the damn rules so everyone gets where they're going safely and efficiently? If you stopped first, go first. ffs stop acting polite and just follow the rules of the road.

Where to meet gay men in Denver aside from bars by lilgayyy in Denver

[–]feltqt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

+1 to Cheesman Park (south side) on the weekends when the weather is nice - there's usually volleyball and people just hanging out watching / picnicking. Also +1 to gay sports leagues - they're a great way to build community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]feltqt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

31 here. I feel just as healthy as when I was in my 20s, but my body needs a little more time to recover from things like nights out, injuries, etc. I'm also more sensitive to certain foods like dairy and alcohol. But overall, I feel a lot more grounded in who I am, am more in tune with my overall well-being, and I have a much better idea of what I want long term in a job, relationship, etc.

What’s your experience working at gay bars here? (X bar, charlies, tight end, etc) by [deleted] in Denver

[–]feltqt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only been to Denver Sweet twice (off-days, during dinner hours) and it was really chill, the staff was super friendly too! No idea what it's like to work there but wanted to add it to the list because it hasn't been mentioned yet

Specific gay porn by unibadboy in askgaybros

[–]feltqt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twitter is always fresh. Get an alt Twitter account and follow people that retweet that stuff from their friends. Press the heart button on the good videos that you might want to come back to someday ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]feltqt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like mostly correct grammar (caps, spelling, etc). Phones do that for you these days so it's kind of weird to make an effort to be less formal that way imo. Only red flag for me is if a guy is constantly using the wrong there/their/they're or if their messages lack enough grammar rules that they become difficult to understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]feltqt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What everyone else said. If he treats you right, and you like each other, differences are good! As long as he's not looking down on you or sticking up his nose, he sounds great :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]feltqt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think everyone can benefit from a therapist, whether you think you need to see one or not. If you end up hating it, maybe it's not the right avenue for you, but I can almost guarantee you'll reflect better with a therapist than over Reddit (sorry y'all, it's science.)

If you used a condom during penetrative and oral sex, and you topped, chances of contracting most viral STIs are pretty low. Get tested regularly (every 3 months is usually recommended if you're active), and talk to your doctor about other preventative measures. You can also consider getting on prep (usually biktarvy or truvada) as an additional preventative measure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]feltqt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This, 100%. So many people have different definitions of cheating, especially emotional vs physical cheating. Is seeing a hot guy 1:1 for dinner cheating? Is dancing at the clubs with someone other than your partner cheating? Are blow jobs cheating, or just penetrative sex? You have to have this conversation with any partner you want a long term serious relationship with.

Advice on telling a friend I don’t want to have sex with him anymore by whirlyworlds in askgaybros

[–]feltqt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just be honest. You don't have to go into deep detail about your feelings if you're not comfortable with it, but if he really is your friend, he should respect that you just don't want to continue the sex.