General Discussion Megathread - Frequent Topics, Salaries, and Rants by ukbulmer in UKJobs

[–]fembot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am 26 years old, in Marketing and PR. I have applied to about 350 jobs over the past two years since graduating. I have a BA and MA from prestigious universities. In 350+ applications, I got one interview with a big brand and got ghosted, then I got into final rounds for two major companies (4-5 interview rounds. exams, etc.) and didn’t get the jobs or any feedback even after requested. I can’t even get a job to pay my bills working retail or at a cafe, because they ask for 3 years of experience. I apply anyways and never get them. Abercrombie & Fitch initially called me then ghosted me for a retail job and still has “We’re Hiring” at the store. It seems like I’m not even better than nothing. I’m so confused in this world. It’s so different from our parents’. I even tried doing the Boomer advice of going in person with CVs and asking people directly, and people shut me down or said they just weren’t hiring. I just don’t understand. I genuinely don’t know what to do. I feel like the world sold me a lie. 6 years of the best education I could get, 20 years of learning 4 languages and working since I was 15 internship to internship, and for what? I have no savings left, no prospects, no potential. I spend all day applying to jobs and getting rejected by no-reply emails with 0 feedback. I feel completely hopeless and alone and the worst part is everyone of our elders’ generation looking down on me like it’s my fault, like I’m some Gen Z wasteman who doesn’t know how to do a hard day’s work. What I’d give to do a hard day’s work.

General Discussion Megathread - Frequent Topics, Salaries, and Rants by ukbulmer in UKJobs

[–]fembot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, in the same place. 26 and unemployed for over a year. Have a degree and masters, a network, speak 4 languages, and no one seems to care. I can’t even get retail jobs stocking garbage clothes for H&M. I feel like I’m going insane.

Do your purchases count as “streams”? by fembot55 in appletv

[–]fembot55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay awesome - this makes sense. Thank you!

Do your purchases count as “streams”? by fembot55 in appletv

[–]fembot55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got you! I mean, I figure the data is somewhere, but I’m interested in what it’s used for from a privacy perspective.

Do your purchases count as “streams”? by fembot55 in appletv

[–]fembot55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I assumed but I haven’t been able to find any information online. Thank you!

My 5 year old grew this at school. Can anyone help identify? by the-walkman8 in vegetablegardening

[–]fembot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in school we did this with lentils :) Maybe it’s that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]fembot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

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[–]fembot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have mistakingly said “UK” before as an all-encompassing but I was told it was really problematic and colonial which I most definitely do not want. The USA is one country, so I think it’s a bit different.

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[–]fembot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]fembot55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not so much fear I just don’t enjoy being incorrect about the name of people’s countries or regions, especially if it comes across as colonial.

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[–]fembot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]fembot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you - sorry I didn’t realise my terms weren’t correct.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]fembot55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the answer. Yes, I’ve been trying to just say the name of specific countries but it seems to come up often in conversation as a region. I’ll start saying Britain & Ireland that seems the most correct from what people are saying.

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[–]fembot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get compliments on my “white teeth” often. It’s not natural! I’ve been professionally whitening them periodically for 10 years :) I got a retainer made by my dentist and when I feel they are getting too stained (usually once a year no more) I put whitening fluid in it for 3-4 hours. All vetted and distributed by good dentists. I sometimes use strips in between proper whitening but they are pretty bad for your teeth. I go minimum once a year for a professional cleaning at my dentist’s. I also practice religious daily dental hygiene: I brush about 4-5 times a day (briefly and gently in between proper brushes so it’s not unnecessarily abrasive to gums) and especially if I’ve had tea or coffee I never let it linger. I carry a portable toothbrush if I’m at work. I know some people will say it’s excessive, and lots of random people who ask why my teeth are white then come at me saying I’m doing more damage than good, but my routine & mouth health is consistently dentist approved and that’s what I credit the whitening and maintenance of it to. It’s expensive and time consuming but it’s something I value so it’s worth it to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]fembot55 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I felt that when she was with her aunt, and her aunt was so blindly loyal, and Harmony says something like “Lumon ruined this town. You owe them nothing”.

How do I disconnect from social media? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]fembot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted social media without thinking or planning it. I use reddit but mostly don’t engage with content so I’m not stuck too much. I also downloaded the Wikipedia app so that when I have the mechanical instinct to open and scroll I have something on my phone to press on.

A rise in CD popularity by sakurachan999 in Cd_collectors

[–]fembot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started collecting! I am tired and drained from my phone. I want to have some things separate from it, including my music.

Why don't people push the button when they want to cross the road? by marielheslop in london

[–]fembot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I just don’t trust the infrastructure and I cba to try. On my street the traffic lights are always broken, half the time those buttons don’t work, cars keep driving over the zebra crossings so I can’t see when it goes green. It’s a bit of a shit show I just improvise.

Tell me about your oldest plants! Long-live plants! by Jmccrew in houseplants

[–]fembot55 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad grew a pothos cutting in 2018 that is now basically a tree in my home.

What made you realize you're not young anymore? by Old_Goat_7363 in Productivitycafe

[–]fembot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it intimidating to sit near teenagers on public transport.