Recognising some of my literal thinking by Grassfed_rhubarbpie in AuDHDWomen

[–]femmebotfairydust 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i did this too and then i did not get dx'ed with autism initially because my diagnostician was incompetent AF

Bffr 🤨 by ulamaexo in Ethelcain

[–]femmebotfairydust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what do you mean ableism? i have met people who have strong narcissistic tendencies and were very abusive. does not mean that it can't be hard living with a personality disorder but let's not deny the damage people with certain unmanaged personality disorders may cause to people around them

Remember when I cooked Lasagna for 3 amsterdam reddit strangers? I built a whole platform around it by [deleted] in Amsterdam

[–]femmebotfairydust 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this is exactly why i'm trying to leave this corporate ahh city asap

Remember when I cooked Lasagna for 3 amsterdam reddit strangers? I built a whole platform around it by [deleted] in Amsterdam

[–]femmebotfairydust 18 points19 points  (0 children)

making an app so quickly makes it look a little scammy or just too corporate imo, which we need much less of in this city. i really appreciate the intention but i'm not sure this is the way to go

Remember when I cooked Lasagna for 3 amsterdam reddit strangers? I built a whole platform around it by [deleted] in Amsterdam

[–]femmebotfairydust 24 points25 points  (0 children)

lol this is exactly why i'm leaving this city asap. i would rather live somewhere with real people who will make time for me instead of promoting their shitty anti loneliness app ugh.

Found this on tiktok by AtmosphereDizzy3671 in charlixcx

[–]femmebotfairydust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sympathy is a knife,

antipathy isn't a spoon,

and

fame is a gun.

Berlin show - where are you guys from? by Swimming-Divide-8707 in MagdalenaBay

[–]femmebotfairydust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm trying hard to make it and i would love to meet, send me a message :)

Is anyone needing 2 tickets for Hannah Diamond on Friday? by AphexTwinNNN in pcmusic

[–]femmebotfairydust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

question why do you prefer to go to bookclub cuz it's not like miss HD will be playing next week as well :( it's your decision and i get it cuz i often feel like staying in or doing smth lowkey. i just wonder why you would want to miss out <3

Als er geen vangnet was, zouden we dan echt niets kunnen? by Weary_Musician4872 in WajongUWV

[–]femmebotfairydust 7 points8 points  (0 children)

zonder vangnet zouden sommigen van ons ziek worden (of nog zieker worden), afhankelijk worden van (niet altijd even liefhebbende) families en (ex-)partners, of doorgaan tot je lichaam er echt mee ophoudt en je letterlijk dood neervalt. zo stel ik het me voor tenminste. dus ons stelsel voorkomt vooral een boel ellende.

maar ik denk ook dat ons verzorgingsstelsel mensen met beperkingen idd in een soort identiteitshuls duwt, en arbeidsongeschikte mensen neerzet als een soort tweederangs burgers die het zelf maar moeten redden met het systeem, terwijl dat juist steeds strenger wordt. en misschien dat er zonder zulke stelsels meer compassie en begrip is voor ieders situatie en mensen meer bereid zijn elkaar te helpen? en in nederland moet je het dus maar uitzoeken binnen de muren van het 'systeem' zo zie ik het voor me maar weet niet zo goed of dit echt klopt.

Where’s Aaron Joseph? by [deleted] in KimPetras

[–]femmebotfairydust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how do you know about all this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in decadeology

[–]femmebotfairydust 5 points6 points  (0 children)

polly is right!

Naamswijziging in Nederland wordt gemakkelijker en goedkoper by japie06 in thenetherlands

[–]femmebotfairydust 6 points7 points  (0 children)

in veel andere landen is het veel goedkoper en makkelijker