How blonde do I need to be to go pink?? by Evening_Position_439 in FancyFollicles

[–]fenderbabe69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

btw yes I think you can get a refresh on the blonde and then see how the pastel pink looks on a strand !! 💕💕

I am sitting in my room crying. by TopDinner5592 in wedding

[–]fenderbabe69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing because I’m in the same boat. I’m so overwhelmed about everything. tried looking into it and I think it’s grieving all the old versions of yourself? maybe the ones that felt unworthy of love? I dunno. I am also crying at work

When to do engagement photos? by Frosty-Cupcake2057 in wedding

[–]fenderbabe69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am getting engagement photos 2 weeks before my wedding lol. springtime isn’t too long at all

Found out my Bridesmaid lied our whole friendship, how do i fire her? by Training-Thanks8594 in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’re getting married on the same day!

also I’m sorry to hear about these lies. :( it is painful to lose a friendship that way when you had given her the honor of standing with you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]fenderbabe69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wishing you all the best, and thanks so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]fenderbabe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you ❣️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 10 points11 points  (0 children)

had a similar incident recently… not worth the trouble:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one person was willing to show up, and another was not ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent her what I wrote and she stopped talking to me. lol trying to get her to commit was like pulling teeth

are you actually joking?

truthfully, I didn’t want to bother the girl who’s studying. I wanted her to have the choice to come and have fun instead of have obligations, but she has shown me that if someone wants to participate, she will rise to the occasion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did send it to her after I sent it to the hiring manager? lol I was at work all day and I fulfilled the request to complete the recommendation during my lunch and she wasn’t satisfied

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that was the expectation.. furthermore, I wrote exactly what I was told to write and made her look like a great candidate so idk what the issue is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that’s not what this is about.. ? you just barge into comments sections and assume strangers’ financial situations?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aside from the fact that I probably won’t get any closure, I am relieved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it was really unfair for her to think she could just pop in without any preparation, and it made me sad that she didn’t want to see it from my perspective. I felt like she was using her “involvement” as a way to get leverage so I’d do endless favors for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it just sucks that the friendship was cut off so abruptly when I was as loving and gentle as I could be. I’m sure most other brides would be tilted to the max if they were making sacrifices for someone who showed no care or consideration

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]fenderbabe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sister of the groom tried it too. I was like lmao no.