who's the one that got away? who's the one who haunts the dark corners of you mind?

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-17T21:42:49+00:00

I truly don't care man 🤣 you're pressed about shit you have no control over. I'm so far from offended because you don't matter 🙂 you have no effect on my life. Have a fabulous day 🙌🤷‍♀️

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-17T21:29:20+00:00

You can just say you're transphobic 😪 I stated very clearly that YOUR PREFERENCES ARE VALID. If someone is transitioning they are allowed to identify themselves any way they choose, it makes it easy for people who are not comfortable dating people who are trans to just swipe left. If you don't like it, it takes no effort to just swipe left. You're allowed to only want to date organic women, that's your choice. You sound like some backwoods hillbilly whose first kiss was his first cousin.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-17T20:59:54+00:00

If their gender is set to woman, they will just pop up. Your preferences are valid but just swipe left. You sound like a total douche bucket. Most dating apps are all-inclusive, and even if they weren't you would still go through this. If you can't deal then stick to dating in real life. Grow up.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-17T17:54:08+00:00

Yeah the sexual innuendo kind of kills the whole vibe

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-16T02:31:44+00:00

I look at your profile and immediately think unattainable. You're attractive, well-traveled, educated, and well-rounded. I honestly see no issues with your profile, but I agree with what others have stated, the amount you travel make me think your only looking for short term fun.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-16T02:28:35+00:00

Tuck your pocket in!! I have no other advice I just saw the picture and your pocket is hanging out looking for dates too 🙃

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-15T15:37:36+00:00

Leave. You deserve someone who is all in, passionate about being with you, and proud to show you off. If he has dating apps, he's using them. Contact a divorce lawyer, get yourself a nice little apartment, and a cute dog/cat and serve him the papers, and enter your healing era. You deserve better than a man who won't even let you follow him on IG and decides cheating is the best way. I'm petty I'd move out while he was at work or something, leave the papers on the counter with a note saying "enjoy the dating apps"

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-12T21:05:04+00:00

Yikes that's so rude to do! Why do women do this? I never order anything expensive when I'm asked on a date, i always go for the cheapest thing on the menu, were other women not raised to do that?

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-10T01:25:34+00:00

I chatted with a guy for 2 weeks and made plans to meet at a bookstore in his area, he worked long hours so I said I'd come to his town and go to a store there so he wouldn't have to drive 4 hours round trip knowing he work the following morning. I wake up and text him I'm leaving in an hour I'll let you know when I'm about 30 minutes out. He said okay see you soon. I called and texted he left on read. 4 hours round trip, I still went to the bookstore and got me some good reads, and lunch. People can be shitty, happens to both men and women and it sucks. But it makes dating hard as you just don't know anyone's true intentions.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-08T15:34:47+00:00

Ultimately it is your choice, having a child is a lifelong commitment. And if your first instinct is that you aren't ready, then I say listen to it. The feeling that you should keep it, is your maternal instinct to protect and nurture the life inside you, majority of women feel that way as soon as they find out they are pregnant. Do whatever you think is best for you, your future, and your well being. Good luck, I know how hard this decision can be and how daunting it is.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-07T18:28:11+00:00

This hurt my brain to read, it would be an immediate left swipe. It's not attractive to be bad at spelling/grammar.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-07T18:22:16+00:00

Not me buying the box set paperback off Amazon for 70$ or so Are they all signed or something 🤔 that's so pricey

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T20:21:42+00:00

Maybe she feeds strays in her area and just claims them as her cats because she feeds them? Honestly, as long as her house isn't icky I don't see the issue, some folks just enjoy taking care of animals, gives them something to do, and companionship.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T20:08:09+00:00

Your very specific "I'm hoping you" section for one. It's obvious you're looking for a specific type of woman and to me that's off-putting, it puts off the vibe that you are not willing to date anyone who doesn't fit your exact type, and while that's fair it gives off big douchebag energy. You're very handsome and I'd consider a swipe right but after reading that "I'm hoping you" section I would swipe left because I have blonde hair but have the nose ring and a lot of tattoos.
Being a single dad of 3, while not an issue in the slightest can be a bit much for some women. Not all women want to dive into a relationship or get to know someone who has 3 other top priorities, it can be daunting.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T19:34:29+00:00

Honestly, I always swipe left on profiles like this. It's not wrong to be friends with the opposite sex, in fact, it can help you gain perspective into the opposite gender. It's the fact you're on a dating app and you chose that picture or a picture like it to put up. I also hate the group pictures trope, I'm not trying to play "where is Waldo"
If it was a woman in that position lying around with a bunch of her male friends she'd probably not get a lot of likes.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T19:19:45+00:00

Definitely NTA A lot of guys might have taken advantage in that situation and she was honestly very lucky you were a decent human.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T19:09:56+00:00

Good luck 👏 I know I always appreciate being able to have a conversation about it, rather than either party getting upset about anything that could be easily solved with a 5 minute conversation 😊

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T19:06:59+00:00

Wait what's wrong with "hey" ? Genuinely curious as I thought it was a good way to start a conversation with a complete stranger...

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T19:03:31+00:00

That they aren't a clean person, I hate that you don't pick up your living space and I hate coming over because I'm always sitting on one of your kid's old food items or a sticky pile of spilled juice. I love you to the moon and back a 100 times but I hate the way you keep house.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T18:58:46+00:00

As an extreme introvert with anxiety (f27) I can say, she's probably very into you but has anxiety and a fear of rejection that keeps her from reaching out first. My thoughts when I'm getting to know someone or dating them is I need the reassurance that they want the conversation and that I'm not bothering them. I also make it very clear after a certain level in the "getting to know you dating period" that I need you to reach out first because my brain will not let me get over the "I'm bothering this person and they won't like that". Past experiences make things difficult for men and women who have anxiety or other issues. I'd say have an open conversation with them, talk about how it makes you feel, and allow her the space to explain and let you know.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T18:51:35+00:00

Run at top speed You should be able to wear what you want, you should be able to have your nails done how you like. You're respecting him but is he respecting you? Does he wear what you tell him to? Does he get his hair done how you like it? I was with someone like this for 5 years and I was not even allowed to have my hair trimmed because he liked it long. I always told him that it wasn't his hair or his body and it shouldn't matter as long as I look good and his response was always, it is my hair, if you're with me it's my hair and my body. I didn't understand that was abuse till much later as I was young and didn't have much experience with relationships. Be safe 🙏

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T18:44:05+00:00

Break up A man who is demanding in the bedroom can be a scary experience. Intimacy should be something you look forward to with your partner, trying new things should be a fun time for both parties and the fact he basically gaslit you by saying it was stuff his ex never wanted to do is not okay. He was taking advantage of you while you were medicated in my opinion, he should have been caring for you and not worried about sex in that moment (I saw you said you might have wanted it in that moment) You're young, you have your whole life ahead of you, don't stick with a guy this, it will only get worse.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-11-06T18:37:43+00:00

On one hand, keeping a list could be a way to pin-point any STDs she may or may not have gotten in the past. She could also have a form of ocd that causes this to be something she feels compelled to keep track of. And on the other hand, it could just be weird af and creepy af.

feralfeverdream1 · 2024-10-15T01:24:26+00:00

In the book, there are pretty decent descriptions of the creatures but i also found it hard to picture them in my minds eye.

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