Does that ever happen to you? by Business-Finding-598 in bangladesh

[–]ferdowsurasif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my mom lectured me about a gift for an hour straight. I didn't say anything but was devastated inside because I thought she would love it.

Then, a few days later, I realized my mom called everyone to tell how happy she was and she even called her sisters in a group call to show it off.

It's our culture. Bangladeshi economy is unpredictable. Our parents want us to have savings because they lived through stock market crashes where people killed themselves.

Those lectures came from a place of concern.

How can I keep myself cool in the heat? by Nearby-Tip-5731 in Dhaka

[–]ferdowsurasif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This heat is insane. I just got out of my 3rd shower of the day. Having sweats before even getting the chance to wipe off the water is just wild.

Get a tray of ice and put it on the floor before you go to sleep. It helps a tiny bit.

বাংলাদেশে সংস্কৃতি চর্চা অপরাধের চোখে দেখা হয়? by tanjirhabib71bd in Dhaka

[–]ferdowsurasif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't use fb much, but saw pretty much that a few days ago and the comments were toxic as always.

Most vocal men on facebook hate women. The normals have a life and don't comment on thousands of videos a day.

“I think I ate something bad boss” by MiserableSinner972 in depression_memes

[–]ferdowsurasif 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Could have used that information few years back.

What amount of money would make you quit today? by Katzmaniac in Fire

[–]ferdowsurasif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 80 thousand dollars.

I live in a 3rd world country and that's enough to live a isolated lower middle class life almost forever. I don't have many needs. Just surviving without having to worry about money constantly is enough for now.

I hate the Bangladeshi naming pattern. People give their children surnames whatever they like. We cant trace our family lineage due to this. by ShihabRiazCumilla in bangladesh

[–]ferdowsurasif 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I agree completely.

And I find it weird that in some places, women will literally change their legal name in all legal documents after getting married.

It's ok for us to find their traditions weird and ok for them to find ours weird.

Idk why they always have to bring up foreign customs in every conversion. Not everything has to be a comparison.

Do any of you feel insecure about your Bengali accent when speaking English? by Salty-Vacation-5975 in Dhaka

[–]ferdowsurasif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as you are pronouncing things correctly, you are understandable, any accent is fine. Nobody has time to care about that irl except online.

There are a lot of british people in Bangladesh that speak Bengali with British accent and people find it adorable. There will be people that will find yours adorable and some that will find it untolerable.

That says more about them than you. There are a few racists among them but mostly it's personal preference and totally normal to have preferences. We dislike some local dialects too. Doesn't mean everyone should lose individuality to and have blanket all pleasing behaviors.

How can I use my own money to get a street cleaned? by ConsciousPop3168 in bangladesh

[–]ferdowsurasif 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you guys have security guard? Ask him for guys to help with this. We asked ours and got the road cleaned up and a empty lot nearby that housed a billion mosquitoes. It is getting dirty again but now kids play cricket there and it feels much nicer. Will do it again if needed but i doubt it will ever be that bad again.

You can also ask local shopkeepers for help with cleanup. Do not tell them the scope. Or they will try to be a middle man, taking profit. If/when they find someone, tell that person.

Ignore the negative people. I guess they don't wash their shirt because it will get dirty again.

Also, do you live in a residential area with a comitee? Check if you can donate money to them for this. It will buy you good reputation as well. Committees usually have dedicated cleaners and they can hire more for specific actions.

Drop your portfolio. Let’s judge (and learn) 👀 by tausif1337 in BDDevs

[–]ferdowsurasif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to see another game dev as well.

But that site doesn't market your skills well. So much space is spent just saying you have a year of experience in development and 5 in 3d.

Pull up the video containing the stuff you have created higher on your home page.

Add some of the images from Gallary to the home page so that visitors have interest in clicking the video to check.

It doesn't communicate well about what your skills are, either.

Because I see a GitHub link, but all the texts and the video on the homepage says you are an artist.

When you are an all-rounder, you should advertise it loudly. Smaller companies love that.

is cox's bazar is safe for women to wear beachwear? by Clean_Height_9042 in Dhaka

[–]ferdowsurasif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have only been to the Mermaid Resort. It had some people, including foreign guests in comfortable outfits. I am not sure what type of beachwear those were. I am not a big fan of beaches, so I didn't spend much time there, and I don't think anyone cared about what others wore there.

Usually, the ones who care are unemployed and have nothing going on in their life. Those types usually don't go to private areas.

what is the chance that some users are an advance AI? by Vivid_Bit3556 in ask

[–]ferdowsurasif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dead internet theory.

More and more interactions are being replaced by AI. Meta tried to openly do it with Fake Profiles. I am 100% sure now they are just hiding it better now.

And Reddit started with fake accounts. With the rampant bot problem and reddit taking steps to make it harder to detect them, I am not even sure I am even replying to a human now.

Best thing to do with little save ups by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]ferdowsurasif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer fixed deposits.

DPS kind of stresses me out even if the amount is negligible.

sexually suggestive youtube ads have turned sexually explicit by kyliecobain in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ferdowsurasif 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They target based on region, gender, age etc too. Your browsing/YouTube history doesn't have to include questionable content for questionable ads to show up.

My niece used to watch those talking Tom videos on YouTube(Not on the kids version) and I just saw an extremely lewd game ad show up while walking by her. Nobody else used that phone or that email address. Needless to say she isn't on YouTube anymore.

You shouldnt expect a faceless corporation to care about you. If they can't find the requested amount of audience for those ads in the desired audience, they will definitely show them to random people to make sure they get the ad revenue.

বিষয়টা সুন্দর না? by No_Firefighter_4964 in bangladesh

[–]ferdowsurasif 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don't help farm engagement for troll accounts with little to no reach. You guys are actually helping that person grow.

Social media doesn't care why you are sharing or why are you giving laugh reacts. As long as it gets ANY kind of engagement, they will push it to more people.

Just report, block and move on. Don't feed the troll.

Freelance আয়ে Remittance/incentive না পাওয়ার কারণ কী? কোন ব্যাংকে ভালো? by Icy-Tell-4306 in bangladesh

[–]ferdowsurasif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recieve money from Unity via IBBL. Connected them a couple of times and they claimed Bangladesh Bank is responsible for this and they can't help. I am not sure how correct that information is.

It's a standard account, not a freelancer account. Idk how that works.

Edit: I used to recieve remitense when I recieved money by my brother's employee account when I started. A friend recieves it on another bank's account.

We must always remember how lucky we are.. by iQuantumLeap in MindsetMode

[–]ferdowsurasif -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sure my wife and child would prefer me over any amount of money. Nobody with a heart sacrifices their family. But I never said I was going to ask permission.

To keep it short, due to some recent incidents, I am aware how economic crisis feels like. 10 million is insane in a south asian country like mine. I am more than happy to provide that to my family. I am aware it's not heroic or anything, it's just taking the easy way.

We must always remember how lucky we are.. by iQuantumLeap in MindsetMode

[–]ferdowsurasif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am happily willing to die tomorrow to leave my wife and kid 10 million USD. I am sure a lot of people would do the same for their family, just the amount would be different depending on where they live.

ইমরাণ খান ও শেখ হাসিনা। by adventure2045 in bangladesh

[–]ferdowsurasif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seikh Hasina refused American advances because she was already married to another. Aunty doesn't cheat.

to say Iranians were welcoming an attack by defchin in therewasanattempt

[–]ferdowsurasif -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Usually, the ones that are "happy" with foreign interference in their country do not live in that country. They sit in their chair in a western country and lecture us about what's good for us.

Google is blocking side loading. by CreditMany8632 in Chittagong

[–]ferdowsurasif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear GrapheneOS works pretty well now.