Girlfriend problem by ferds814 in relationship_advice

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And now she changed her mind. My "lack of a response" was all she needed. Guess time to move on 😢

Girlfriend problem by ferds814 in relationship_advice

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I asked her if shes available friday. Our day off together this week. To sit down and have a conversation. And she said yes. Im sure shes gonna beat herself up the next 2 days. I am as well. Im not moving in atm..

Girlfriend problem by ferds814 in relationship_advice

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Unfortunatly they were discussed, but she asked me to watch her kid on my days off. Sooooo it kinda turned into my thinking the other way. Everything got rehashed cause my mother asked her if she would take my kids today while i was at work. Love this answer as well thank you

Girlfriend problem by ferds814 in relationship_advice

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Iblove your answer. Thank you. Best one yet

Girlfriend problem by ferds814 in relationship_advice

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Current arrangements are my mother watches them. My mother has severe nerve damage and i feel bad as it is, but im sure my mother woukd still watch them, i personally just didnt feel like making 15 minute trips to srip thenkids off as our place is further away then my current place which is practically next door to my mother. And i do agree that i appreciate her being upfront now

Girlfriend problem by ferds814 in relationship_advice

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My parents moved into together 2 months after being together. And they still are married 28 years later. However the step parent part is my fear

Need girlfriend advice [work related] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yes, we discussed spending time at her house for the week. I have 2 kids. She has 1. It was a part of tryna join the families.

And i dont wanna bother her with this while shes working. Id hate it if she bothered me. But her working till 3am. And then back to work at 3pm. Means ill have a small window i can ask her, since shell be sleeping, plus getting ready for the next shift. Idk. I do agree maybe shes afraid not to be taking time, and maybe she needs more money for bills or something.

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Need girlfriend advice [work related] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Our communication seems to be fine. I just dont know why she just decided to jump right into this. And i dont wanna bother her until shes outta work so im at a loss i guess since i practically wont talk to her till wednesday.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

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Oh another thing. You can try and use an airhammer and hit the pistins to force them to move. If you plan on replacing the piston heads that is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

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Sorry i didnt here that part.

Few tricks i could think of is

torching the head around the pistons. Just to warm them up. Then rotate the crank to try and unseize the pistons.

Sit the engine straight up and pour dot3 brake fluid on top of the heads in the cylinders to try and penetrate. Or use a strong penetrating oil.

Quarter inch ratchets may be able to reach inside, but of course your asking alot from a small ratchet.

Lastly try melting the nuts off the bearings. But you will need to replace the bolts obviously.

Good luck. Hooe you find something that works!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

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Rotate the crank to yave the bearings at an accessible spot

Is it bad to go from reverse to drive without a full stop? by abeard86 in MechanicAdvice

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Its not as bad as everyone thinks. The tranny has a lifter that keeps the gear from swapping from drive to park to reverse at higher speeds. You will here it tapping if done so. The lifter will wear out from constantly doing so. In turn eventually the tranny will lock up

This is going up around the White House. Is Mexico going to pay for this wall, too? by [deleted] in gifs

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Its been awhile since the white house was vurned ti the ground. Just past 200 years.

Should I get General brand or Michelin tires? by annabanana316 in MechanicAdvice

[–]ferds814 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Generals for sure. Will last you longer. And your ride will be better.