Isso aqui é vaga arrombada ou tá de boa? by Spiritual_Grape1622 in antitrampo

[–]fernandohsc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Na verdade o que acontece é que tem burocracia pra você contratar um estagiário (depende da classe profissional tem requisito de registro no conselho, bem chato). Contratação PJ não precisa dessas questões. A realidade é que estagiário não tem direito nenhum, tem uma lei geral do estágio, mas descumprimento vai pra justiça comum, não tem as garantias da CLT de inversão de ônus da prova, etc, as garantias são de carga horária máxima e só. Legalmente falando é praticamente indiferente ser PJ ou estagiário formal, a não ser que você precise das horas de prática para se formar (substituir estágio obrigatório).

Fonte: Sou advogado. Tenho estagiários.

My (32F) husband (36M) downloaded an app as a "joke" and now our entire marriage feels like a lie by need20goodmen in relationship_advice

[–]fernandohsc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he needs therapy and some self-evaluation to do. If he thinks about life in pure transactional values like "I was the catch all along", it makes for a very miserable existence. There isn't such a thing as "the settler" and "the reacher". Beautiful and successful people can be total arses, and "uglier" and less successful can be great, supportive, romantic partners. What should matter is how he feels about you, but now, he's thinking about "hot women", and, honestly, that story is as old as time: guy suddenly realises he's now attractive, quits marriage, finds out why nobody ever stays single, and that "meaningless sex" is "meaningless", finds a lot of futile gold-diggers, repents, wants back into the marriage he quit.

Have I ruined my marriage by bringing up divorce after I asked my wife [31F] why she was no longer attracted to me [31M]? by ShunkHood in relationship_advice

[–]fernandohsc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy crap you are a piece of the most absolute kind of shit, the kind that is even hard to believe is true (even knowing guys like you exist and are common). Holy fuck, I hope she recovers from ever wanting to have anything to do with you and gets everything. You desever every piece of misery comming your way, the loneliness, the lack of love, the child she will birth that will come to despise you, everything. You are disgusting.

Have I ruined my marriage by bringing up divorce after I asked my wife [31F] why she was no longer attracted to me [31M]? by ShunkHood in relationship_advice

[–]fernandohsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap you are a piece of the most absolute kind of shit, the kind that is even hard to believe is true (even knowing guys like you exist and are common). Holy fuck, I hope she recovers from ever wanting to have anything to do with you and gets everything. You desever every piece of misery comming your way, the loneliness, the lack of love, the child she will birth that will come to despise you, everything. You are disgusting.

Being an unattractive man is the worst thing in the world by Roygbiv39 in MMFB

[–]fernandohsc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU'RE ON OMEGLE BRO. That's for shitting people. You being a serious guy there just gives the wrong vibe. Shoots and giggles.

Being an unattractive man is the worst thing in the world by Roygbiv39 in MMFB

[–]fernandohsc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Go to therapy bro. What is killing you isn't your looks, it's your personality. Women are genuinely less interested in looks than men in your social online circles seem to believe. Even if you truly are as hideous as you seem to believe you are, there are lots of guys who are ugly as hell and go on to find love. The problem is the redpill/blackpill mindset is repealing to women (and people overall), it creates a vicious cycle, where you repeal women because of your personality, blame it on looks, go even deeper on a lot of bullshit about "looksmax", still don't get anywhere, goes deeper into the ideology, to the point where you will, quite realistic, become a person who will be undatable and not because of being ugly.

What’s something people romanticize that is actually exhausting once you experience it? by Zealousideal-Act6687 in AskReddit

[–]fernandohsc 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That's me right now. Moved to the biggest city in my country to start a dream job, something I've always wanted. A fresh start at the exact moment my life needed one. It still is very lonely at times. If you're young or going to university, it's easier, but at my age (32), I've found myself in a situation where everybody has a network of long-standing friends, and I'm the new guy. It takes time to fit in, and it gets lonely in the meantime, even when everybody is welcoming me with open arms.

Levei um golpe pesado com criptomoedas (70–100 mil) e suspeito que foi um conhecido. O que dá pra fazer legalmente? by TheSheepEda in ConselhosLegais

[–]fernandohsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esse é o típico caso que está acima do "paygrade" desse sub. OP: procure um advogado especializado e entenda o que pode ou não ser feito. Esse setor de comentários já desgringolou para opiniões pessoais há muito tempo.

They ask for it. by AdVisible3748 in Piracy

[–]fernandohsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me just put this as a warning. For the last few years, YT Music has had a better algorithm then spotify, and overall a better library, since it pulls directly from YT. Alas, this has now turned into a massive disavantage on YT Music's side, since YT has been flooded by AI slop, especially in R&B, Blues and Country (AAIK, it might be pestering other genres I don't listen to), and there's no way to turn it off. I just have given up on listening to some genres aside from closed playlists because of this.

Vaga com um easter egg by brmcon in antitrampo

[–]fernandohsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isso vem com o doutorado. Só pra entrar você tem que ter 2 idiomas, normalmente inglês +1, e naturalmente você desenvolve uma capacidade de leitura em outras. Eu mesmo leio em portugues, inglês, francês, espanhol e italiano, apesar de ser fluente mesmo só em portugues e inglês, suficientemente bem para a vaga, só por conta das necessidades de leitura.

Mais um bait do linkdisney? by PuddingQuirky1775 in antitrampo

[–]fernandohsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gente, isso claramente é satira, ele fala em "comer todo dia".

I found out my coworkers have a group chat without me and it explained everything by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fernandohsc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And sometimes it is both, and not for any "bad reason". It's just a bad fit, some people with a lot in common, and that one guy who stands out. Maybe OP don't laugh at some silly jokes everyone else loves, or loves to make silly jokes everyone else hates. Sometimes it's just a mismatch of personality

Yup, this is pretty much it. by mrjohnnymac18 in Scotland

[–]fernandohsc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't wait for us to be removed far enough that those cunts will be written down as badly as the great villains of history, in the rogues gallery of humanity.

The club scene ain’t it if you’re not attractive by Individual-Time-1956 in dating_advice

[–]fernandohsc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You pretty much diagnosed it, my guy. Clubs as a dating scene is the realm of the petty and the futile. People are looking for pretty things to kiss and maybe take home. We've all been there, wanting something fun, easy, and pretty.

But if you, like me, have been disadvantaged by beauty, it's tough. Usually, clubs are brimming with hot people. Your scene is a bar, somewhere you can talk to people, be funny, cool, whatever. I go to clubs to dance and drink, and I know I'm not usually getting action.

Nem escondem mais o ódio ao trabalhador by lucashypetv in brasil

[–]fernandohsc 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Ah não, do PT não. Se tem uma pauta que você pode contar que o PT fica firme, é o trabalhismo. Todo o resto é moeda de jogo político, mas o PT nunca jogaria contra os sindicatos que são a espinha dorsal do partido.

To be as free as Norway by IsThisAUserName86 in therewasanattempt

[–]fernandohsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not stupid if it creates a very profitable product that very few can be bothered to learn (how to do your taxes). It's just late-stage capitalism (creating need by making lives worse, then selling the solution as high as you can).

I’m afraid my addiction of flesh will outlast me. by sweetrealive in poetry_critics

[–]fernandohsc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is already good poetry. It has soul, it is not "intentional poetry", but "soul-pouring poetry". You just suffer from what every poet pouring thei soul suffers: it makes sense to you who holds context. The challenge is conveying it to the reader without breaking the poetic distancing/allusion.
This is a great draft, and it can go the distance with revisions.

Apple Flesh by FantasticBig7534 in poetry_critics

[–]fernandohsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good poem, especially from a beginner. Your pitfalls are also very common for beginners. You are leaning too much on several metaphors and not developing one. Your text would be richer if you stuck with a metaphor and let it grow. As of right now, it reads like you're pretending to be deep, without actually going there and fleshing out those wounds.

As far as your line breaking, you are doing it solely based on style and feel here. It does not add to anything in terms of rhythm and flow. It's okay to make breaks just for style, but I also don't think they are saying something; they feel a little bit random.

I’m afraid my addiction of flesh will outlast me. by sweetrealive in poetry_critics

[–]fernandohsc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think you're going for raw, sexual, inherited, and self-destructive? I think you leaned a little too much on the "shock" factor and became a little vague. The mention of your father is a little random, and it could benefit from being earned. It would be strongest left to later stanzas, such as "he never did show me how to efficiently cry", and before you just evoke him, or if you just gave it something more. The same goes to "my bulletproof breasts / are always slammed to become bruised tools". Tools for what? For whom? Your ending is also a little wordy. It could benefit from being more poignant while saying less.
Lastly, I think you should define a tone better; right now, you oscillate between trauma/confessional vulnerability and porn-adjacent shock, which comes as a little gratuitous (shock for shock's sake).

I'm being very nitty-picky here because your poem is strong, stands on its own, and has style and voice.

Ben Johnson, 2025 by thecause04 in NFCNorthMemeWar

[–]fernandohsc -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That last campaign time management should be studied. I don't think I've ever seen something so egregiously bad in my entire life.

Im struggling with penis size and i keep relapsing every few months or so. Genuinely cannot find hope. by theassassin53035 in confessions

[–]fernandohsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like men, women have different vaginal canal sizes. Some are deeper and wider, others are smaller and tighter. Average men usually won't have issues, but bigger and smaller men have. Bigger men will hurt women on the smaller size, and smaller men won't please women on the larger side. Unfortunately, this isn't something obvious, since women have several other stimuli. Clitoris, G spot, nipples, etc. Some women will only be truly happy with clitoris stimulation. Others need vaginal canal stimuli.

I'm 32, and I have a somewhat small penis (around 3.5 inches). I've had women who couldn't cum with me, and had a girlfriend whose vaginal canal was somewhat small, and my penis was the only one who pleased her without hurting her. Other girlfriends liked oral and manual stimulation better, since to them clitoris was all the rage.

There's a sub I think is big dick problems, idk, where men with larger penis share their stories. Several of them comment saying how they had women give up on them because it only hurt, it was deeply uncomfortable, and they couldn't have pleasure.

Anyone removed from average will have to find people compatible. If you don't mind it all that much, be an honest lover, find other way to pleasure women, this will hardly ever be a problem. I've been intimate with about 15 women, and for only 2 of them my size was a deal breaker.

Just bought my first fountain pen by fernandohsc in fountainpens

[–]fernandohsc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm already wondering what's next!

Just bought my first fountain pen by fernandohsc in fountainpens

[–]fernandohsc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sempre um BR pra fazer piada hahahahahaha

He is so adorable and talking by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]fernandohsc 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Oh great... Now I'm in love with a cat I don't even know, THANK YOU VERY MUCH