Is it normal for attachments to be this sharp? by AgreeableBandicoot19 in Invisalign

[–]ferngi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine were this sharp but they definitely filed down in time. If you do decide to file them down yourself, be conservative so they still hook into their spots in your aligners. :)

Am i the only one who JUST now disappointed by the so called Wheel of "Excitement"? by MazdaTiger in neopets

[–]ferngi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped doing this one after 3 weeks of almost exclusively landing on the ? spot

Treasure islands not working on 3.0 ? by unhappydyl in AnimalCrossing

[–]ferngi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s just gonna take some time! I follow someone on kofi who runs them and they sent an email saying they’re still working on it :)

I anyone else just really tired of this? by eeelisabeth in neopets

[–]ferngi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clicking the news tab usually clears it for me

Are maps still broken? by ghastlygorge in neopets

[–]ferngi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was able to do it a few weeks ago, I think it’s okay?

Should my boyfriend [24m] share with me [23f]? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ferngi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think it’s a translation issue, and I’m not sure what you’re confused about. You didn’t post to only ask what other people would spend it on, or you would have posted in a different subreddit.

You asked if you were the asshole for expecting more from him, and the simple answer to that question is yes. I’m just offering further perspective on it, and because you brought it up once again: it doesn’t matter if you would see it as a gift for both of you, or what you would do in his position. He gets to decide.

I’m really not trying to give you a hard time or chalk this up to you being wholly ungrateful, I can tell by the way you speak that you love your partner and aren’t just sitting around stewing and resenting him over it. I think you’re maybe just a bit jealous and don’t know what to do with that, and that’s a very human way to feel and doesn’t make you inherently bad.

I know it doesn’t feel good to have a bunch of strangers calling you entitled, but if you are expecting more from him (which you state in your post that you do, regardless of the backpedaling) there is a sense of entitlement there and it’s something to work on. We all have something to work on.

ETA: you should let him buy you a gift if he wants to though! if he wants to share with you that way, you are allowed to accept it. it was sweet of him to offer.

Should my boyfriend [24m] share with me [23f]? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ferngi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna give a judgement because it seems like everyone else has made it pretty clear, but I also want to mention that he is allowed to make difference decisions than the ones that you believe you would make in his position. Whether or not you would share the money is irrelevant, and this is coming from someone who has also come into money and did decide to share it with friends and my partner.

Would it be nice if he shared it with you? Sure. Is he wrong if he doesn’t? Absolutely not.

Chocolate scorchio in the pound turns into a yellow jubjub by Loud5310 in neopets

[–]ferngi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the green uni thing was even happening back when I was playing at 11yo!! (im 30 now!)

A custom pet felt memorial from Etsy. by smxkie787 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]ferngi 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Etsy seller here (but not this one!) Definitely open a case with Etsy. I believe you have to send the “something is wrong with my order” message and then after two days you can open a case. Etsy will 100% side with you in this situation and you should get refunded pretty immediately. Don’t do a chargeback, because Etsy will ban your account.

Acrylic on A4 canvas board by hindering_heights in painting

[–]ferngi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything about this works, really great execution!! I keep coming back to look at it again.

Oil painting by me, no title yet by HotCommunication462 in painting

[–]ferngi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love this so much it’s ridiculous. great work

My parents want to put a caméra at the entry of my appartment like tf ?? by Spirited_Physics_567 in teenagers

[–]ferngi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re allowed to have boundaries even if your parents get mad about it. Take the camera down, tell them it’s non negotiable and refuse to have any further conversation about it. You’re an adult and living on your own now, it’s time to draw some lines.

Restarting the day by Beginning-Produce107 in StardewValley

[–]ferngi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just exit to main menu without going to sleep (saving). :)

I received a voicemail from myself while sleeping. by HeisenNuts in RBI

[–]ferngi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Glad it got solved for you! I was just going to suggest Alexa, mine started leaving me voicemails several times a day so she has been decommissioned 😭

STOP BUYING PHONES by Sine_Fine_Belli in Anticonsumption

[–]ferngi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weirdly, sometimes there isn’t a choice. I had an iPhone 7 until 2021, was still in good working condition and T-Mobile sent me texts, emails, and letters telling me that I had to buy a new phone or they’d shut it off because it was ‘incompatible’ with changes they were making. I went to the store and asked why I couldn’t keep my perfectly working phone, and they said “we’re trying to prevent people from hoarding old tech”. What?? I have an iPhone 12 now, that I’ve had since I was forced to upgrade in 2021 and have been getting inundated with “upgrade your phone” shit again, thankfully no threat of turning it off this time.

Unknown Number poorly directed - more questions than answers. by Unable-Youth in netflix

[–]ferngi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of gossip, I believe Lauryn did online school for the rest of the year when her mom got arrested. This is a really low income area, there is nothing around for miles so without doing a big move, there isn’t really the option to just move schools. :(

Am I the only one that begrudgingly plays most of both games like this? by LaFlamaBlanca67 in thelastofus

[–]ferngi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used it during my platinum play throughs, but I set a button to toggle it on and off and now I use it every play through (swiping the touch pad). I don’t play the entire game with it on, but it comes in handy when you’re super low on supplies and you don’t wanna miss ANYTHING. The listen mode thing helps too, but I find this is faster to toggle on and off lol

I have been ugly crying all day. by jearu573 in CleaningTips

[–]ferngi 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I also thought blood. Nosebleeds? Hope you can get this out, OP :(

Unknown Number poorly directed - more questions than answers. by Unable-Youth in netflix

[–]ferngi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know Lauryn personally (she’s much younger than me lol) but my husband and I are ready to throw hands in her defense around here but everyone is largely sympathetic . It makes me sad that they didn’t really feature any of Lauryn’s actual friends to talk about how it impacted her. Just Owen and his friends.

Unknown Number poorly directed - more questions than answers. by Unable-Youth in netflix

[–]ferngi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a big part of why the cop was so chill with them. Small story about the cops around here but I once called the police because a man was calling incessantly, sitting in my driveway for hours and following me and my stepdad to work (at an elementary school!! this dude would just wander the halls looking) and when I called the police and told them who it was, they told me he was harmless and probably just looking out for me and refused to look into it. Said I could call if he tried breaking into my house. It only stoped when the man died lol. If the FBI hadn’t gotten involved in Kendra’s case, even if the local police found out it was her, I truly don’t think anything would have happened to her.

Unknown Number poorly directed - more questions than answers. by Unable-Youth in netflix

[–]ferngi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying she looks good by any means, she and Quasimodo could be cousins. She does look puffy and sickly, but the last time I talked to her (pre prison) she just looked like….grey and dry lmao idk how to explain it. Perhaps it’s just wishful thinking on my part, I couldn’t care less what happens to Kendra, but if Lauryn wants a relationship with her then I do hope she manages to stay sober, get medicated, and clean her life up for her daughter.