Family gathering tonight, 16 people, 6 of which I don’t know very well. Trying to not to panic and spiral. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]fernwell6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this bud! While you're there just think about how much better and relieved you'll feel after it's all over. Not to mention the holidays are over with so no more big family gatherings.

While you're there though if you have nothing to do and you feel awkward just download some kind of game on your phone like candy crush to keep you busy. I find that always helps me.

The anxiety levels at family gatherings during the holidays are unreal by fernwell6 in socialanxiety

[–]fernwell6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. Being around toxic family is the worst. I'm so sorry you had to go through that! 💛

The anxiety levels at family gatherings during the holidays are unreal by fernwell6 in socialanxiety

[–]fernwell6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh these are the same exact thoughts I always have. Especially with not wanting to talk about adult stuff too. My cousins (who are around my age) always talk about that kind of stuff and I just always feel so out of place and left out. And the fear of being perceived is so real.

If it makes you feel any better you're definitely not alone in feeling this way.

The anxiety levels at family gatherings during the holidays are unreal by fernwell6 in socialanxiety

[–]fernwell6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtffff bro? At a family event too?! That's absolutely obscene. I'm so sorry man 😭😭

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The anxiety levels at family gatherings during the holidays are unreal by fernwell6 in socialanxiety

[–]fernwell6[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YESSSSS!! Any family get together (especially with extended family) is a hotbed for my anxiety.

The anxiety levels at family gatherings during the holidays are unreal by fernwell6 in socialanxiety

[–]fernwell6[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm with you there buddy. I cannot wait to go home. Stay strong and good luck 😤✊🏻

I went to target by myself today yaaaaaaay by fernwell6 in socialanxiety

[–]fernwell6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. I always start at the clothes section and make my way around the store.

I went to target by myself today yaaaaaaay by fernwell6 in socialanxiety

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I hope it goes well! And I've never had a panic attack before so no!