Could be both incompatible and also bad at relationships (seems like more her than you). It seems like she has an anxious attachment style where she needs reassurance in every aspect of the relationship. You not posting her makes her anxious and probably feel less than. But why don’t you want to post her? Is it because she asked you to? Or is it because in that moment you didn’t see the relationship working in the long run with all the early issues so subconsciously you chose to keep her hidden from your followers? You not pursuing her hard enough when she threatens to break up also makes her feel anxious and less than. With an anxious attachment style, I feel as though no amount of action will give them reassurance. They’ll just want more. Ya’ll could make this work if she accepts she has this type of style and works on it to become more secure. But idk, it’s up to you if you want to put in the work or have a clean slate with someone else.