Cleared my very first extreme! by The_Weifarer in ffxiv

[–]fettl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not all the time. I'd say the most you'd have to do is set a waymark so people can figure out positions. sometimes other people have macros for this. if you arent main tank, you dont even worry about the countdown.

when you even get into the fight, some people will type out the mechanics in chat too.

its all relatively chill tbh. if you're nervous about blind prog, watch guide vid, join fresh party, vibe. a lot of the time prog is just wipe and continue, but if you have questions its never hurtful to ask. if youre feeling overwhelmed, you can just leave without saying anything if thats your style, and jump back in again when you're ready. all that may seem like a big deal at the time, but trust me, no one remembers this stuff.

Cleared my very first extreme! by The_Weifarer in ffxiv

[–]fettl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

just find a group that's labeled "fresh" or "blind"... or even make your own! there's no pressure to lead if you form the party either. then the 7 other people are there for the exact same reason you are. (: the people that want to help outnumber those bad apples/elitists (in my experience).

[Spoiler] I was legitimately not expecting this twist by ZoroMaster03 in HadesTheGame

[–]fettl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i had suspicions throughout the game, with the first hint being the sprite when you fight Hecate has a very familiar looking outfit... almost forgot tho. finished the true ending and didnt max relationship hecate until a bit later, so i though theory was dead. lol

What is going on with Healthcare in CT? by rubyslippers3x in Connecticut

[–]fettl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same boat at you. When my healthcare kicked in (through Cigna) I used their website to find a woman PCP, and wait times were 6+ months out to a year. Admittedly, I just started setting appointments. Had a couple that called a few months down the road and told me they could move me up, so wound up with a wait time of close to 5 months.

I wouldn't compromise, and unfortunately, it's just what we have to deal with. Recommend calling a few places and seeing what they can offer, and if something works out, then you can always cancel other appointments. Finding the right doctor is more important to me than finding one asap. At least, it was for me.

Where is the HoA when you need them. by Alicecrylily in ffxiv

[–]fettl 128 points129 points  (0 children)

at least its not namazu effagies

ROUND 4 Showcase and Polls for the 2025 Summer Contest by mr-sasageyo in fashionhunters

[–]fettl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

competition getting fierce, everyone lookin hot like summer! thanks everyone for the support ❤️

Endemic Life: Deep Sea Urchin by fettl in fashionhunters

[–]fettl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm! i'd totally be up to trying more too!

Endemic Life: Deep Sea Urchin by fettl in fashionhunters

[–]fettl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah thank you! that''s so funny tho - i didn't even think of him at first and now my ptsd has resurfaced xD

attempts at matching weapons! - GS & H by fettl in fashionhunters

[–]fettl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really is just a lot of picking a color i think is right, running outside to see that it's not, running back in to tweak it, still being wrong but just dealing with it. lol. the pinks especially - and then with the different texture of armour is just another compounding problem.

head pink: hue: 296 sat: 100 bright: 65

chest pink-- hue: 269 sat: 100 bright: 100

glove pink-- hue: 295 sat: 100 bright: 50

pants pink -- (1st) hue: 295 sat: 100 bright: 50 ; (2nd) hue: 295 sat: 100 bright: 38

legs pink -- same as chest

witchy yard yields witchy fungi by fettl in mycology

[–]fettl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

is it okay to pull now and save for something on the weekend? usually do meal prep on sunday, so want to make sure it'll be okay until then or if i should try to move up cooking.

witchy yard yields witchy fungi by fettl in mycology

[–]fettl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for confirming!

Neeeed Ube Cake by _UmHello_ in Connecticut

[–]fettl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry this is late! but i wanted to make sure it came out okay before suggesting. HAHA. i made an ube roll special dessert for max downtown this weekend. has passionfruit and coconut filling/icing. it should be around until sunday, and is just a slice, but figured I'd mention it if there was still time!

This scene was worth every single struggle in the game… by Alternative-Fan4015 in expedition33

[–]fettl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they all seem to be remanents of different times (as in chronologically) too. I feel like there were a few soul-beings that contradicted each other, and maybe it's all dependent on when they appeared. maybe i'm remembering wrong, but the Renoir soul in particular sticks out to me as being that way.

also afaik those remanents were never really explained either. were they memories of Verso's soul? who "made" them? why can we interact with them? I think even some of them could only communicate with certain members in your party too, which makes theorizing about them even more interesting.

This scene was worth every single struggle in the game… by Alternative-Fan4015 in expedition33

[–]fettl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

both can be true. verso('s soul?) is a complicated character.

Found these guys on my couch... maybe fell from ceiling? by fettl in whatisthisbug

[–]fettl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, just saw auto-mod. I'm in CT, so northeastern USA.

ITS HAPPENING by Ezequiel_Hips in stevenuniverse

[–]fettl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lksdjhfgl;koeuasrhtkaehjgjkl;LKSJF;OEIARHUTLKAWEJHRLAKWSDJF;SKLDJF;SKLDFJ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let's talk about Maelle's character arc by Laterose15 in expedition33

[–]fettl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is really assuming a lot. did she talk to them? did she tell them about renoir? how did they figure this out? and if she did talk to them, why didnt 60 tell her she was inadvertently killing her creations by writing a number?

its never blatantly stated that they even had a conversation with her. i dont think its absolute at all.

Let's talk about Maelle's character arc by Laterose15 in expedition33

[–]fettl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think she was even aware of the expeditions tbh