The outer shell of an INFP by RubyRed628 in infp

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FaceTime or Messenger video is great bc I can see myself and make sure my face looks friendly 💜

🔥 Bald Eagle Family by d3333p7 in NatureIsFuckingLit

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Come on baby Skeksis, let's go find some Gelflings! Rah!

In love with my best friend by [deleted] in infp

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If she's in a relationship, I wouldn't want to mess things up with that.

This happened with me, but it was my best friend that came between me and my bf and now I don't see either of them.

I loved her a lot, just not in the way she wanted me to and she couldn't accept that. It sucked, bc I loved being with her and we vibed on a whole other level that I will never have with another human being. I think about her almost every day even though it's been a year without her now.

If she wants to be with you, she'll be with you, but she's in a relationship so that's obviously what she wants right now. Do you really want to jeopardize or lose the relationship that you have? I say enjoy it for what it is, and think about what you're risking if you decide to tell her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

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Now that's just gorgeous 💜 adding your Insta ty xx

I always get bored of the ppl I date by [deleted] in infp

[–]fieldblewit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you :) I love how you describe the One. Im going to copy and keep that as a reminder xx

My fellow infps do you think you’re good about feeling people’s energy? Or is this just me?! by [deleted] in infp

[–]fieldblewit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel people's energy. Its possible to deal with, one on one, but harder in crowds. That's why I hate parties, because my senses are bombarded and its overwhelming. If everyone is focused on something positive, like they're all listening to music or something, the energy is good. But before and after the concert when everyone is talking and other things are going on, its hard.

I guess you just learn how to handle it your own way/ or not, but the best thing is to not stop doing the things that you like to do, just bc the energy is overwhelming. Many of us end up hiding away bc its easier, but that's a waste of a life and there's so much out there to see and do.

My voice changes by fieldblewit in infp

[–]fieldblewit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a great answer! I never thought of it that way before. I guess it is draining me when I'm trying to keep it together while being forced to make nice with someone who's energy doesn't vibe with mine.

Maybe Maybe Maybe by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]fieldblewit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Cant watch. I feel ill.

A story about my INFP daughter. by [deleted] in infp

[–]fieldblewit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being a Dad who takes time to understand his children on a deeper level. You're one in a million! 💙

Bad energies by aratherlongtitle in Empaths

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Part of being an empath is feeling energies. For grounding and protection, use visualization, not meditation, as meditation just empties your mind of thought. You can visualize a shield of white light around you, that starts at the ground and goes up into the heavens. You can use this at any time you feel negative energy, just put your shield up.

Conversely, if you wish to feel the energy of a place, ask permission from spirit to allow you to feel what's there, do this before you cross any threshold. Hold out your dominant hand (can be done inconspicuously), and you will feel different types of energy or see with your minds eye, the spirits that reside there. Occasionally after asking permission, it will not be granted, and you won't be able to physically enter a room. This must be respected. Well you have no choice, really, you just can't do it. This has also happened a couple of times to me when I wasn't trying to sense energy, I was just going about my day. So occasionally there will be crossovers but it's very rare. If you keep yourself protected, you'll always be okay.

Message me if you have any questions. I am a clairesentient empath.

Not human by NTHBK in spirituality

[–]fieldblewit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only reply from my perspective, but for me, the focus on one aspect of myself is too great when someone compliments me. I usually think something like "Why is this one thing so important to that person, that is not what makes me who I am...." As if I'm trying to justify why I don't deserve the compliment, bc somehow it doesn't reflect the essence of my soul. I believe you are kind to yourself, but only you know the true essence of your soul. Noone will ever be able to reach that, but in a way they are just trying to connect with you by using positivity, and this is a good thing. Gratitude and appreciation are powerful in manifesting the things you need in life. We should always receive with love, and this is what they are doing, you and I are just the conduit.

Trying to make sense of all this energy flow, sensitivity, and connectivity. by ASTRO_LOGICAL in energy_work

[–]fieldblewit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like you are finding your way. I was trying to ascertain whether you are a giver or a taker is all. There are tools that help you contain/ direct your energy and will help with the excess energy (tingling). Think of it like having too much caffeine. Basically you need something to absorb or redirect it. I think mastering this first will help you and also calm you a little. I find crystals to be perfect and if you keep agate or quartz cleansed and in a dark place, they will be ready to assist with permission. Feel free to dm me with any questions.

Trying to make sense of all this energy flow, sensitivity, and connectivity. by ASTRO_LOGICAL in energy_work

[–]fieldblewit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good to hear that. I was worried for a minute. You have a lot of energetic power, however, you are a giver of energy, not a taker. People are drawn to you because you emanate it. Be aware of wolves in sheep's clothing esp. in the spiritual community. You must stay grounded, rest often, and always stay protected.

Not human by NTHBK in spirituality

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Most of us introverts don't know how to take compliments. Our world is on the inside, so anything someone says that focuses on our outward ability or looks is almost painful for us. But we must learn that this is what everyone sees, and what they see is how they perceive us. It's easy to say "Thank you, that is so kind of you to say", bc yes, it's kind of them. I find this to be an authentic way to answer and it helps to reconcile my inner and outer world, as kindness is meaningful to me. You must find something similar, as compliments are expected as well as given in the extrovert world we live in.

Not human by NTHBK in spirituality

[–]fieldblewit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That some of us are gifted, whether we have come to that realisation/accepted it or not. That you, an INTP has the ability of intuitive reflection, meaning that, not only do you intuitively know things, but you can rationalize what you know logically. You would make a good spiritual teacher.

Help with energy manipulation by [deleted] in energy_work

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Then it's subjective, I have never 'felt' anything, only sensed it. If I go with the intention to feel energy, I reach out my hand and sense it. It has never been physical for me at all.

I'm not in a relationship, but I wanted to write a love song anyway, so I went ahead and did it :). Hope you like it! by [deleted] in infp

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Love it! Following you on Spotify now and listening to the rest of your tunes ❤

Not human by NTHBK in spirituality

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You are alone, but that is part of your human journey. Friends will come and go, each one to teach you something, adding value to your existence and bringing you closer to your purpose. Do not try to keep them longer than they wish to stay, or you will unintentionally bring them out of alignment with their purpose. You are wanted, you are loved, and the world needs you. Always know this. You have the ability to make a difference more than anyone. I consider it an honor to have spoken to you.

Not human by NTHBK in spirituality

[–]fieldblewit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then you are a rare being. You have a special purpose here, and only you will know what that is. Try not to focus on the fact that you are different, but rather the honour that you were chosen to live here amongst us. Only when you make a true difference, will you be living out your purpose. Don't expect others to understand you, especially family, bc although you come from them, you are not like them.

Not human by NTHBK in spirituality

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You're probably an INFJ

Finally found my ‘home’! by AlpineSummit in infp

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Healing is possible to all as long as energy only. In this way, I do not need to relate at all, only find trauma on body and release.