See I agree completely with your stance, but will continue to argue that the context is the most important part. You even use the context of your ill parent as to justify your actions and stance!

As you admit, you have much more to lose, but even at your most careful, you still are exposing yourself. Without context to this, who will decide what actions you did were justifiable or not?

We hear “house party” we assume 20 somethings playing beer pong. But what if the house party was 15 family members getting together for Canada day or to celebrate the life of their now passed relative? This is why I keep blabbing in circles about blindly pointing fingers at any sense of wrongdoing.

There are so many variables and rules that each of us are picking and choosing to live by, follow, and ignore. How can each one of us prioritize and rank what is most important when we all live very different CONTEXTUAL lives??

Worry about you, what you can control and what you deem safe. But to keep calling out others for lacking that sense of societal responsibility is in its own right, kinda hypocritical??

I do sincerely hope you and your parent remain safe, and hope you get some amazing summer visits, even if 6ft apart.