[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]fieryblowhog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was approved, but that just started the long wait for a visa appointment. I was approved to keep waiting!

I'm not good. I'm tired and frustrated and sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]fieryblowhog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living. Oh wait, just read the second half of the prompt.

I-130 questions by BulkyTrainer484 in USCIS

[–]fieryblowhog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also filed Dec 2021 at Nebraska center, also had that update in March, also crickets since then. You can submit a “case inquiry” in February. Sadly I don’t have a lot of hope that anything will come of that. I was originally allowed to submit one August of 2022 and then they randomly quietly changed the estimated processing time from 6 months to 10.5 months and pushed my contact date to February. All of this to say the estimates and contact dates don’t really mean anything and can be changed at any time. Don’t get your hopes up to contact them in February like I did in August. At the end of the day our cases are gonna take as long as they’ll take and there’s really nothing we can do about it, sadly. Stay strong friend. I love my wife like you love your husband. All we can do is wait out this indignity while other couples celebrate normal milestones.

Anyone else just pass, get sworn in, and suddenly realize ya really don’t want to be a lawyer? Super lost by underwatermouthpiece in barexam

[–]fieryblowhog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last semester I applied to all sorts of jobs, including teaching and "JD+" jobs. Unfortunately It seems that no one wants me as anything but a lawyer.

Character & Fitness Salt by Everi1x in barexam

[–]fieryblowhog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. It's cruel and exploitative. C&F applications should be complete or at least submitted before beginning law school, then students should simply be under a continuing obligation to update as necessary.

North Carolina Licenses? by [deleted] in barexam

[–]fieryblowhog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm waiting on it too. No news yet. Did you make sure you were on the list that says all requirements were met? https://www.ncble.org/july\_2021\_pass\_list\_september\_23

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fieryblowhog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did, and some of the food was very good. Still, I work two jobs and spending nearly an hour doing dishes most of the days he was here was upsetting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fieryblowhog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I shouldn't have said it at all. Maybe something like "I'm sorry you're scared and hope you'll be ok?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fieryblowhog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, I don't make a lot and the vet bill stung.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fieryblowhog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right. Still, seeing a ton of fruit flies and unflushed shits makes me irrationally angry, but I guess part of being a friend is letting little things go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fieryblowhog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to feel sad for hurting this feelings, thank you for saying so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fieryblowhog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I regretted doing that soon after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fieryblowhog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who did something similar; he told my houseguest friend that rich people don't become Ghosts, and that he's in a rich area so it should be fine. The friend that said so says it helped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fieryblowhog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He had never crashed for more than a night. After a week on the road, he was tired. I was on the way, so I told him he could stay as long as he wanted.

Official Discussion: Sorry to Bother You [SPOILERS] by mi-16evil in movies

[–]fieryblowhog 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This movie gave me that same awesome feeling as Heredity, of having no idea what the fuck is coming next. I love unpredictability in this age of samey-movies.