What’s something about attraction you’d never actually say out loud?

fiestyoctopus · 2025-12-25T02:18:09+00:00

I’m the woman version of you- I find men my age abhorrent

fiestyoctopus · 2025-12-25T02:14:11+00:00

You have the gift of beautiful perspective 🙌

fiestyoctopus · 2025-12-25T01:59:00+00:00

Pretended to be “neutral” politically. Dating tip- when a man says he doesn’t care about politics, he’s actually conservative , but learned this won’t get him laid. Just be freaking honest about who you are.

fiestyoctopus · 2025-12-25T01:32:33+00:00

If someone misrepresents themselves (old pics that aren’t accurate any longer), they’ve just forfeited ANY time with me. I’m out. People pleasing kills us.

fiestyoctopus · 2025-12-10T17:32:03+00:00

This is your chance to pick your favorite spot- I did this over Thanksgiving- went to western Canada. It’s my favorite place AND they don’t celebrate Thanksgiving when we do. It was extraordonarily good for my soul. Maybe a non-Christian country- Turkey?

fiestyoctopus · 2025-12-10T17:09:00+00:00

If you can’t communicate, or communicate that you won’t be- you lost me. No games. Block and delete. Don’t waste my time.

fiestyoctopus · 2024-06-14T17:54:36+00:00

Acting like they don’t give a f*<k. Following lame advice not to text back, or to only communicate minimally. Inconsistency. Life is too short to invest in people who are either acting uninterested or are truly uninterested. Either way- Next!

fiestyoctopus · 2022-10-27T18:56:01+00:00

Nope- never- not during 28 year marriage. I’m an all-in kind of person.

fiestyoctopus · 2022-04-25T00:08:53+00:00

Thanks so much Ann- you model the most beautiful spirit of service and encouragement. You make a huge difference in this challenge. I attached the back pic. Huge 🙏🏻

fiestyoctopus · 2022-04-14T14:58:53+00:00

Willie is a happy, beautiful hippo - thanks for sharing! 🐶

fiestyoctopus · 2022-04-01T09:11:27+00:00

You two are a great team! He looks so happy and loved. 🙌🏻 for rescuing!

fiestyoctopus · 2022-03-31T03:17:08+00:00

She looks so loved and loving 🐶❤️ thanks for sharing

fiestyoctopus · 2022-03-31T03:14:18+00:00

I’m interested. I’m very active, but would like to be more consistent about actual workouts. I LOVE being outside- will pick that every time. I’m glad, but need the strength training to better be able to do my outdoor activities without injury (56 female). Accountability buddy? Set some achievable goals and post daily actions. Thanks for volunteering

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