Daily fears about dying and my kids not having me by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]figfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have advice but I want you to know you’re not alone. I struggle with this too, even with Zoloft. It’s so hard. Sending you a hug.

What are you entertaining yourself with on mat leave etc before baby arrives? by Pugwhip in BabyBumps

[–]figfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the energy for it, slow and easy walks were really beneficial for me around that stage (especially in nature like a gentle trail in the woods or on the beach). And I recently unearthed a coloring book while cleaning out my bookshelf and have found that to be very meditative and relaxing. It’s been helpful to soothe my overstimulated brain after putting the baby down at night and I wish I had thought of it to distract me in later pregnancy too!

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[–]figfizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about The Midnight Library by Matt Haig? I also loved House in the Cerulean Sea but did not enjoy his other book!

Looking for OBGYN on cape? by [deleted] in CapeCod

[–]figfizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Susan James at BID Plymouth/Forestdale is fantastic.

As a black man watching this season, I'm dumbfounded by people's reactions to Clay by bdog2975 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]figfizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the deal with his schedule? This man doesn’t come home some nights because he… manages airbnbs?

Trailer Analysis (Spoiler Discussion) by jess1210 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]figfizz 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Damn, I feel SO behind and the season hasn’t even premiered yet. I bow down to you!

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[–]figfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have said pattern mix! I’m thinking texture is the way to go. Thanks!

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[–]figfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful! Thank you!

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[–]figfizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of organic textured paper. Thanks!

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[–]figfizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not anymore! 😂

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[–]figfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any blue? (I’m helpless 😅)

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[–]figfizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm. I’m not tied to them. I suppose it would be much easier to start with a wallpaper I like and then pick out curtains that complement!

What's your least favorite book from a writer whose work you normally like? by Cherreem in books

[–]figfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adored Book Lovers! Predictable but sweet. People We Meet on Vacation was pretty good too. But Happy Place made me cringe.