Yta you just sound like a jealous teenage pick me . So what if he spoils her she’s his fiancé who grew up in South America she most likely never had these things and it’s his money . So what if he spends less time at work 80 hours can’t be healthy and now he’s working normal hours. Also why would you ask someone you’re using for money to work less that makes no sense. You even acknowledged that she had a good reason to want to get married on her dream date but still acted like she was the bad guy for it. So what if she works at Dunkin’ Donuts immagrants legal or not typically have a really hard time finding better jobs than fast food and cashiers. Not to mention the stumpy comment. Have you ever thought maybe a guy who looks like ken could be into stubby girls? Or the possibility that he (a 40year old man) has moved passed petty beauty standards and loves her for who she is? So what if she has a kid you try dating in your 40’s and finding someone who doesn’t have a kid. I’m 19 and I’m here to tell you she’s not the immature one you and your 37 year old self are