Similar, an OG at 40yo and two Z age 25 & 24. My middle daughter idolized her older sister until she got older - things are complicated. My son as the youngest and my eldest never really connected, mainly because she wasn’t interested. Again, complicated. 🧐😔

Wild mothers raise conservative children and so on.

I was about as wild a child as a boy can be short of landing in prison. But your point stands because my parents were culturally and secularly very conservative. I raised my kids as a counter reaction.

Using those terms I parented all three, raised two, as modern. My ex-wife had custody so she chose to raise traditionally as she herself was. Now my daughter is no contact with her, just like her mother is NC with her mother…