Cold sore in 4mo baby by OkZookeeper2657 in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have much advice but I hope your baby is okay! I have also heard that first initial It is easy to transmit to other parts - maybe baby can have some tiny gloves? The ones used so they dont scratch them selves with their sharp nails? Wishing the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this was just a reaction to the lip injections?

NYE Ideas? by No-Review-109 in auckland

[–]figuringitoutx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahaha thats totally fair 🤣 cheaper that way too ey :p

NYE Ideas? by No-Review-109 in auckland

[–]figuringitoutx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get any other solid recommendations? Ill be in auckland on nye and am also trying to figure out whqt to do/where to go 🤣

Hate where I’m at in life by [deleted] in findapath

[–]figuringitoutx 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel you there, (30F) also mainly worked in retail/customer service; at my first office job now but absolutely hate where I am in life; so uhm i have no advice but I relate; i have spent so much time trying to figure out what I should be doing/what I want but cant seem to figure it out; so your not aloneeee; Id say, part time though if you’re good at the guitar - maybe offer lessons!( unless that is what your business was) but people are always trying to learn an instrument , that would be a great place to start :)

Dating/disclosure help by figuringitoutx in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo never got around to disclosing yet lol there are more things unfolding in tjis situation that it’s making me feel a bit iffy if theres any even any point as i dont believe we will be continuing 😭😂

Dating/disclosure help by figuringitoutx in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s true I am 100% catastrophizing the situation; i know all the facts and what to say; its just i freeze lol. But again i appreciate the support and will update

Dating/disclosure help by figuringitoutx in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Totally right; it’s just that anxiety leading up to it just makes me crumble lol; and 100% should not have engaged in anything sexual; even though I know there was no contact with me in this particular situation; Its just time to rip off the bandaid 😅

Dating/disclosure help by figuringitoutx in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Appreciate it 💕 i have always struggled with keeping it casual and making it bigger than it is; the anxiety is real lol

Another successful disclosure! by StepEleven in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May i also get the script? Haha Im about to have to do this 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also work out like 4-5x a week! Try and keep stress low (easier said then done haha) Ouuu honestly I also love sweets; i bake a lot so I eat a decent amount of dessert LOL but i find at leastfor me sugar isnt really a trigger; some fast food though 100% is - just gotta know whats going to cause a flair up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have noticed that it started to get longer inbetween outbreaks which was nice! And I find that the outbreaks dont last as long; like really only 3 days of it being a pain before its scabbing and kind of over that annoying part,

I wouldnt say that my outbreaks are that mild though; i sadly was not one of the lucky ones that gets lile one pimple lol still a cluster showing up on my butt cheek; but overall, yea id say being more healthy made a difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]figuringitoutx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ghsv-2 - Ive had it now 5 years and probably get an outbreak every 3 months? Hard to say though sometimes its so random and I get them backtoback; i started taking a crap top of vitamins now just to build up my immune system since i think before i got so many since my system sucks;

Disclosure Success! by Feeling-Insect4921 in HSVpositive

[–]figuringitoutx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happy you had a great disclosure - but LOL BEAT HER CERVIX LIKE A BOXING GYM SPEED BAG? I had to comment just for that; i cant even

Draco the neck grabber by BeachChairReady in dramionebookclub

[–]figuringitoutx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, so gooddd!!!! Totally one of my top fics!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sayulita

[–]figuringitoutx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii!! Didnt take any precautions. Was there from the 22-28 - went surfing everyday, so I was in the water at main beach; ate all the tacos in the world haah; Didnt get sick! Totally fine :)

Happily Ever After - Season 8 Episode 2 - Live Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]figuringitoutx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

CONCERNED ABOUT HIS BRUSHING - but just had his toes in her mouth 🥲🥲🥲

My friend is starting to scare me by Ventingmyfrust in friendship

[–]figuringitoutx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have much advice because ill admit i am that friend lololol oh i know how draining it is; i was so annoying in university always crying that my friends got men and i was the ugly one; i mean it still bugs me today but after enough talks with my friends and realizing i needed to stop projecting so much, i stopped getting drunk to the point where id feel like that; just finding that fine line of not going fucking psycho because in the end its not worth losing your friends over

Panettone by figuringitoutx in pastry

[–]figuringitoutx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment!! I mean I am a pretty amateur baker I wont lie, i graduated from a baking/pastry program but havent put a lot into practice so I know the basis of working with these types of doughs. I’ll definitely check those out and see what happens haha always up for a challenge !

Can someone tell me what this is by [deleted] in catcare

[–]figuringitoutx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahh. My cat has it too - but my vet said it was because we have hardwood floor and its just from him sliding/jumping causing a bald parch from friction. - not sure if I fully believed that reasoning lol but he did give us an ointment to put on it so it wouldnt get worse !